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Post by natalika201 on Jan 10, 2018 12:33:42 GMT
Good afternoon! I'm very glad that you got your happiness. Through such problems, you became the mother of a wonderful boy. You have gone through a very difficult path, made many mistakes in life. If a person has made a decision to believe and expect God's answer to his problem, one must act according to his faith. In one of his books, David Jonggi Cho talks about a woman to whom doctors said she will never have children. But this woman prayed for the child to God.
According to her faith, she even moved furniture in the room and bought a baby cot for a future child. Everyone said that she was crazy. Above her laughed. But she persevered to buy what she needed for the baby. She continued to stand in faith. And God accomplished a miracle. She gave birth to a child in spite of her illness, contrary to circumstances and misunderstanding of others.
"Death and life are at the mercy of the tongue" is spoken in parables 18:22. You can curse words and revive them. Try to always speak the right words in relation to yourself, your body, your family. God never deprives children, on the contrary. He gives them. Children steal the devil. He must resist.
Let us recall two more remarkable examples from the Bible. The mother of the prophet Samuel, who prayed in the temple about the child and promised to give it to the Lord. She poured out her heart before God. She did not pay attention to how it looks in the eyes of people. Another woman - Sarah, the wife of Abraham - gave birth to a child at the age of 90 by the faith of her centenary husband. Although she could not have a child in her younger years. It was a real miracle from the Lord. Abraham was sure and hoped for the Lord. Was obedient to the Lord - and a miracle happened.
The Lord has created a miracle in your life. This woman's prayers now have a child. Take care of it. Do good deeds. Help people who are in such a problem.
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Post by jess007 on Jan 18, 2018 15:12:32 GMT
I think you need to think about surrogate motherhood. I think this can help you. Of course, the birth of a child will make your family stronger. I hope that you will listen to my recommendation. I hope that you will have children and this will make you happier. Tell me please, what options are you considering? I hope for your reply, I will be glad to talk with you. Do not be sad, everything will be fine!
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Post by jess007 on Jan 18, 2018 15:15:39 GMT
Good afternoon! I'm very glad that you got your happiness. Through such problems, you became the mother of a wonderful boy. You have gone through a very difficult path, made many mistakes in life. If a person has made a decision to believe and expect God's answer to his problem, one must act according to his faith. In one of his books, David Jonggi Cho talks about a woman to whom doctors said she will never have children. But this woman prayed for the child to God. According to her faith, she even moved furniture in the room and bought a baby cot for a future child. Everyone said that she was crazy. Above her laughed. But she persevered to buy what she needed for the baby. She continued to stand in faith. And God accomplished a miracle. She gave birth to a child in spite of her illness, contrary to circumstances and misunderstanding of others. "Death and life are at the mercy of the tongue" is spoken in parables 18:22. You can curse words and revive them. Try to always speak the right words in relation to yourself, your body, your family. God never deprives children, on the contrary. He gives them. Children steal the devil. He must resist. Let us recall two more remarkable examples from the Bible. The mother of the prophet Samuel, who prayed in the temple about the child and promised to give it to the Lord. She poured out her heart before God. She did not pay attention to how it looks in the eyes of people. Another woman - Sarah, the wife of Abraham - gave birth to a child at the age of 90 by the faith of her centenary husband. Although she could not have a child in her younger years. It was a real miracle from the Lord. Abraham was sure and hoped for the Lord. Was obedient to the Lord - and a miracle happened. The Lord has created a miracle in your life. This woman's prayers now have a child. Take care of it. Do good deeds. Help people who are in such a problem.  |
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Post by pansy on Jan 31, 2018 16:23:53 GMT
I am so happy to know that you have such a great man as your husband. He is a man you must cherish all your life. I am sure you are not feeling so good. Heart diseases do cause serious issues when conceiving with the patients. Look; why you do not try and figure out other means of having a baby? I was diagnosed with Fallopian tubes blockage. This meant I cannot conceive. Like your husband, my husband supported me yet I wanted to have a baby. I was so frustrated and irritated all the time. I had consulted a number of specialist all recommended me to look in Surrogacy. Today; I have a baby with this process. BioTexCom was the clinic I opted for this process. They have best doctors, medical equipments, medications, techniques, staff, etc. Why don’t you consult with your doctor and have a discussion with your husband? I am sure will still have a hope for having a baby.
