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Post by priyaangel2587 on Sept 20, 2017 16:00:56 GMT
Hello Christine, I am sorry to hear about your issue and I can understand that it is a very unfortunate problem that you are facing. It is always very hard and sad moments when you face the problem of infertility in your life. First of all you should not lose hope and happiness because of this issue. It is a good thing that you are sharing your problem with us and I hope you will find good treatment solution and good advice with members of this forum. If you want to find good treatment solution for infertility, I will suggest you visit any certified and reliable infertility clinic or reproduction centre. When I was also facing this issue in my life, I got good health with IVF treatment solution. Medical Science is very advanced now and you will find many infertility clinics all over the world. In my personal opinion, I will suggest you to find any good and certified infertility clinic in Ukraine. I also visited Ukraine with my husband to find treatment solution and now I am blessed with a beautiful baby. I am living happy and beautiful life with my family now. I wish that you can also visit that clinic to find good treatment solution with IVF. It is never a good option to give up and you should keep trying to find this beautiful happiness in your life. I know that you are a strong woman and you will fight with this infertility problem for sure. My blessings are with you and I know that you will get good news and good treatment solutions soon. Best of luck for your future and you will be blessed with a beautiful baby.
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Post by sofiaa on Nov 10, 2017 16:21:02 GMT
Hello. I am sorry to hear that. As a nurse, your situation is highly unlucky. Now, about the options available to you. Is your womb unaffected? The fallopian tubes are the only part that has been affected? Do you have cysts in both tubes or one? If it is just one, then you can still ovulate normally from the other ovary. However, if you have them on both then it could be a problem. You might need to consider getting an egg retrieval. Alternately, you can go for donor eggs. As your husband’s sperm count is normal, that shouldn’t be a problem. You can then go for IVF. Good luck! Let me know if you have more questions.
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Post by marry on Nov 10, 2017 16:53:41 GMT
Hello Christine. Welcome to this forum. I hope you manage to find the answers you are looking for. I have heard of cysts in the ovaries. PCOS as it is called. This is the first time I am hearing of cysts on the tubes. I hope you recover fully. Reading your post, I think you aren’t focusing on finding a cure. Instead, you are trying to find a way around the situation. My dear, you must know how dangerous that is. Leaving the cysts untreated can be problematic. IVF or not, this decision comes later. First, you need to see how you can get rid of the cysts. I hope you understand this. Good luck!
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Post by Perera on Nov 10, 2017 16:56:03 GMT
Hello. That is most unfortunate. I think you should seek treatment for the cysts. You are a nurse so you know that already. The sooner you start treatment, the better. Otherwise, the situation might deteriorate. Once you have this issue sorted, you can resume your efforts to conceive. I hope that is all you need. If that doesn’t resolve the matter, then you can opt for IVF. Your husband’s sperm count shouldn’t be a problem. It is normal. However, I feel that you should consult him about this too. Tell him about your situation. Hopefully, he will understand. IVF or whatever treatment option you go for isn’t easy. You will need the support.
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Post by giorgia3 on Nov 10, 2017 17:16:41 GMT
Hi dear. I am sorry to hear that. As a nurse, you need to be more careful. You work in a dangerous environment. The chance of picking up a disease is high. I commend your courage. It is highly admirable. Now, about IVF. That should not be a problem. Seeing as how your husband’s sperm count is normal, IVF should be a straightforward process for you. The problem though is egg retrieval. The cysts might interfere with that. Consult a fertility specialist for this. Have you considered opting for donor eggs? Even surrogacy can be a viable option.
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Post by Melissa on Nov 10, 2017 17:59:30 GMT
Hello Christine, a hug for you from my side. I know it's sometimes hard to accept the reality, but the sooner you accept it the better it is. Because the acceptance of the problem will lead to its solution. First, discuss your problems with your husband. After that try looking the options you have. IVF is a blessing for women throughout the world. However, solutions like surrogacy are nowadays are easily reachable. Consider going to Ukraine. Their top class service is commendable. Every person has a right to be a parent and for that Ukraine is the best option. They have all sorts of treatments and packages which you can choose from.
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Post by honyeliat on Nov 10, 2017 18:25:56 GMT
I really appreciate that you are concerned about your health. This will definitely help you in future. You should maintain this in the future. Your nursing job will make you learn a lot about your disease. As you ask per my advice you should consult a clinic. It will help you find the real cause of your disease. They will go through some tests and will let you know what you are actually going through. As per decision for IVF you should ask the doctors at the clinic about this step. They will help you go through this. My aunt went to the same clinic. I hope this will work out for you too.
