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Post by marype on Jul 7, 2017 3:41:52 GMT
Hi ladies! I am here looking for some advice. I am now TTC for a long time (a year now) but I’ve been really disappointed because it’s been really hard and it just doesn’t happen. I’ve been under a lot of stress because of a strong family problem since the last two years and I think maybe that has something to do about it (I am on edge almost all the time really  ) but I don’t really know what should I do. Has someone dealt with a similar situation? |
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Post by kimd123 on Jul 14, 2017 5:29:08 GMT
Hi! well obviously your stress problem has something to do about your problem in TTC. I think that you should go and make an appointment with your doctor and tell him your worries, or maybe the best is to see a specialist that can help you in this situation and he surely knows best what to try or what not in TTC.
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Post by humahony on Nov 9, 2017 13:29:49 GMT
Good day everyone, Welcome new member, you have to fight bad moments in your life to earn something good. It's really sorrowful to know that you have been through so much. Depression also leads to infertility. Try to solve your family problems and relax. Talk to your partner. His support is very necessary. You can't fight alone, emotional and moral support is integral.
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Post by mexge on Nov 9, 2017 13:52:45 GMT
Hi dear. Yes, stress can make it difficult. I would suggest trying to sort out the family issue first. Consult a professional if the stress is hard to manage. Stress can strongly impact your chances of conception. Emotional and mental well-being is so important. Without them, conception becomes several times harder.
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Post by joslynmoyer on Nov 9, 2017 14:02:12 GMT
Don't get stressed, please. It's probably the contributory factor here. You should visit a specialist and tell them your fears. How old are btw? Please visit the doc and let us know how did it go.
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Post by marion34 on Dec 17, 2017 22:27:09 GMT
Stress is a big enemy when we think about having a baby. It's not the biggest reason for infertility but it's the most common reason which stopping us to get pregnant. It seems to be hard to relax. All around you tells you to relax but more you try, it's getting worst. It's because you think about it all the time. No matter how hard it is try not think only about it. Good luck dear. I wish you all the best.
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Post by joddy on Dec 27, 2017 20:59:16 GMT
Hi! I hope you are in better position right now. Stress can be difficult but you can defeat it. Try to relax when ever you can. I know, it's easy to say, but only that can help you. Think positive no matter what. Worry will not do any good to you. Stress can impact on fertility or in health in general. So, only you can do is to avoid stress as much you can.
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Post by lucero on Dec 31, 2017 20:10:59 GMT
Stress may have impact on fertility. It' doesn't mean that stress is the only problem in your case. Still, I think that you shouldn't worry. Relax as much as you can. You may talk to your doctor. Maybe it's a good time for you and your husband to do the tests. If it is something wrong it's better to know. I know that you hear this all the time but I must say, try to relax.
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Post by luckymom on Jan 13, 2018 22:52:56 GMT
Unfortunately, stress really influences our health in a bad way. The best recommendation for you is to calm down. You should understand that stress is destroying your life. Do you want to keep living like this? I’m sure you don’t.
So, try to change your lifestyle. As an option, you can start visiting the psychologist. He helped me to cope with my infertility problem. You should understand that you are not alone with this issue. A lot of women around the world spend years ttc unsuccessfully. It is very important to calm down and start doing something. Modern medicine is really powerful. Doctors are doing their best to help infertile couples. IVF and surrogacy are getting more and more popular nowadays. These services give a real chance to become parents even after long years ttc. I just entered the surrogacy program and I’m waiting for the embryo to be transferred. I hope everything will be fine. I have chosen a good clinic and I like my doctor. He said that I have a huge chance to get a baby within the next 10 months. To say truth, I’m very nervous. But I’m really happy, at the same time. I feel so excited. I’ve heard a lot of successful surrogacy stories. I believe that everything will be fine.
