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Post by ellaoty5 on Nov 9, 2017 13:51:12 GMT
Hey there. Amenorrhea is a serious problem. It can cause several complications later on. Hopefully, it won’t be the case for you. I sincerely hope you don’t have it. Still, knowing about the risks is important. This will make sure you don’t take it lightly. Amenorrhea can be due to a number of reasons. These causes range in terms of risk. For example PCOS, hormonal imbalances etc. Luckily, most of them are easily curable. If found in time, they can be treated. Visit a doctor ASAP. Fingers crossed. Looking forward to hearing from you.
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Post by mexge on Nov 9, 2017 13:52:28 GMT
Hello dear. Not having periods can be alarming. Despite that, I think it is too early to jump to conclusions. You are only 15. You might just be late for some other reason. You can still get them. Are you fully developed otherwise? There are other symptoms too. Hair loss, pelvic pain are only two of the many symptoms. Are you experiencing any of these? Just the absence of periods doesn’t mean amenorrhea. Consult a doctor. Don’t diagnose yourself. That only leads to worries. Good luck!
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Post by zaniim on Nov 9, 2017 13:54:01 GMT
Hello. That sounds horrible. I never knew tight jeans could be so dangerous. I too tend to wear such tight jeans. I guess I should be more careful. Thank you for sharing. I hope you recover fully soon. Good luck!
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Post by jaseka on Nov 9, 2017 13:55:12 GMT
Hey Pes! It’s good to know people like you who come up to this forum and share their experiences with other women. A lot of infertile women will seek knowledge from your post. I really appreciate that. It’s obviously important to contact a doctor as soon as possible. Because without knowing your problem you can never have a solution to it. So it’s really good that you did not waste any time and went to the doctor soon. Many women just keep on waiting for the right time and they go to the doctor when the problem gets more complicated and there are fewer chances to get rid of. I hope that the behavior of your husband is changed now as he is going to become a father very soon. My best wishes are with you.
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Post by mesaka on Nov 9, 2017 13:57:45 GMT
Hello Pes! Your post has proven to be really influential and I hope that all other women that are having infertility problems also find it as much influence as I did. You know a lot of women are waiting for someone to give a suggestion or share any experience so that they can also make a decision for their condition. That is so positive of you that despite your infertility problem and your husband’s rude behavior with you, you still went to the doctor for a checkup. Every other woman should do the same if she is having a problem in conceiving. It is much better to go to the doctor on time rather than wasting time and then feeling sorry for it. Diet has always been an important factor for all the women, whether they are pregnant or infertile. You are lucky that you got a good specialist and he treated you well. GOD bless you!
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Post by waxsy on Nov 9, 2017 13:59:15 GMT
Hi! I was looking for a post with some successful experience and here I found your post Pes. I am glad I did. You know what? You made the best decision of consulting the doctor, the moment you felt that something is wrong with fertility. Waiting for a few months is alright if you are not getting pregnant but it is not good to wait for more than that. An experienced specialist is required to deal with the infertility issues. The specialist should also be sincere to you. Because some of them just start the medication to make money. But your specialist did the right thing. He set a proper diet plan for you so that the deficiencies you are having in your body shall fill up and that’s the right way to go. I hope you have a beautiful baby soon. Take good care of yourself and the baby. Eat healthily!
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Post by joslynmoyer on Nov 9, 2017 14:01:49 GMT
"Hi Pes,
Your story is so inspiring. I think the takeaway here is that we should always check with the medical doctors and specialists rather than going to witch doctors etc.
I am no one to judge but your husband seems not a very good partner. Or it could be that he was just so excited to become a father that when he came to know it was not possible, he got furious. Who knows there could be million other reasons.
I am 42 and from my experience so far in life, I always advise couples to not go hard on each other. We all make mistakes. He made one. In a husband-wife relationship, to move along, it's important that they forgive each other. Don't hold grudges. As we grow old, our men start feeling us and then those women who stayed strong, thank the moment they decided not to separate ways even after so much of hate they faced in the early years of marriage.
I wish you, your newborn child and your partner all the happiness in the world."
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Post by giorgia3 on Nov 9, 2017 14:03:52 GMT
Inspiration is all about xD
Happy for you and your family we are.
About the situation with your husband - try not to take it too hard. It's always better to learn how to move along in marriage. There surely are ups and downs in life, especially in after marriage life.
I remember when I had my first MC and how disappointed and angry my husband was with me. I was shocked to see his reaction. He never acted like that before.
I was so depressed that I had to consult a psychologist.
I was about to give up on my marriage. I thought that was it. Today, I have a surrogate baby and my partner has never been so happy. I sometimes think that what if I had made a different choice. I would surely have regretted it.
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Post by marry on Nov 9, 2017 14:08:24 GMT
I think the topic is changed in the comments, haha. It should be titled ""after marriage problems and how to deal with them""  Well, I think the advice the ladies have given you is what's right here. Try to understand your husband's side as well. He wouldn't marry you if he never loved you. I am glad to hear you are pregnant now. Hope you get to enjoy the motherhood again. You deserve it. You mentioned you visited witch doctors... is that true? There really are such people out there? I only get to see them in movies, lol. What do they do? Do they have some kind of magical powers to influence a female's infertility? I'm sorry I'm just interested to hear how was your experience with them you know. Anyway, good luck hon. Take care of yourself and your family. |
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Post by monikaa on Dec 2, 2018 18:55:39 GMT
Congratulations to you. I am happy that after so much of struggle you were finally able to conceive. These types of stories make me very hopeful. I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly. I am also in the middle of the process. However, so far things are going really well. I am really hoping for the best. Good luck to you.
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Post by saraqueen on Dec 4, 2018 4:14:56 GMT
Hey there! Thankyou so much for sharing your story with us. There are many people who will get inspired by this. I m glad everything worked out for you. Nowadays infertility is just like any other sickness out there. Nothing to worry about. It's heart-wrenching but now it's curable.
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Post by myraward on Jan 21, 2019 16:38:18 GMT
Hi! This story will motivate a lot of people. I m glad that you never stopped trying. It shows how much dedicated you were towards your baby. Thank you for sharing your story. Stay blessed!
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 20, 2019 17:40:22 GMT
Hello. How are you doing? That was quite a journey. Sorry about your struggles with fertility. Its good to know that you decided to do the right thing at the right time. Congratulations on being pregnant. You are really lucky. Good luck with pregnancy and labor.
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Post by hannah on Apr 17, 2019 19:23:09 GMT
Congratulations to you. Your story definitely gave me a lot of hope. It is indeed very important to keep on trying. I always tell myself this as well. I have been on this journey for more than 6 years now. By the end of it, I really got tired. Luckily I was able to find a clinic that was willing to help. Others had told me that there was no chance.
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Post by hannah on Sept 18, 2019 9:35:48 GMT
Oh wow, this is such an aspiring story. I am so happy for you. I am glad that you didn't lose hope and were adamant to improve your condition. I myself have been like that. When things weren't working for us I made sure that they did work. I visited a completely different clinic after all my previous cycles. After visiting them I made sure that they were the best ones. It is because of the research that things are going so well.
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