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Post by christine39 on Jul 1, 2017 9:12:56 GMT
my case is dire. I have been having this problem for close to one year now. I have my normal periods, my ovulation cycle is normal and I eat healthily, yet can't conceive. I have been trying out my luck to have a baby and that is how I found myself here.
I went to visit my doctor who gave me a rather baffling diagnosis. I seemed to be developing cysts on the fallopian tube! I seem to have picked my troubles sometime back in 2015 from my recollection. my practice as a nurse exposed me to handling one patient with chlamydia. unfortunately, I contracted the STI in the process and suffered for close to a month before it was diagnosed and treated.
I can bet that is the issue. I have not shared my problem with my husband in spite of him going for the sperm count test to ascertain where the problem is.but now I want to have my own baby, what should I do? who can refer me to the best fertility clinic? can I opt for IVF though my husband sperm count is normal? please help
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Post by eagerfamily98 on Jul 1, 2017 9:24:03 GMT
I did some research and I think you can in fact opt for IVF though his count is normal. I'm cheering for you. Your situation is unfortunate. I'm very sorry that this has happened to you. There are many forums like this one and there are many helpful people on them. You need to share with your husband eventually. I know it's tough! It was a very bold thing to share with us. Thank you; you've inspired me and others. All the best x
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Post by christine39 on Jul 1, 2017 9:29:55 GMT
thanks, dear, you surely have taken part of the burden off my shoulder, I was afraid of the likely rejection
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Post by mek on Jul 1, 2017 11:18:55 GMT
I am feeling so much motivated by your submission. First I would advise you to check whether surrogacy is allowed in your country where you belong.Secondly, check whether yourself and your husband will be ok with it. And if it is allowed you can try it out. And this time convince your husband first and then look for a medical expert for guidance. I know this would help you to overcome this.
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Post by rim on Jul 15, 2017 20:40:46 GMT
Yeah, you can opt for IVF egg donation. I know the feeling of lack of a child in a lady is very overwhelming. Sometimes we try to figure out what went wrong but we never arrive at a conclusive answer. It is always worthwhile to seek the services of a professional and highly skilled professional to undertake IVF egg donation. I don't know whether you know BioTex clinic in Kiev in Ukraine. It is a clinic I once went for the fertility improvement through egg donation and the results were amazing. As I speak I have a bouncing baby boy from their services. They have egg donor's bank in their database and it will be up to you to choose which one you want.I wish you well as you consider that.
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Post by rose on Jul 17, 2017 16:26:45 GMT
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Post by brunis325 on Jul 18, 2017 13:42:59 GMT
It seems to me that you should not keep all this in yourself. Discuss the situation with your husband, he will probably help you.
Regarding treatment, perhaps you should really go to Ukraine to donate an ovum. I heard from my acquaintance that it helped a lot. I hope that you will be fine.
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Post by alexas on Jul 19, 2017 8:20:56 GMT
The best way to choose a clinic for yourself is to ask your girlfriends. Besides, how to know about the doctor quality?
If you think that it is kind of magic - you’rewrong. It is better to risk everything and find a good specialist.
This is not a joke. Think about what you can do in the fecal clinics.
There's just dirt!
Personally, I would not want to entrust my pregnancy to some one.
Unfortunately, there are no good addresses for clinics in your region. But I sincerely hope that you will be ok.
Wish you the best. Good day for you!!
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Post by donna on Jul 20, 2017 2:30:22 GMT
my case is dire. I have been having this problem for close to one year now. I have my normal periods, my ovulation cycle is normal and I eat healthily, yet can't conceive. I have been trying out my luck to have a baby and that is how I found myself here. I went to visit my doctor who gave me a rather baffling diagnosis. I seemed to be developing cysts on the fallopian tube! I seem to have picked my troubles sometime back in 2015 from my recollection. my practice as a nurse exposed me to handling one patient with chlamydia. unfortunately, I contracted the STI in the process and suffered for close to a month before it was diagnosed and treated. I can bet that is the issue. I have not shared my problem with my husband in spite of him going for the sperm count test to ascertain where the problem is.but now I want to have my own baby, what should I do? who can refer me to the best fertility clinic? can I opt for IVF though my husband sperm count is normal? please help <!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> Hello my dear Christine, You have done a daring job. Hats off to you! Such open revelation is really great. True as some of my friends have referred to Biotexcom a clinic in Ukraine is the best. I too did not have a baby of my own till i visited the clinic and now am a mother of twin cute babies. They do have egg donor's bank in their database and it all depends on you to pick the one you want. Also a sincere piece of advice please take your husband into confidence and reveal everything to him. He will surely help you. He has every right to know everything, and only then he will also find a way out. I know how it feels to be without a kid. I really suffered a lot for 5 years with my MIL even planning to marry off my hubby to another lady. But the God Lord answered my prayers and we are proud parents of twins. One of my experienced friends guided me to the clinic. I am ever thankful to her for that. So friend, visit the clinic once and decide for yourself. |
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Post by lovesick1967 on Jul 20, 2017 3:45:09 GMT
I also agree that Biotex is pretty good at what they do. They help you deal with fertility problems and try to find a solution that's best for you. For me, maybe because of my age, I chose surrogacy. The people in Ukraine have been great. I met my surrogate mother and I really like her. She's lovely and also very smart. I think they found the perfect match for our family. I can't wait for our child to be born. First, I was so nervous because we couldn't choose the surrogate mother. But then again, I was glad because the girls in Ukraine are gorgeous and my husband would probably have chosen by looks - LOL! I relaxed and just trusted them to make a good choice for me. They didn't disappoint me. I think you also need some help from them. Maybe not the same as me, but I'm sure they'll find a solution.
