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Post by elezabeth on Feb 10, 2018 21:35:36 GMT
Welcome to this forum, There are lot of supporting people who are always ready to help you out. Feel free to share your stories. I read and i am getting emotional after reading your post. I hope you are not taking too much stress. This can cause serious problem in your life, both in pregnancy and normal life. What you have to do is to fight bad moments in your life to achieve good results in your life. It's really sad to know that you have been through so much and many more to come in your life. It's a fact depression also leads to infertility and it effects health and mental condition. I know it's not the only reason of infertility, there are lot of other causes but it's the most common reason which is effecting many couples.
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Post by amelia on Feb 11, 2018 14:34:00 GMT
hey marype!!! I can understand your situation because I am also in the same boat. You are too much stressful like I am. At every morning I use some words to prepare myself for these difficult situations. So I would like these words with you that no you are not a coward lady. You can do it and one day everything will be ok. Prayers are invisible but make things visible. Our task is very simple just make prayers and wait for the right time. A lot of hugs for you!!!
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Post by monikaa on Feb 13, 2018 4:11:10 GMT
Hey there. I can totally understand you! Sometimes in life, we are going through so much of stress that we cant cope up with it. However, in order to conceive you really need to be in a good mindset. In a positive place away from all the negativities. Anyways, I think the first thing you should really do is visit a doctor! Ask him/her to do your tests and let you know what the problem. There are various treatments that you could opt for so don't need to worry. Keep your hopes high. Be strong!
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Post by rita233 on Feb 17, 2018 9:21:50 GMT
Hey marype, it is disheartening to hear what you are going through. As a mother, my prayers and best wishes are with you. Stress, as many here have pointed out, is a major hurdle in TTC. I know, as easy as it seems to suggest someone to be strong and keep fighting, it is even more stressful, to not think about the negatives. I really think, the best advice you could get is the one from a consultant,or a fertility specialist. The more you focus on the delay in conceiving, the more stressful it will get. As someone who has battled depression in the past, I can say this is not the end. Things will get better for sure. Don't be afraid to fight the mountain of problems, issues - take it one at a time. Start with living healthier lifestyle. It is essential when you're trying to conceive. Also, don't let failed attempts at ttc affect your daily life. Know that, you will be able to conceive. And nothing can stop you from becoming a mother.
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Post by selenajones on Feb 17, 2018 12:26:39 GMT
Hi ladies! I am here looking for some advice. I am now TTC for a long time (a year now) but I’ve been really disappointed because it’s been really hard and it just doesn’t happen. I’ve been under a lot of stress because of a strong family problem since the last two years and I think maybe that has something to do about it (I am on edge almost all the time really  ) but I don’t really know what should I do. Has someone dealt with a similar situation? You don't have to be like that dear! I know it's a hard time for you. But, I myself have been there. Now, I am going for an IVF. Don't be disappointed with it. There are still way in life. Try IUI, IVF...It might help you. I am also opted for one IVF round later this year at a clinic in Ukraine. I've been referred by someone...I've seen someone having successful result thought it. Now, I am trying my luck! You should also go for it. |
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Post by amelia on Feb 18, 2018 8:22:54 GMT
ladies I am feeling hopeless. Because I want to start my TTC but fear is not giving me consent to do that again. It seems like negative OPK is waiting for my trial. But I have found a solution to say it no. everything will be fine just keep patience and make efforts with good and real zeal. Every woman is brave. YY, you can do it, ladies. Just build up your stamina to compete with it. You are much stronger than OPK negative line because she is single and we are in majority. So don’t be afraid and let’s have TTC once again.!!!
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Post by twinkle34 on Feb 19, 2018 4:18:43 GMT
Hello everyone.My husband and I were trying to conceive last 6 months.In these months we are feeling depressed and upset.I am fertile and my husband is too much fine.Now, I worried what is wrong with me.I quite fine and good. I had an appointment when I feel my feelings are changed.I hope that I get pregnant.but having the scan, I find it negative.I am feeling low and upset.It's all about my 3rd time when I received that negative scan.The main thing my gynecologist suggests me that is cool down, be calm and relax.she told me that stress is really badly hit your pregnancy.I am trying that now there is nothing like that.I became strong and start trying with better luck.The most important thing I follow in this pregnancy is relaxing your body and avoid the stress.Hope for best and positive.
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Post by piya22 on Feb 19, 2018 6:31:40 GMT
Hello there, I have been in the same place as you. And thus, I understand how it feels to have been TTC for a long time without any success. After consulting with a fertility specialist,I discovered that I couldn't be stimulated and thus can't opt IVF. I was shattered, but there was hope when the consultant told me about surrogacy. I was lucky enough to find the right clinic for surrogacy. I am a very happy mother today and ready to help any woman who wants to conceive.
