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Post by prozental on Mar 6, 2017 10:33:48 GMT
I’m 40 y.o. from Denmark. For 2010 – 2014 I had 10 attempts of IFV on my own eggs. it has been exhausted challenge. And you understand how it was hard getting nothing from my attempts. Each attempt was failed due to low quality of embryos. I have no contraindications to childbearing so I still want to experience this. Time goes and my embryos’ quality can’t get better.  And my husband and I want to try to go through the DE ivf, it may help us to make our old dream come true. In medical document I officially have an infertility of endocrine genesis. Now I need to be advised what the next step we should make. |
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Post by ammanma on Mar 6, 2017 11:32:14 GMT
Mother of god! 10 IVF cycles and on your own eggs...how do you feel? I mean it must be harmful or even dangerous for your body? maybe it's not my business, but why didn't you stop after 4-7 failed rounds? Why didn't you try to use donor egg for your IVF? chances are higher after all...You could even look for surrogacy. What is the reason for so many failed tries?
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Post by prozental on Mar 6, 2017 12:08:00 GMT
Mother of god! 10 IVF cycles and on your own eggs...how do you feel? I mean it must be harmful or even dangerous for your body? maybe it's not my business, but why didn't you stop after 4-7 failed rounds? Why didn't you try to use donor egg for your IVF? chances are higher after all...You could even look for surrogacy. What is the reason for so many failed tries? We didn’t see the reasons of our failures, yeah, the quality of my eggs dropped from try to the try. But we felt that there was a chance for positive final next time. I was afraid for my healthy. I felt myself like a corpse with an idea-fix. One day we have understood that it was enough, we tried. But we needed to begin a new page and go on. If I have fail on DE I’ll start to consider a surrogacy as an option. Because all this can kill me. Thank you. How are you doing? |
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Post by ammanma on Mar 6, 2017 12:28:26 GMT
Mother of god! 10 IVF cycles and on your own eggs...how do you feel? I mean it must be harmful or even dangerous for your body? maybe it's not my business, but why didn't you stop after 4-7 failed rounds? Why didn't you try to use donor egg for your IVF? chances are higher after all...You could even look for surrogacy. What is the reason for so many failed tries? We didn’t see the reasons of our failures, yeah, the quality of my eggs dropped from try to the try. But we felt that there was a chance for positive final next time. I was afraid for my healthy. I felt myself like a corpse with an idea-fix. One day we have understood that it was enough, we tried. But we needed to begin a new page and go on. If I have fail on DE I’ll start to consider a surrogacy as an option. Because all this can kill me. Thank you. How are you doing? So, it's like unexplained infertility or what? What about your embryos? Did you have 3 or 5 day transfer? What was your embies' quality? Have you got BFPs? I've been through different forums and haven't seen such stories, that's why I'm so curious I guess. Aren't you afraid to start all over again? I'm fine, thanks..just waiting for my treatment to begin. |
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Post by antonia on Mar 6, 2017 12:31:05 GMT
Oh, dear, I feel so sorry for you. How do you feel right now? 10 attempts of ivf, that's tough, how did you decide to do so many tries? Did the doctor warn you solemnly about future consequences? What did he tell? Do you have a permission to undergo a de conception? As far as I know there are lots of aspects and you should know about them. Is it safe for you to carry a baby? Sorry for my questions.. |
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Post by prozental on Mar 6, 2017 12:48:29 GMT
We didn’t see the reasons of our failures, yeah, the quality of my eggs dropped from try to the try. But we felt that there was a chance for positive final next time. I was afraid for my healthy. I felt myself like a corpse with an idea-fix. One day we have understood that it was enough, we tried. But we needed to begin a new page and go on. If I have fail on DE I’ll start to consider a surrogacy as an option. Because all this can kill me. Thank you. How are you doing? So, it's like unexplained infertility or what? What about your embryos? Did you have 3 or 5 day transfer? What was your embies' quality? Have you got BFPs? I've been through different forums and haven't seen such stories, that's why I'm so curious I guess. Aren't you afraid to start all over again? I'm fine, thanks..just waiting for my treatment to begin. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 5 times nothing has happened, other my 5 attempts stopped on the early stages but after four weeks. I had BFP 5 times, can you imagine how my hope was raised? Nothing yet. It was terrible. The last time we could pick up only 4 suitable eggs to be fertilized, only one embryo lived to the day 5th to be transferred. BFN. |
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Post by prozental on Mar 6, 2017 13:00:58 GMT
Oh, dear, I feel so sorry for you. How do you feel right now? 10 attempts of ivf, that's tough, how did you decide to do so many tries? Did the doctor warn you solemnly about future consequences? What did he tell? Do you have a permission to undergo a de conception? As far as I know there are lots of aspects and you should know about them. Is it safe for you to carry a baby? Sorry for my questions.. xxxx Thank you! I’m feeling well, I’m full of power to keep on. We really want this, want to become a happy family with crying-laughing kids. Yes, our doctor helped us to understand that there was no reasonableness to go on trying on my OE, each following stimulation damages my body from the physiological and psychological sides. And if we can try ivf on DE it will be better and it can bring a result. I have no prohibitions to bear a child. as my doctor concluded |
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Post by ammanma on Mar 6, 2017 13:12:29 GMT
prozental oh god..you're unstoppable woman. If I were you I wouldn't be so brave and fearless...How much time does it take you to rehabilitate after your each round? Have you been with the same clinic all that time? As far as I know, not every clinic is ready to perform such a number of attempts esp with no result.