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Post by ashley143 on Feb 4, 2018 2:55:36 GMT
hellow dear. you should go for the surrogacy treatment.. i have heard about this clinic in Ukraine. many success stories are related to this clinic. they even have donor egg bank. they even can arrange surrogate for you. and they are affordable. you should look forward to it. i hope you find solution to your problem.  |
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Post by lydias22 on Feb 4, 2018 13:47:28 GMT
Hey there Adney! and all other women as well, thank you so much for starting this thread, and yes absolutely agree 120% with what you have said. As women, the thing we long for most is to have a family of our own to grow and nourish.I was pregnant with my first baby back in 2016, after 14 weeks of pregnancy I met an accident in which I lost my baby and the ability to have one too. I went through multiple procedures of hysteroscopy. The doctor told me it is impossible for me to have another child of my own. I don't really know what else to say and do because, to be honest, I'm still completely shattered on the inside.I have joined multiple clubs but none of them seems to help, tried to get back in my social life but there is no future to it.It really is heartwarming to see all the strong women here sharing their brave story, I wish you all best luck.Currently looking for adoption but I doubt my request would be processed further. Life can be such cruel to us.
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Post by penelope on Feb 4, 2018 14:09:30 GMT
hey there! so sorry to hear about it but could you be more specific about it I mean the disease as many are here and they might be able to help you out may it be the disease cure or the solution to having a family even with your disease.You know life gives you sour lemons but what you must do is to take the sourest one home and turn it into the juiciest ones here you must be hopeless about the family that you ever wanted but this sour lemon has many solutions a few of them is IVF, IUI or surrogacy.These all have made life a hell lot easier for us.I am myself among the people who have no chance of bearing their own child but things got a little brighter after i heard about them.So to help you out you must look into these.Talk to your husband get his views about them, by the look of it he seems very supportive.The internet is filled with information.I wish you best of luck!.
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Post by penelope on Feb 4, 2018 14:11:33 GMT
hey there! so sorry to hear about it but could you be more specific about it I mean the disease as many are here and they might be able to help you out may it be the disease cure or the solution to having a family even with your disease.You know life gives you sour lemons but what you must do is to take the sourest one home and turn it into the juiciest ones here you must be hopeless about the family that you ever wanted but this sour lemon has many solutions a few of them is IVF, IUI or surrogacy.These all have made life a hell lot easier for us.I am myself among the people who have no chance of bearing their own child but things got a little brighter after i heard about them.So to help you out you must look into these.Talk to your husband get his views about them, by the look of it he seems very supportive.The internet is filled with information.I wish you best of luck!.
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Post by elma on Feb 4, 2018 15:56:57 GMT
Hello, I am very glad that you got to find a partner that supports you through this difficult time of your life. It is very too hard to find people like him and to be very honest his support is all that you will be needing. I totally get your idea that everyone wants a complete family, and I exactly know how you feel because I also haven't got to complete my family yet. Sometimes I feel like that it will always remain to be a dream, that can never come true or a wish that can never be fulfilled. I am very sorry to hear about your heart disease, you didn't tell us about your age exactly. Your doctor must have warned you that trying to conceive while having a heart disease can be very dangerous. You should really think about yourself first before making an important decision. You can go for adoption or for surrogacy in your case in order to complete your family and get a baby that you have always been wanting. Both of the procedures will not cost you a lot of physical activity, which makes them completely safe for your heart condition. I hope that you make a wise decision and get to have your happiness.
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Post by amelia on Feb 5, 2018 14:46:41 GMT
hello, adney!!! I read your whole post from starting to till the end. It turned my eyes to tears. The way you have explained about a family. While reading I was expecting that you will share a memory with your family. While moving forward I become too much disappointed. One thing that I will suggest you think over it is a surrogacy option from Ukraine. Maybe you will able to fulfill your desire of having a family. Most of the woman on multiple forums have this issue. A clinic in Ukraine named by biotexcom is offering this type of services. Visit their website and think about that. Thanks a lot!!!