I wish you to stop worrying. As soon as you calm down, you will get a chance to conceive. Try to consult several fertility specialists. I’m sure they will help you to figure out the reason of your infertility. It is very important. Hope you will find the solution, dear. I wish you good luck.
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Post by jonyhony on Jan 20, 2018 15:34:13 GMT
This is a good thing mostly to many men. There is also a hope for there fertility. let all stand to support this issue in with a full force. When we do this we can move to the un believable. even the thing\s that we cannot think we can achieve together. We will be able to fight stress that come as a result of challenges in our life. When one is helped and encourage to face his/her stress, it become a strong hold
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Post by jaseka on Jan 20, 2018 16:00:54 GMT
Oh yeah! I can relate your case. I know how hard and difficult it is. TTC is such a big issue of a life nowadays. I myself have had tried nearly 5 years. Later, I had to go for an IVF to Ukraine. Because I was tired aff...I realized that I wasn't able to do it naturally. So, it helped me a lot as I conceived through it in my second round of the IVF.
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Post by pansy on Jan 31, 2018 16:14:54 GMT
Sometime; the people closest to us can be quite tactless. I had faced similar issues when I was informed that I cannot conceive. These mentioned “closet people” celebrated their kids’ birthday party in my own lawn. Can you believe it? All the stress and depression I was feeling at that time yet I have to smile and act like nothing is killing me inside. This was one of the toughest times I had to control myself and not just die. I can totally understand your pain. I have recently opted for Surrogacy from BioTexCom. Have you given any thoughts to such procedures and treatments? If not; you can give your time in researching now. It is guaranteed that the outcome of surrogacy is 98% positive. You can even have a gender selection option as well. I hope you get better.
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Post by twinkle34 on Feb 9, 2018 11:12:29 GMT
Hello all, My husband and I had not the easiest time to getting pregnant. I was suffering a lot about getting positive test..when I get pregnant facing horrible miscarriage.all my hopes going down by down but still trying to gain it.things are quite difficult for both of us...we don't want this kind of miserable life without having children.every day we start with new hope and pray that one day we will make it possible..at last, two days before we got it.just wait and hope this time it will happen.
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Post by lydias22 on Feb 9, 2018 17:54:21 GMT
What you need to do is stop stressing about the things in your life that are not in your control. Stressing about a situation like 'what if' or 'what about' will simply worsen the case. Go see a therapist, try meditation and yoga. Also, try to share your worries and problems with a friend. let out the sad thoughts and burdening fears. As said, you attract what you think. Thoughts are the frequencies by which you attract what you love or fear the most. TTC is not bad. Try to calm down, it'll help you in the long run. Every day is a new opportunity and a new page in life. Stress is your enemy here. It disturbs the overall cycle hence affecting your ability to conceive and has an impact on fertility. Try changing your routine. Include hobbies and understand that there are people going through worse situations. You are still blessed. To be honest and sorry if I'm being to frank trying for a year is just the beginning. I've seen couples being blessed after 15-17 years. Just believe in the journey you have started and it will reach prosperity one day. And try living a happy life 🙂 I wish you all the best
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Post by penelope on Feb 10, 2018 21:01:32 GMT
hey girl.I totally understand your situation dear.the depression of not having a baby even after you have been trying everything is really hard to bear but with the pressure from the families to have a child as soon as possible it worsens it.The only support needed is from your family and the only thing that they can give is not given really breaks one's heart.For you, i would suggest that stay calm.These things are a natural phenomenon and I have seen people getting lucky even after decades of trying and yours is only a few years girl.Take some time and think about the happiness you will have after the wait.Be hopeful for the future ahead.If still you are not satisfied by yourself you must go to a doctor and ask for his advice.Jumping to conclusions is never a healthy opinion.Give things some time.DO something productive in the meanwhile also do not stop trying.Meditation and some peaceful massages might help you out in this situations and whoever pressurizes you just tell them to pray for you simple.There is nothing better than that.
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) but I don’t really know what should I do. Has someone dealt with a similar situation?