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Post by isabelmason on Oct 3, 2017 22:28:17 GMT
Hello, I am Isabel. I am from Canada. I had cancer in my early age. And due to that, I lost fertility. I was married twice and divorced just because I cant produce a baby. Infertility is not just a curse it just ended my life in a few years. I'm single but depressed a lot. I cry daily just because I am living with this infertility. You all know what it's like not to have a baby of your own. I never had any wish I just wanted a baby but that’s what is written in my destination will happen. My marriage broke just because I couldn’t produce a child my both of the husbands never supported me and left me in pain. Today it's been many many years I am here talking to you about my issue but there is only one thing in my mind that I cant produce a baby of my own and that thing is killing me. I am not responsible for all this then why me? I didn’t choose this life it was given to me, and I am living it. I just wanted a baby of my own which I can love and paper every single day. But my wish is just a wish to me
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Post by selinadylan247 on Oct 4, 2017 12:45:28 GMT
Hello Andey. Sorry about not replying sooner.Its nice to see you interacting with others. Talking about it makes the pain seem a lot less. Try to be patient with this. This is a test in your life from God. God will help you through it. Though I have not gone through what you speak of, I sympathize with you. This is a big burden to shoulder. So try to take it easy. And most importantly, love yourself. You cannot be ready to care for a baby if you can't care for yourself. I am glad that your family is supportive of you. If there is anything else worth sharing, please do so. All the best my dear
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Post by isabelmason on Oct 5, 2017 19:17:07 GMT
Hello! It's Isabel Mason. I am analyzed as a barren lady. I have endured extraordinarily in my life. This misery is the greatest. I am not ready to adapt it up. Indeed, I need to. I am at present experiencing dejection and tension. I feel myself alone. I revile myself for being nonserious in my life. I have' not got any guiding session yet, but instead, I will get one. Perhaps it could enhance my experience. I need to have information about it. Plz, enable me to out. I likewise have recuperated as of late from ovarian malignancy. My better half is extraordinarily living and care. I don't know how however I need to see him content with our child. I wish...
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Post by adney on Oct 8, 2017 18:52:20 GMT
Hi, Eve, I am happy to know about your pregnancy. I know not being able to conceive lead you towards stress. However, if your partner is supportive than it is amazing factor that can help you come out of stress. Surrogacy is the best option one can opt for. I hope your pregnancy go very smooth. I wish you best of luck for your delivery. Enjoy your pregnancy before your little one comes into this world.
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Post by lolita on Oct 16, 2017 18:25:50 GMT
Wow! Your story is amazing. You know, your husband is a real treasure. You should be proud of him. I wish every woman in the world could have such a supporting and loving husband. The only thing I can say for sure is that you are a family! You have already started your family. There are a lot of infertile women, which have no support. A lot of families divorce because of infertility. You are so lucky to have such a huge support.
So, dear, even if you are unable to give birth, it doesn’t mean that you can’t become a mom. There are a lot of ways to become parents without being pregnant. Have you been thinking of adoption or surrogacy? There are so many kids in the adoption centers, which are waiting for their parents. Why don’t you adopt one of them? But first, you should discuss this option with your husband. I know a lot of men, which are against the adoption. As usual, men want their kids to be genetically related to them. For example, my husband didn’t want to adopt. He said that he would better live without kids than adopt. That’s why we have chosen the surrogacy. Our surrogate is pregnant now. So, I can say that we are “expecting”.
I always wanted to have a lot of kids. Unfortunately, I’m unable to get pregnant. But I didn’t give up. My husband also supported me and helped to find the reproduction center. I really appreciate him for his help.
I think you should talk to your DH about surrogacy. Why not to use every single chance to become parents? I wish you to enlarge your family asap, dear.
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Post by anyees on Oct 31, 2017 19:41:35 GMT
Hi Adney, hope you are doing better now. Have you consulted the doctor about your health progress? I am glad that your husband supported you even after knowing about your disease. You cannot get pregnant when you are suffering from a disease. It might risk your life. Have you thought of any other ways to have a baby? I have my personal experience with surrogacy. I would recommend you to go for it as it will help you to have your biological child.
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Post by rohmat on Nov 20, 2017 8:43:17 GMT
"Hey Adney,
I am so happy for you that you find such an amazing person as your life partner who doesn’t let your disease affect your relationship. It’s a blessing to find such humans. You should know that you are not alone. A lot of people are infertile but they still have a family. There are alternate ways you can have a family of your own. Like adopting a baby, IVF, Surrogacy, etc. You can choose whatever you want to.