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Post by rose23 on Feb 26, 2018 3:03:14 GMT
Hi there, Well it seems allot. But you know you never give confirmation of these things. Normally things go well way before than that. In some cases it happens also. I think you need a checkup. A proper inspection from a specialist. Well it's not the thing you got to worried about because it's normal for some cases. A friend of mine got pregnant after the 3 years of trying. So it happens all the time out there. You just need to get relaxed and never get any tension. What's happening is good for you. Try to consult with the specialists. Of course there is going to be some tests and if some problem is out there. You'll find it. which I hope is not there.
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Post by twinkle34 on Feb 27, 2018 14:30:52 GMT
Hey beautiful lady.I am also in the same boat.I have been trying for 3 years.In these years, I am trying medication and treatment.I am so upset and depressed why life is doing with me.I am desperate to have the kid in my life.We all knew without kids life is incomplete.There is no life and happiness without them.Dear every good thing take time.Without struggle, we cannot achieve any success.Keep your thoughts up and positive.I knew with longtime struggle.Everyone becomes very depressed and heartbroken.I have got the positive result through surrogacy.My doctor said that I could not conceive naturally.After that, we move from this process in Ukraine and get my baby.I have returned back with my little angel.
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Post by elma on Feb 27, 2018 18:53:39 GMT
Aww, I am so sorry. It is really hard for you. I hope that the family problem gets ok. You are going through so much right now. Try to stay away from negativity. Focus on your health. With good health, you would be able to conceive easily. Try searching for treatments such as IVF and IUI. They would help you out.
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Post by lolita on Feb 28, 2018 20:49:50 GMT
Nowadays stress became one of the most popular reasons of health problems. The only thing you should do is to calm down. It is really great that you decided to get pregnant. Kids change our lives. Unfortunately, a lot of women have problems while getting pregnant. I thought that my life was over when I found out about my infertility. I really hope that you still have a chance to conceive, dear. Every woman is worth of having kids. I’m very glad that modern world offers a lot of ways to solve this issue.
First of all, you have to talk to your doctor. After long tests and examinations you will figure out if you still have a chance to conceive. There’s a chance that you might need some kind of treatment. Even if you hear bad news you shouldn’t give up. For example, our first baby was adopted. We really wanted to become parents that’s why we found an adoption center. It took us a couple of years to get a baby. I know that a lot of people don’t want to adopt. I understand why it happens. People want to have their biological babies. In this case surrogacy can be a great solution. We decided to enlarge our family again. Our surrogate is pregnant at the moment. So, we are about to become parents again soon.
I’m not saying that surrogacy or adoption is your only options. I recommend you to talk to the fertility specialist. You have to figure out the reason of your infertility. After that you will have to choose the solution.
Anyway, I wish you good luck whatever you decide. I want you to become a mom asap. It is such an amazing feeling. I’m sure you will be a great mother.
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Post by isabeljones on Feb 28, 2018 21:28:03 GMT
Hey Mary! I hope you are doing good sweetie. So you are ttc and nothing is happening. It happened to me too. The main reason for that I think is your stress. It's obvious. Stress is even a major cause of infertility. Try to reduce stress hon! Go for a walk in the morning or a jog. Do yoga. It will help you reduce some stress too. And it will also increase your endurance. Do some exercise and get a healthy lifestyle. But it's also better to visit a doctor asap. Because sometimes they are many other little things that are getting in the way of this. Best of luck. I hope everything turns out okay. Much Love!
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Post by marianna on Sept 14, 2018 13:30:39 GMT
Hi. I'm new here, just came across this post and read it. Well, hun trying for a year is not that long, huh? I'm sure you're young, at least younger than me, and you don't have to worry yet. Like other members saud, it may be stress that caused this or some other reason. Have you done ovulation test? What if you are trying at the wrong time? I'm 45 and I can't conceive naturally and this is a fact I believe in, so won't even ask a doctor about my chances.
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Post by monikaa on Sept 26, 2018 20:10:14 GMT
Hey, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I know it can get really hard to deal with soo many problems all at once. I myself have been diagnosed with infertility and it has been the most difficult thing to deal with. However, my advice to you would be to not give up! The previous doctors I was visiting were very discouraging and told me that nothing would work for me. I was even told that assited conceptions would have a very low chance of suceess. However, my family didnt want me to give up, they kep searching for better clinics. We finally did find one, a few days back. The clinic was very kind to invite us for free, for the first visit. Before visting them we had to choose between the standard and vip package. We opted for the standard package as it fulfilled all our requirements and was reasonable. On visiting them for the first time I was given hope. The doctor after studying my case reassured me that things could work. We were suggested IVF or surrogacy with DE. I would suggest you to research properly as well.
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) but I don’t really know what should I do. Has someone dealt with a similar situation?