neer
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Post by neer on Jul 2, 2017 7:43:16 GMT
Hi My name is Delphine and am so happy to be a member of this forum. Freedom at ease is a mental and character destruction to students. That was what I learnt after my primary school life. In the early years of schooling, I never knew giving too much freedom at my disposal could ruin my life. It was a life full of ups and downs. Sometimes so merry and more often I always felt I was in my own world. My parents were so good to me; pampering me like a young toddler. I sometimes thought I was a doll. Just in case I was denied something, I used to throw tantrums. Everyone including my relatives was always afraid when I was left under their care. I used to be treated like a king and the world to me was full of plenty. It was one day that I decided to skive school as I knew even my teachers could not master the courage to stop me. the ego and the high self-esteem that I had aggravated my character and became worse in character. When my parents learnt that the freedom they bestowed on me would ruin me, they stepped in. It took them a whole decade to transform me into a better person who could understand the meaning and value of education.
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amt
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Post by amt on Jul 4, 2017 0:11:40 GMT
I am over the moon for such an insightful confession. As a parent, it is common knowledge that we tend to give our children too much freedom oblivious of the consequences that might arise. It is very good that you realised later about your pursuit and purpose. It is also not too late. Thank you very much for sharing your confession and its through such one can learn about parenting and the limits a parent can put towards children freedom.
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mek
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Post by mek on Aug 6, 2017 11:53:56 GMT
I can concur with you how such freedom affects the development of children in school. To start, with I once had a very complicated case with my small brother. We used to pamper him all the way to school. Anytime he made a slight mistake, we would try to just give him with no action whatsoever. So problems escalated from that point on. The consequences arose when he started taking drugs under our watch. It took a hell lots of time to counsel and change him. It also damaged his prowess to conceive. The time he decided to marry, he had to divorce his wife since she could not stand that. That was how it became worse for him. Anyway, too much freedom is not the best.
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Post by melisaadams on Sept 21, 2017 8:01:35 GMT
I understand the freedom that everything and It feels really good. Sometimes I have been working on the things that make me better. Never regret on anything Just keep going and enjoy your life as you need.
I hope everything will be fine.
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