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Post by elma on Feb 5, 2018 21:12:34 GMT
Hello! I am very very happy that you have such a nice husband. I have seen families breaking up due to infertilities issues and I think that is very selfish. You should be very thankful for having a partner like him. I am also infertile but that has not stopped me from finding a nice solution to this ugly problem. You should go out there and search for a solution to your condition. Have you consulted your doctor in order to find some kind of a treatment that can help you with conceiving a child? You can ask us, to be honest, I found the solution to my childlessness on this very forum (solution: surrogacy). Join forums and ask people about their experiences. I am very sure that there are many people out there like you who are going through the same problem. You can PM me too in case you want any kind of treatment suggestion or mental support. We are always here to help you out in every kind of situation. Stay strong.
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Post by alixberlin on Feb 8, 2018 15:49:24 GMT
Hey Adney, I feel so glad to hear that you have a supporting other half. Knowing that you are not the only one suffering have definitely provide a relief for you.Seeing woman's pregnant or carrying babies must be frustrating. But trust me you are still better than a llot of women out there, whose in laws don't support him r husband is not willing to accept the fact, and puts all blame on woman. I can understand your situation because I have struggled like you for years. My husband was suffering from anatomical disease. When I realized that I can't become a mother it was devastating to handle. But than I decide to support him because he would have done same for me if I was infertile.So I did! I never complained but inside it was eating me up. We both started avoiding people because it was somehow unbearable to admit the fact that we can't became parents.But if we have gone, they have asked us so many question about our baby planning. Which was definitely hurting. I always wanted to have a large family. But it is not his fault. After some years, one of my old friend met me.I told her about his infertility and she urges me to go for treatment. Suddenly, I feel like this is my last hope. So I convince my husband and we go for treatment. Doctors were so promising. They told us that we have bright chances of conceiving. I agreed for IVF. And after some months I conceived. And now my husband loves me even more, because I was with him when he needed me.So this motivational support makes your struggle 100 times easy for you. I suggest you to give it a try. May be you will be lucky enough to conceive as I was. Surrogacy is also rightful option. Decide it yourself by consulting experts. I wish you will become mommy soon.
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Post by penelope on Feb 8, 2018 17:18:29 GMT
hey, dear such nice and so positive thoughts that you shared I really believe in the same.The family is the only thing that will always have our backs no matter what.And seeing that you have such an awesome person as your husband really I envy you.Not many get a chance to share such a beautiful bond with their spouse.I am sorry to hear about your ailment but if you are fertile why don't you go for other procedures like IVF, IUI or surrogacy for your baby.Not having a child if you are not okay is not an option.Keep it in mind always.So much love to you.Good luck!
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Post by amelia on Feb 9, 2018 16:44:52 GMT
hello, isabelmason!!! I read your post and I am really sorry for such a huge loss. You are divorced twice it’s sufficient for a lady to live without her desire. It seems like she is not living but spending or passing her life days. It’s not your fault. You had a diseased in past and now you are fully recovered. Dear, why are you blaming yourself. Now a day it is not a big issue. You know it’s pretty common things in couples that they can’t ovulate. It’s due to hormonal imbalance and this imbalance is due not eating healthy and pure diet. Having information about sex before their age. Media the impact is too much in this matter. So leave it. The solution is you can adopt a child or have a treatment.You should go for IVF or surrogacy. Don’t lose hope and think about cutting your veins. Although it has happened today
Is the era of technology and science? Hope for the best and prepare yourself for the worst things. Bye bye, and take care dear!!!!
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Post by amelia on Feb 9, 2018 17:12:10 GMT
hello emmaspencer2419!!! Hope so you are fine. I read your post and should say congratulation for your sister. As you are also married so have a happy life and enjoy your time with your beloved. But I am sorry when I heard that you had a treatment and never have success. It’s a good thing that your husband supports you and ready to stand with you. I am also an infertile lady and looking for some treatment. Although I have searched for many other alternatives and surrogacy is the top of it. So I suggest divert your mind in such direction and mold your thinking. Go to some clinic and have an appointment. So best of luck!!!
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