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Post by prozental on Mar 6, 2017 13:29:38 GMT
ammanma No, actually we changed places and locations. If you don’t mind I’ll not write the names of the institutions. I don’t know maybe the forum administrator may recognize this as an advertisement. Think that even one clinic can provide you with any amount of attempts in case you pay them for this. But I can be mistaken. To be honest sometimes I had less than 3 months between my tries. That was hard to live through. My all my thoughts were caught by idea to be pregnant, it was like disease or blindness
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Post by antonia on Mar 6, 2017 14:00:17 GMT
You seem to be healthy., haha, probably de will work for you. What about your husband? What he thinks about it?
Well, a place of treatment, do you have it? Did you find a clinic? Where are you from, by the way?
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Post by prozental on Mar 7, 2017 9:27:21 GMT
antoniaWe live in Aarhus now. No, we didn’t find our clinic yet.therefore we are here on this forum. As for my husband he feels well, his sperm’s without abnormalities it has good quality. Doctor said and I’m sure he can become a father, and also I’m sure he deserves this. What does he think? He really wants to have babies with me, he supports me to go this way, even if we can’t do it on my OE.
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Post by antonia on Mar 7, 2017 9:54:29 GMT
How you imagine your future clinic? Do you both have any criteria? What you want to get first? As far as I know lots of couples go to europe. I was reading one article and it said that europe provide infertile couples with good services. the reproductive medicine is well developed there, so if you are interested you can look onto them.
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Post by prozental on Mar 9, 2017 10:04:12 GMT
How you imagine your future clinic? Do you both have any criteria? What you want to get first? As far as I know lots of couples go to europe. I was reading one article and it said that europe provide infertile couples with good services. the reproductive medicine is well developed there, so if you are interested you can look onto them. Ohh, It’s difficult to describe my desirable clinic in details. First of all it has to give a safety, we need to feel that we are at the safe place. Our health, money, the nearest future are protected. Don’t even know either it’s possible to find such clinic or not. But it’d be perfect. In this case we’d not skimp on cash. We see my future clinic as a serious center with a name known abroad. Want to talk to doctor and see that (she-he) is attentive to us and with human common feelings and qualities. (not a robot machine) It’s psychological moments we need to live through the beautiful events during our treatment. This all will be associated to our child’s birth. We want to have pleasant associations. |
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Post by ammanma on Mar 9, 2017 10:16:59 GMT
prozental, you like xtreme I guess. Your body must be exhausted after so many cycles and with such short time for recovery. maybe you need to have a rest for a bit before you start all over again? I just worry you could feel worse. what happened to your previous pregnancies if any? What are you going to do next?
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Post by antonia on Mar 9, 2017 10:27:13 GMT
How you imagine your future clinic? Do you both have any criteria? What you want to get first? As far as I know lots of couples go to europe. I was reading one article and it said that europe provide infertile couples with good services. the reproductive medicine is well developed there, so if you are interested you can look onto them. Ohh, It’s difficult to describe my desirable clinic in details. First of all it has to give a safety, we need to feel that we are at the safe place. Our health, money, the nearest future are protected. Don’t even know either it’s possible to find such clinic or not. But it’d be perfect. In this case we’d not skimp on cash. We see my future clinic as a serious center with a name known abroad. Want to talk to doctor and see that (she-he) is attentive to us and with human common feelings and qualities. (not a robot machine) It’s psychological moments we need to live through the beautiful events during our treatment. This all will be associated to our child’s birth. We want to have pleasant associations. Probably I didn't tell you but my clinic is in europe, ukraine. my surrogate 8 months pregnant. I had a hysterectomy and lost an ability to carry a baby by myself. But that didn't stop us. After 8 long years of infertility we will gain what we wanted. As for clinic, they provide all clients with good services which include different options, like accommodation, food, driver, interpreter and so on. We were extremely surprised with it because we didn't expect to see such a warm appointment. The manager met us at the door and led us to the hall, then we passed all need medical tests, and after these had a consultation with a doctor, who told us we could start the program there. And here we are, parents soon. |
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