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Post by ammanma on Apr 4, 2017 7:37:37 GMT
prozental
Don't listen to those who tell that your desire is crazy or that your brain is damaged.
10 cycles isn't a common thing but it's your body and your decision. I'm sorry if my previous words hurt you, I didn't mean that.
Maybe something has changed? Don't you know where to go now? Have you had a consultation with your gyno?
I'm sure one day you wake up and you are the happiest mom x
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Post by christ on Apr 4, 2017 7:50:19 GMT
prozental hello. I'm so sorry for your 10 failed cycles. I can relate. I have 7 failed cycles and I'm sick of it. All these attempts turned to be a challenge or even a race. One moment O realized that I don't care whether the cycle is successful or not. I just wanted to move on and on. Sounds weird yeah? Then I took 2 years off to clear my mind. Now I know I was wrong thinking that way. Now I'm in the same boat as you are. Looking for my next cycle. I decided that 10 is max number of cycles I can have in total..I'm praying for our success hun x
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 8:18:39 GMT
prozental hello. I'm so sorry for your 10 failed cycles. I can relate. I have 7 failed cycles and I'm sick of it. All these attempts turned to be a challenge or even a race. One moment O realized that I don't care whether the cycle is successful or not. I just wanted to move on and on. Sounds weird yeah? Then I took 2 years off to clear my mind. Now I know I was wrong thinking that way. Now I'm in the same boat as you are. Looking for my next cycle. I decided that 10 is max number of cycles I can have in total..I'm praying for our success hun x Hallo, Christ! So strange to greet Christ here, hah. Be our guiding star! I suppose it comes a time to change this ride. Something abnormal really not good drove me crazy, I was blind trying all this tries. Only now I understand how my body is tired. I’m not sure that the next one will give me any result. It’s not a lost hope, it the first reasonable thought during my 5 years, I think. I don’t intend to start a new attempt once again. |
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 8:34:55 GMT
christ!
Excuse me, thank you a lot for your support. I hope you feel fine, actually fine if you are ready to begin again. perhaps you were very close to touch your aim, and this fact doesn’t leave you.
How do you really feel? Don’t you consider different options?
I was recently overwhelmed, i felt like an ant pressed by the stone. And seems I moved this stone away and got a decision to keep on my journey. I want to have a baby. And we will pass through surrogacy.
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 8:39:18 GMT
Amanma
Nobody can say that wrong thoughts and decisions are left in the past. Sometimes our mistakes turn back by the cycle. But in any case we have to face them and accept. Because they are a part of our nature. I had an idea not to post anything on Internet. but it changed.
I’ve spent my week trying to comprehend the goals of my life.. I rethought my last time which I had wasted trying to conceive unsuccessfully. Many things were made in wrong way.
You should know I have sent a request to one clinic. I knew it must eventually happen. We are about to take part in surrogacy.
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Post by christ on Apr 4, 2017 8:50:18 GMT
prozentalYeah, I see. It was meant to be ChrisT, but somehow it has changed to christ, I wasn't ready for such nickname actually haha Oh, I thought you were ready to go IVF again. So, something has changed..I understand. It's your life and any decision of yours is right. But what are you gonna do next? Surrogacy? It's possible in your country? As for me, I'm defo ready for another cycle, unfortunately it must be with donor eggs because my ovaries have now poor response on stim. Time will show us what is better..
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Post by ammanma on Apr 4, 2017 8:59:15 GMT
Amanma Nobody can say that wrong thoughts and decisions are left in the past. Sometimes our mistakes turn back by the cycle. But in any case we have to face them and accept. Because they are a part of our nature. I had an idea not to post anything on Internet. but it changed. I’ve spent my week trying to comprehend the goals of my life.. I rethought my last time which I had wasted trying to conceive unsuccessfully. Many things were made in wrong way. You should know I have sent a request to one clinic. I knew it must eventually happen. We are about to take part in surrogacy. I know what you mean. When you are 50 you are able to reflect on your past and analyze what have been done. Some things seemed innocent, some were useless but you know that all of them were needed at that time. you are what you are just because if all that things you did before. the Internet is a great thing in a good sense and in a bad as well. I don't think it's so easy to avoid using it. Surrogacy?? If I'm not mistaken, and I'm not, you were to start another one cycle of IVF. So it's a result of your soul searching, right? Well, I'm ready to support you no matter what way you choose. Good luck to you! |
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 9:08:33 GMT
Christ
No, no, my country. We can do nothing here. Everything is banned. We will cooperate with clinic abroad.