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Post by luckymom on Nov 28, 2017 19:37:17 GMT
Hello, dear. So, are you going to do something to become parents? If you really want to have kids, you should keep looking for solutions. I really hope that you didn’t give up. It is the worst thing you could do.
I am also infertile but I found the way to become a mother. I entered the surrogacy program. I am waiting for the result of the embryo transfer at the moment. Surrogacy is available for every infertile couple. If your eggs are still valid, the baby born will be genetically related to you.
If you don’t mind raising someone’s baby, you can adopt. As for me it is also a great option for couples. No medical treatment needed. Just go to the adoption center and claim for the baby. It doesn’t matter what you choose, just don’t give up. Good luck.
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Post by diannaprince on Nov 29, 2017 21:47:23 GMT
Hi Adney! Your courage is plausible. It's right that family is important. Without family, or should I rather say in this context that without children, we all feel incomplete. Have you considered any alternative ways of giving birth? The most popular is surrogacy. Do you know how it's done? If not, let me know and I'll give you all details.
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Post by kagneyseal on Nov 30, 2017 7:20:09 GMT
Hello Adney! So sorry to hear about your disease. You are such a lucky woman that your husband still loves you after knowing your disease and knowing this that you can't be a mother. And yes, you are right, family is everything dear and I wish you will have your own family very soon. What if you can't be a mother? Do you know you are living in a society where we are having solution of every problem. Surrogacy, IUI, IVF. Donor eggs etc. these are some ways that can help you in getting a beautiful family. I know a clinic because I personally visited there for my fertility issues. They are providing all these services with high success rates. Let me share the link of clinic with you. You will never regret your decision. biotexcom.com/services/ |
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Post by nancygadot on Nov 30, 2017 18:47:22 GMT
Hi Adney. I feel sad after reading your post. What sort of heart disease are you suffering from? Cannot it be treated? Your husband is an amazing man. I am glad that he supported you. What does your doctor say about your disease? I hope you recover from the disease.
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Post by payton256 on Dec 3, 2017 8:00:25 GMT
Hello there. I'm so sad to hear that. Family sure is important.I hope it wasn't this hard for couples to start a family. However, you can't change fate. It is what it is. The best you can do is try to find an alternate option. Lucky for you there are other options. On top of the list is adoption. Have you considered this? There are so many children out there looking for a family. Just like you. Do think about that. Talk to your husband too. It is nice that he is so supportive of you. Hope you manage to get the family you dream of.
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Post by gemmawiller on Dec 3, 2017 17:13:36 GMT
Hi Adney! Sorry to hear that. It sure is unfortunate. You are right how important a family is. I can understand how disappointed you must be. However, all hope is not lost. We live in a word where science has progressed so much. There are other ways to have a child too. Have you heard about surrogacy? You heart condition makes it impossible for you to carry a child. However, with surrogacy, you don't need to carry your child. You can simply have someone else carry your child. It's not as straightforward as that, of course. However, this is the basic idea. Let me know if you want more information. I would love to help you out.
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Post by gemmawiller on Dec 5, 2017 17:08:45 GMT
Hi Adney! Sorry to hear that. It sure is unfortunate. You are right how important a family is. I can understand how disappointed you must be. However, all hope is not lost. We live in a word where science has progressed so much. There are other ways to have a child too. Have you heard about surrogacy? You heart condition makes it impossible for you to carry a child. However, with surrogacy, you don't need to carry your child. You can simply have someone else carry your child. It's not as straightforward as that, of course. However, this is the basic idea. Let me know if you want more information. I would love to help you out.
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Post by smarty on Dec 12, 2017 21:04:13 GMT
Infertility is a real stress for every woman. I know it because I spent a couple of years ttc with no result. As thousands of women nowadays we had to find the surrogate to help us. It was a very difficult decision. I always dreamed to give birth. Unfortunately it was impossible for me. But I’m glad that we didn’t give up. Our baby is a real miracle. We love him so much. I have almost forgotten that I didn’t give birth. I’m just glad to be a mother.
I’m sure you will find the way to become parents. It is very important to stay strong. Any reproduction center will be glad to help you. I wish you all the best.
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