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Post by lydias22 on Feb 10, 2018 21:13:23 GMT
Hello girl. You are so right about family. It really keeps a person going through hard times. I am glad that your husband supports you through all this time. I have seen many couples whose relationship got damaged due to infertility but you are a lucky one. Try to visit a doctor, there are many treatments that can help you out with your infertility. Do not be so hopeless, your problems have many easy solutions.
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Post by elezabeth on Feb 10, 2018 21:44:05 GMT
Your story is very inspiring and just a love. I loved your story, you are very lucky to have a husband like this. He is very supporting, this proves you can deal with any situations by telling truth. Seriously I am also very happy for you that your husband is showing much care for you. It's a fact his support is everything that you need to deal with bad things in this situation. You are not the only who is facing this problem many females are facing such problems so you just no need to worry. I am also trying to have a baby but not getting the desired results. You can find many clinics for infertility problems, Best of luck
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Post by monikaa on Feb 13, 2018 4:11:48 GMT
Hey there! Hope you're doing good. I can totally understand what you're going through. But don't lose hope there are a lot of women who are going through the same situation but constantly fighting. You have the option of going for surrogacy as you've mentioned that your eggs are fertilised. Discuss this with your DH. This procedure will allow you both to be genetically linked as well. Best of luck. All my warm wishes are with you.
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Post by amelia on Feb 13, 2018 20:40:20 GMT
lydias22 you are right. It is more important for a woman when her husband give support to her. In most of the cases, a man feels like it’s not his duty. It’s her fault and she is only responsible for this. So he does not care what he should do about her. This is a harder time for a woman. I was also saying her not to disappoint. Even she is panic about her situation. Stress is also a thing which makes troubles. I think if I keep myself at her place then my thinking and situation will be same as she is now at this time. It feels like everybody is against you and tries to get rid of you. a woman completes when she gets kids around her. This is a special feeling that allows you to fly. Even you can touch the height of the sky. Nobody can live alone. Everybody require or need someone else to condole. Need a shoulder to cry over on.
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Post by alexandradaddario on Feb 17, 2018 11:50:57 GMT
Hey, Adney, sorry to hear about your situation.It is more heartbreaking that you are fertile and still can't conceive.I know for every woman giving birth the ultimate dream. I always wanted a big family. Not being able to conceive is most devastating feeling ever!! I can totally understand the pain you are feeling right now. Because I am dealing with the same stuff.But my problem is that I am not fertile. So it makes me sadder to hear about yours.But trust me you are way luckier than many other women who are not only dealing with this problem but have so much pressure from families.It is great that your husband is supporting you.I got married four years ago. After a year I was concerned to conceive.As I am infertile after a couple of months I regain my confidence and went for IVF treatment.I failed it at two times.Then I improve my health and now my doctors are really hopeful that I will conceive this time.So I just suggest you don't take so much stress.Just try to improve your health and consult specialists. If it still doesn't work then go for surrogacy. Just remain hopeful.Lots of love and take really good care of yourself.
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Post by alexandradaddario on Feb 17, 2018 11:57:54 GMT
Hey, Adney, sorry to hear about your situation.It is more heartbreaking that you are fertile and still can't conceive.I know for every woman giving birth the ultimate dream. I always wanted a big family. Not being able to conceive is most devastating feeling ever!! I can totally understand the pain you are feeling right now. Because I am dealing with the same stuff.But my problem is that I am not fertile. So it makes me sadder to hear about yours.But trust me you are way luckier than many other women who are not only dealing with this problem but have so much pressure from families.It is great that your husband is supporting you.I got married four years ago. After a year I was concerned to conceive.As I am infertile after a couple of months I regain my confidence and went for IVF treatment.I failed it at two times.Then I improve my health and now my doctors are really hopeful that I will conceive this time.So I just suggest you don't take so much stress.Just try to improve your health and consult specialists. If it still doesn't work then go for surrogacy. Just remain hopeful.Lots of love and take really good care of yourself.
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Post by myraward on Jan 24, 2019 16:27:25 GMT
Hi Adney! I hope you are doing well. I feel so bad for you. I know in your condition it's quite risky to try to conceive. So I think you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a great option for people who can't carry their own child. I also surrogacy for both of my babies and it was successful. There's this clinic abroad where I had my treatment, if you are looking for a clinic then contact them. The packages are quite affordable and the treatment is great. The staff is so experienced that you will have nothing to worry about. They will even take care of all your legal matters and even provide you with a place to stay for treatment. I hope this helps you. Good luck! Stay blessed! Stay strong!
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Post by mandy5238678 on Mar 20, 2019 10:06:52 GMT
Hello everyone, for all of us family is the most important factor in one’s life. Family helps you and protects you, no matter what. The family is the one who is always available for you at your one call. Everybody in this world is incomplete without a family. Just like everyone, I also want to have a family. However, the problem is that I cannot start my family with my husband because I am not physically fit it. I am a fertile person. I am suffering from a heart ailment that has restricted me in becoming a mother. After my marriage, my husband found out about my disease. I thought that this disease would create problems with us. Nevertheless, my husband’s reaction was totally opposite as per my expectations. He supported me a lot. He told me that he would love me the same way he already does. My disease will not affect our relationship at all. His support was one of the main sources of my courageous attitude. There are a lot of ways you can treat your infertility. Up to a higher level when you ill start thinking about surrogacy. It is always scary to open up about something like this to your SO. But when you do you usually get really surprised by the amount of support pouring from your loved one. This is what true love is all about. My DH even supported me with taking care of finding a clinic. Of course I was doing my research as well, but he was the one who had found out about WCOB in the first place. and it was a monumental decision.
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Post by hannah on May 29, 2019 23:56:58 GMT
This made me so happy. I am glad that things went well for you. It is indeed very important to have the support of the family. Family is everything during this time. Those who dont have the support find the journey very difficult. Good luck to you. Sending prayers your way.
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Post by monikaa on Aug 10, 2019 0:17:31 GMT
I am happy that your husband is there with you. It is actually very important that you have his support with you in moments like this. When I was diagnosed I myself had a thousand questions in my head. However, things slowly did improve. I am glad that now I am at that stage where even the treatment is working for us. So just make sure to make the right decisions. Choose a good doctor for your process. This will improve everything ten times more.
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Post by hannah on Sept 18, 2019 9:09:51 GMT
Family indeed plays a huge rule throughout the process. If you have their support things actually are different. I know so many people that suffer from mental illness mainly because they are supported. However, in my case the clinic I am visiting has also made a huge difference for me. I was not really happy with how soo many treatments had failed for us. I honestly had decided to close this chapter of life and move ahead. However, it was my husband who made sure I was strong throughout the process. He was the one who found us a clinic. The staff at the clinic were the first ones after such a long time who were positive towards us. They repeatedly told us to not lose hope. They made sure we were on the same page. All of these things really helped us out. I am hoping things persist like this in the future as well. Good luck to you. I hope things go well for you.
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Post by hannah on Nov 14, 2019 16:12:03 GMT
Hey Adney, I hope you are well. You are absolutely right that family plays an important role while on the journey. However, it is really important to visit the right clinic as well. That will make sure that things go well for you. I am saying this from my own experience. Things are going really well for us due to this reason. Hoping for the best now. Good luck to you.
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Post by emmawilson on Nov 16, 2019 13:22:52 GMT
Hello dear. This is heartbreaking that you can never be a mom. Well you are blessed at the same time with a wonderful husband. I know the desire of baby can never be replaced. You will surely get the peace of life with such a wonderful heart.Just think of the women who have no one to support them. I hope you get all you want in your life. Stay blessed.
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