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Post by iamd on Aug 2, 2017 23:16:08 GMT
Indeed, I am sorry for your present situation. I want you to know that you are not the only one in the world with the challenge of conceiving. The second thing I want you to do is to forgive yourself. You don’t need to be down casted because you will soon join the league of mothers soon. Your choice to opt out for IVF is very welcome by me. You need the support and understanding of your husband. In addition, you have to find out if it’s acceptable or legal in your country of residence as well as the cost. However, if you want to seek for help outside your country, I will recommend Biotexcom fertility clinic in Kiev, Ukraine. This is because Ukraine has a soft law that encourages surrogacy and the legal department at the fertility clinic will be more than ready to assist you in securing your papers. In addition, it is affordable with 100 percent guarantee success rate. You would be surprised at the number of foreigners in the clinic seeking conception. I wish you the very best of luck.
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Post by shannon on Sept 18, 2017 7:54:09 GMT
Hello Dear, I hope you got the best clinic details. I have heard about the biotexcom. its good.
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Post by tara on Sept 18, 2017 8:26:12 GMT
Hi christine, I am sorry to hear about your problem. I understand how you must be feeling now. I suggest you stay positive and calm through this phase as it tends to get stressful and depressing when you realize such problems. I would be glad to help you with suggestions and advice like anyone here, but I feel seeing a specialist and taking their advice is also very important. And to answer your question about IVF, I have only praises for that miraculous treatment which has helped many women conceive and blessed them with healthy and lovely children. You would need to have your AMH, FSH and LH hormones tested before you could get into the IVF program. If your clinic doesn't ask you to go through these tests before enrolling you into their IVF program, I don't think that clinic would be the right choice. So, when choosing the clinic, make sure they get your hormones tested and also ask for your medical history and examination results. One such fertility clinic which I feel is the best is the biotexcom in Ukraine. It has great packages and staff and doctors. Also their managers speak English, so, communication is not a problem. I wish you all the best with your IVF journey.
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Post by piya22 on Sept 18, 2017 8:45:19 GMT
Hi christine, I had my child through surrogacy and I had been to the clinic that tara has mentioned. And I agree, it is by far the best fertility clinic I had ever been to. Surrogacy isn't legal in my country and so I had to find a clinic where surrogacy is legal and also done in a very professional way and the fore mentioned clinic was the best I could ever find. And christine, I feel that if your husband's sperm count is normal, there would be no problem with opting IVF. And yes, support from your husband is also very important as it plays a major role dealing with stressful condition on your journey. I suggest you both keep supporting each other and keep your hopes and spirit high. Stay strong and think of the brighter side; when you will conceive a baby and imagine holding the angel in your hands, looking into his/her eyes. Holding this picture in your mind will keep you happy, motivated and positive through out your IVF journey and you will have a stress free and a happy time. I wish you all the best and all the happiness.
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Post by rita233 on Sept 18, 2017 9:16:55 GMT
Hi christine, I think you should share your problem with your husband as piya said, his support will be vital in your IVF journey. And, I am very sorry to hear your problem, though I had not been diagnosed with same problem, I had seen many women and talked with them at length about their experiences who had the same issue as yours. It does get tough and sometimes depression and stress keeps taking toll on us when we go through this phase. Moreover, the knowledge of the fact that we cannot conceive is so depressing in itself and it is almost impossible to get our head around it and accept it. I was fortunate enough that I had my husband by my side to support me and he made feel much stronger and kept my hopes alive. Yes, IVF is a blessing and you should definitely go for it. I do believe that the consultation of a fertility specialist is necessary, but your approach towards IVF and the clinic will play a key role and I suggest you keep an open mind and a positive approach. All the best!
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