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Post by humahony on Nov 10, 2017 19:15:46 GMT
Hey Christine. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. I wish I had some sort of superpower to end infertility from this world. I wonder how nature plays with everyone. People who are blessed with babies are going for abortions. The people who do not have babies literally cry just because they want to be parents. I wish there was a balance between this ratios. I wish that babies should be taken from those people who don’t want them. Those babies should be given to those who cry for babies. This way there could be a balance. I know it’s unrealistic but this is what I want. Yes, you can go for IVF. Please don’t be upset. I wish your desire of becoming a mother is fulfilled soon. I wish you best of luck.
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Post by anyees on Nov 10, 2017 19:55:18 GMT
Hi Christine. I feel bad about your condition. I am glad that you chose this forum to discuss your issue. You will be getting many valuable advises from here. I am sure you will get the best solution for your problem. What did your doctor say about your disease? Have he told you about the cure? I am sure you will be able to have a baby. I think you should tell this to your husband. You are his wife. He must know what you are going through in your life. It is your duty to tell her. It is his right to be aware of your well being. I think you should go for IVF if your husband sperm count is normal. Keep me updated on yourself.
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Post by mehwishhony on Nov 10, 2017 20:12:14 GMT
Hey, how are you? I wish to help you in the best possible ways. You must go for IVF. IVF is the best safe way for infertility. NOT just IVF but Surrogacy also helps out the best for infertility. Tell the situation to your husband with love. He will for sure understand the situation. I know a clinic in Ukraine which gives out the best surrogacy and IVF procedures. They have very amazing and pocket-friendly packages. Go for surrogacy or IVF. First, ask the rates from different clinics in your country then decide the one. Don’t hide from your husband. My prayers are with you. Take care of yourself.
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Post by jonyhony on Nov 10, 2017 20:33:34 GMT
Hello Neophyte, how are you? You will be fine soon regarding your kidney problem If God wills. Sometimes the kidney problems affect the functioning of the hormones. The outcomes of mother pregnancy with kidney disease become harmful sometimes. It may result in progression to ESRD, preeclampsia, cerebral palsy etc. I think you aren’t focusing on finding a cure. Instead, you are trying to find a way around the situation. My dear, you must know how dangerous that is. Leaving the cysts untreated can be problematic. IVF or not, this decision comes later.You must have a check and balance on your diet and nutrition. It might not be possible for you to conceive in a natural way. All I can suggest you in this situation is Surrogacy. Surrogacy will let someone else carry your baby. The use of surrogate mothers is high with infertile. Also, it is very useful with mothers suffering from kidney diseases like you. I am suggesting this because I myself have been through this process of surrogacy. I took surrogacy procedure from a clinic in Ukraine and I am very satisfied with them. Their packages are quite amazing and pocket-friendly. I wish you very best of luck.
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Post by ellaoty5 on Nov 10, 2017 21:30:45 GMT
Hi Christine! You are going through the difficult phase of your life and I need you to be strong to face all these problems. There are a few chances that you can be right about the issue you think you are having. But if the doctors have told you that nothing is there to worry then I think you should also stop focusing on it. It is better to discuss all the issue with your husband because he is the only person who is very close to you and who will stand with you in all your worries. You have the option of IVF, but I suggest you look for surrogacy. You will find it much useful process. Much love.
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Post by mexge on Nov 10, 2017 21:32:13 GMT
Hello Christine! That’s a really strange thing to know. You are perfectly healthy and all the result is also clear but still, you are not being able to concern. It might be something to do with your ovulation. You might not be ovulating properly in order to conceive. You should improve your daily diet and should do some work out as well. Try a bit more if you want to. If you do not want to wait for more time then you have the option of IVF and surrogacy. The best is if you opt for surrogacy as it easy is more comfortable and successful. At the end the choice is yours. Think carefully and then make a firm decision, whatever you make.
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Post by zaniim on Nov 10, 2017 21:33:22 GMT
Hey! I think you are worrying just too much about your condition. You know that you are perfectly alright and healthy but still, you are thinking about IVF. IVF programs also fail at times and I do not think that you should opt for it. Wait for things to change their course and try if you get pregnant by yourself. I had my baby through surrogacy. It is a very reliable reproductive program for all the infertile ladies. You do not have to undergo any implant or surgery because the surrogate mother will bear your child. You are young enough to try to conceive by yourself. If you are tired of trying then choose surrogacy, as far I think. Thanks.
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Post by jaseka on Nov 10, 2017 21:35:24 GMT
Hello there!
Really sorry to hear that :-(
It's so sad but really nurses suffer like that. I know one of my friends who happens to be a nurse too. She got herself, some time ago, in touch with some fluid and has ever since developed a skin disease.
I'd suggest that you for IVF (donor eggs). I'm suggesting this assuming you have cysts on both tubes. In case you have a cyst on one, chances are you can ovulate. If you don't know it yet, better check with your doc.
For IVF I know one of the world's best clinic. It's in Europe (Ukraine). The process there costs less and is very successful.
Let me know if you want me to pull more details on them.
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