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Post by prozental on Apr 10, 2017 11:06:22 GMT
ammanma
Really? It’d be very useful to know something more if you have a bit to tell. We applied to the one of the Ukrainian clinics but there are several clinics deserved for attention.
We just prepare but we are so close to make a step into our participation.
I met one woman who had passed through the surrogacy, she gave me some advices.
I really don’t understand what the question I should ask first of all, but I want you to direct me somewhere.
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Post by prozental on Apr 10, 2017 11:18:06 GMT
christ
Actually I know too much how it’s hard to live fighting all the time.
You can lose the feeling of the passing day if all your energy is taken by the struggle.
Yes. Few months ago I was sure I needed to try again. one more ivf cycle, why not? What if it’s the particular moment and I’ll get my prize.
But I’ve stopped. Stopped it to think, to take a time for making better decision. I eventually understood that that road was finally behind my real life. And it was a time for new steps and acts.
So we are about to try other way.
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Post by ammanma on Apr 10, 2017 11:26:57 GMT
prozental, I heard about Isida, Biotexcom and Nadiya clinics in Ukraine. I was looking for egg donation and the second clinic appeared to be tailored to our needs.
I can't tell you for sure what was the reason for not choosing those two but I know that we chose biotex because of full services we were provided with. We didn't want to look for a place to stay, interpreters, translators and other things needed if you are abroad.
regarding surrogacy, there are 3 all-inclusive packages: 30k, 40k, 50k. These prices are less than in many different countries and you don't have to pay this money at once, just 5 installments. anyways, you can find all information on the clinic's website
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Post by antonia on Apr 10, 2017 11:41:00 GMT
Hi dear, sorry I was absent for a long time. My baby was born 2 weeks ago, I'm so excited about it, you know busy with baby stuff, oh sorry for it, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
That's great you made up your mind for ukraine. it's amazing country, true!!
As I understood from your reply you will go there, right, when? when is your initial? Are you ready to make the next step? How's your husband feel about it?
p.s. don't worry about ukrainian legislation, it's a very friendly country, now we are waiting for getting travel documents needed for us to leave the country with our baby.
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Post by prozental on Apr 10, 2017 12:41:50 GMT
ammanma
You’ve just written the name of the clinic we had on-line chat with.
I don’t want to mention the certain name of it. We’re just exploring a new field of possibilities. You said me about Biotex, I see it sounds good in words but we’ve never checked its work in fact. Perhaps ‘our’ clinic has better advertising team. Don’t even know. I can’t say that tomorrow we’ll be at their head office but we consider and compare.
You all said different things about Ukrainian clinics. But how can other Ukrainian clinics survive in the conditions of current reproductive field if there is such a shark as Biotex there?
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Post by prozental on Apr 10, 2017 12:51:16 GMT
antonia
What a crazy news! Girl, you’ve done it!
So remarkable! So sweet to know. I wish you and your baby have a strong health and many-many years of happiness!
As far as I see you’re still in Ukraine now??
Please! tell me more!
Everything that I would possibly find and face there.
I’m interested in how documents are processed but I’m not good at that. And too far from this point to ask silly questions of mine.
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Post by lilly on Apr 10, 2017 13:33:58 GMT
I'm happy you got a good clinic to have your treatment. I suppose I'll have a look at it as well. Probably it'll suit me too if it's as good as you describe it. That's extremely important for me to get good and professional care. Thanks for sharing information here. Hope it'll be helpful for many people in trouble
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Post by christ on Apr 11, 2017 7:19:39 GMT
prozental
I'm so sorry that I'm not alone on this road of disappointment. I can tell you more, you can miss lots of important things while trying to reach your goal. The most scaring thing for me is to try to achieve the result but forget the reason why I'm doing it. I mean to move on just because I can or I get used to this. I'm glad that you've changed your decision. Not because it's better, no. just because you realized that something in your life went wrong. No matter what you thought was right for you before, if you took a new look at your particular issue and found a new solution, then it means you are developing and improving as a person. I hope this way will be much better for you.
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Post by antonia on Apr 11, 2017 12:18:49 GMT
antonia What a crazy news! Girl, you’ve done it! So remarkable! So sweet to know. I wish you and your baby have a strong health and many-many years of happiness! As far as I see you’re still in Ukraine now?? Please! tell me more! Everything that I would possibly find and face there. I’m interested in how documents are processed but I’m not good at that. And too far from this point to ask silly questions of mine. haha, yes, we have done it, I still can't believe. I'm holding my baby and he is sooo cute. I wish we could be back home faster. But the legislation is complicated thing you know. Well, ask me question and I would be a pleasure to me if I could help you with my answers. Talking about travel documents for a baby, first of all you have to get a birth certificate for your baby and then the surrogate will sing the docs which say she is not a true mother and she won't have any rights for a baby. Oh, i nearly forgot to say that the DNA test should be performed in order to confirm the parenthood. My PMs are open for you   |
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Post by prozental on Apr 11, 2017 13:43:43 GMT
lilly
As far as you could understand I don’t cooperate with any clinics yet. But anyway I found very attractive variants here. I’m about to change my mind. Perhaps I have hastened and now I want to consider surrogacy in another Ukrainian clinic.
I guess you can get enough number of helpful advises on this forum.
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Post by prozental on Apr 11, 2017 14:01:25 GMT
christ
Actually it was too serious stress for my body and brains. The same as you said I had lost the reality of all processes which happened to my life.
I just madly wanted to catch my dream by its mysterious tail and try try try
I was nearly to tweak out.
We can lose everything when our reasonableness is absent.
Yes, you are right, I improved myself. I feel really better after my final decision was made.
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Post by prozental on Apr 11, 2017 14:19:30 GMT
antonia
Wow! can You believe I have no exact question! I feel I want to ask something but don’t know what has to be the first in this list of chaos.
Well! what do you see? What does it surround you, how does Ukraine look like from inside of events?
Where do you stay now?
I’m afraid you have no time to answer my stupid questions. I’d have no, perhaps i'd be spending whole time watching my baby sleeps and is awaken.
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Post by prozental on Apr 14, 2017 12:28:18 GMT
Yes. We are ready to take part in that.
It’s pretty new page in our lives. only year ago, why year? even few months ago we didn’t think about such a method as surrogacy. It was too far from our case, it seemed so.
But now it’s too close to avoid it. I think I have to create a new post describing my doubts and concerns, I hope for responses.
Never lose your faith. There are a lot of examples of that people found their happiness after long time of struggling.
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Post by christ on May 12, 2017 8:12:37 GMT
christ Actually it was too serious stress for my body and brains. The same as you said I had lost the reality of all processes which happened to my life. I just madly wanted to catch my dream by its mysterious tail and try try try I was nearly to tweak out. We can lose everything when our reasonableness is absent. Yes, you are right, I improved myself. I feel really better after my final decision was made. I know what you mean, I'm the same. but I'm really glad that you changed your mind and you are moving in another, less dangerous direction. maybe you have any news? It's been a while, so maybe something has changed? I hope you are doing well. Looking forward to your update x |
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Post by lilly on May 14, 2017 21:12:50 GMT
Hi ladies! Haven't heard from you for quite a while.. Where are in your journeys right now? Have you chosen the clinics? Probaby started your ivf cycles? Are you satisfied with everything? How do you find the service? Good enough? I really liked liked the story antonia had shared about the clinic in Ukraine.. Seems really worth visiting.. Did you go there? Or found some other place for your treatment? Don't keep quiet Waiting for your updates x |
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