Such decisions are up to you, but don’t cheat yourself. We frequently adopt weird lie or pigheadedness as if that was a true way to survive. I was the same a week ago.
I didn’t even think I could harm myself and waste a pretty good portion of a time.
Where did you try previously?
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Post by christ on Apr 4, 2017 10:48:19 GMT
Christ No, no, my country. We can do nothing here. Everything is banned. We will cooperate with clinic abroad. Such decisions are up to you, but don’t cheat yourself. We frequently adopt weird lie or pigheadedness as if that was a true way to survive. I was the same a week ago. I didn’t even think I could harm myself and waste a pretty good portion of a time. Where did you try previously? The same thing here. Egg donation isn't allowed here. I'm afraid of going abroad, actually I have never been abroad. I always wanted but had no occasion. You're right. One should never lie to oneself, I know that. but I think it's not my time to stop the journey. I'm sure I should try donor egg IVF. Who knows maybe it's going to change my life. To be honest numbers mean nothing to me. If I were in your shoes with 10 failed cycles under my belt, well, I would have been unstoppable. however, it's my suggestion. As long as I feel good, I will fight. I know how it feels when you can't turn back time and change something very important.. |
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 11:21:24 GMT
In my specific case I’d prefer to avoid lots of things and events. I didn’t expect 20 years ago, that I’d be depressed and broke. I saw my life in different bright colors. When I was young and things seemed easy I thought that 50 years-old people are too old to want having a baby. What a cruel life! Yup, I wanted to try my last attempt, but I stopped. My answer is – surrogacy. |
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Post by prozental on Apr 4, 2017 11:34:00 GMT
christ
What the mess had you got to go through? How are you now?
I don’t know, I lost my trust in it. it can bring nothing. But you should try if you are really ready. as for me, now I’m not. Something has been broken inside of me.
How do you suppose you have enough time to try and try again? time and health reserve?
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Post by antonia on Apr 4, 2017 11:47:57 GMT
Hi, how are you? It seems like I missed something haha,
what are you doing now? Have you decided something? Will you go abroad for undergoing the reproductive treatment?
p.s. I have so much to tell you about
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Post by ammanma on Apr 4, 2017 13:14:23 GMT
prozentaloh really? that's a bit unexpected after all you've said I must admit. But it's your decision and I'm ready to give you my support in this case. Although I haven't been through surrogacy I know a few couples who have experience in this procedure. I'm a mother for a few years and I got to know many women during my treatment. It was very informative especially because we had different treatment. My ukrainian clinic provides surrogacy as well. It has quite good packages for surrogacy, not too expensive but all inclusive
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Post by prozental on Apr 10, 2017 10:58:44 GMT
Hi, how are you? It seems like I missed something haha, what are you doing now? Have you decided something? Will you go abroad for undergoing the reproductive treatment? p.s. I have so much to tell you about Ohh! Hello! Nice to see you here again! I’ve also missed what you could have missed, hah! As I said we have applied to the Ukrainian clinic to find out more about local surrogacy because we intend to take part in that. We plan a journey to Ukraine soon. What about your story? What is the step change you have? |
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Post by christ on Apr 10, 2017 11:04:17 GMT
christ What the mess had you got to go through? How are you now? I don’t know, I lost my trust in it. it can bring nothing. But you should try if you are really ready. as for me, now I’m not. Something has been broken inside of me. How do you suppose you have enough time to try and try again? time and health reserve? Hard to say. It seems that all I do in my life is fighting infertility. Again and again and with no result. I'm sure you know this feeling. I'm sick of it but I just can't stop. The more attempts I have the more details of future success I get. Every time I hear about higher chances and possible success but this positive result is always lost on me. So how am I? Like I'm disconnected from my vital energy. I think I have time but still I miss something. You are sure you'll move to surrogacy, right? |
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