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Post by pes on Jun 27, 2017 14:41:46 GMT
Hi
My name is Pes and I am a new member in this forum. I will highly appreciate to share more with you. I didn’t know the treatment of my infertility. I recall one day I wasn’t able to conceive to the anger of my hubby who almost kicked me out of marriage. I tried to go to the witchdoctors, church pastors but to no avail. Fasting and morning devotion was the order of the day to try my lack. My conscience one day told me that I need to go and see the medical doctor. Full of confidence, I woke with full conviction that all going to be alright that particular morning. Neither my hubby nor my colleagues knew where I was heading to. On getting to the medical facility, I was so much terrified to see people line up with the problem as mine. Seeing the doctor, all was not lost when I explained my condition to the doctor. After diagnosis, I was prescribed with a fertility diet. I was so merry to be given a prenatal multivitamin to treat my worried condition. My condition improved greatly and kept hope alive that one day I will get back to my feet again. On my second visit, I was administered with omega fatty acid to supplement my vitamins. This now gave me more hope that I was healed for the better. The doctor was not wrong when he reiterated that after taking the last dose of antioxidants I will be back to my normal self. When two months passed, I was happy to conceive and got pregnant again.
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Post by saw on Jul 1, 2017 8:41:29 GMT
Pes, am glad to listen and to master your submissions. Me too I went through the same and God granted me the strength to forge on. It hurts and pains beyond a reasonable doubt to just being told that you can't sire a kid. It is a phenomenal disgusting thing.  |
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Post by eagerfamily98 on Jul 1, 2017 9:33:19 GMT
Your story is so incredibly inspiring. Sometimes I just want to give up. Thank you for giving us hope. There are great stories out there and yours is ONE OF THEM! It's not over. I will keep trying, and everybody can do well to stay in communication with each other in forums like these. Thank you for your kindness. We've GOT THIS! I've personally been trying for a long time with my husband. There are so many options to go through from here. I'm really excited to see what's next. I go to the doctor and my outlook is positive. You have touched me, and I know I'm not the only one here. Everyone benefits from a community mindset. Thank you thank you thank you. Omega fatty foods and vitamins, see there is so much out there! I am reinvigorated, and you have inspired me to continue researching! xx
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Post by pes on Jul 2, 2017 14:08:23 GMT
I am feeling so happy by your encouragements. Having given up on life after a long wait for my own baby, I, in the end, got well. I was despised and called infertile and this broke my heart to an extent of losing the meaning of life. but through you and your daily concern, I feel very much on the move in this forum. It is through us that we regain our life. I am proud to be on this forum.
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Post by julieloran on Jul 6, 2017 20:24:01 GMT
I cannot understand how husbands might push their wives away at the time like this. I could not get pregnant for a long time as well. But I had all the support of my family and my husband. I think it is something that really matters. We have tried so many ways to solve this issue... Only after an adoption, I got a chance to finally get pregnant! What a God's gift. Maybe I am far from a science person, but I believe in the power of your mind much more. Believe in yourself and do everything to deserve a child. That sometimes sounds much more powerful than any medical predictions and diagnoses do.
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Post by neer on Jul 15, 2017 11:34:59 GMT
I am thrilled with what I am reading here. I am also motivated to understand all the problems that went through and you made it. I have pressed a lot myself and I was not in a position to get my own kid but heaven's opened and I was able to conceive. For my case, I never took multi vitamins supplements. I decided to go for IVF egg donation at BioTex clinic in Ukraine. If you find the time you can browse through their website. They have an egg donor's database and you make a choice. I did it and all the problems I had to undergo got off me.
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Post by rim on Jul 15, 2017 20:52:44 GMT
Nothing is far from the truth. I was once a victim of your condition Pes but one day it vanished off completely and now I am a very happy mum. In my case, I had blocked fallopian tubes and it made it difficult for fertilisation to take place. I was so overwhelmed by the thoughts of failing to get a child of my own. But after some time, I was introduced by my colleague to BioTex clinic in Ukraine. At first, I had to hesitate as I never knew it too well but through my friend's confidence, I obliged. I was always in ups and downs trying to make ends meet and give birth to a baby but all never worked. In my country, the hospital fee was so high and I couldn't afford. So I decided to follow my colleague's advice and I tell you the fee is cost friendly and the professionals there are adept and know their work. I, later on, became a happy mum through IVF egg donation from BioTex clinic in Ukraine.
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Post by sofiaa on Nov 9, 2017 13:18:09 GMT
Hello Pes. Your story is a source of inspiration. Many women are infertile. Yet they choose not to seek proper treatment. Instead, they rely on unconventional methods. These include witch doctors etc. Of course some of these work sometimes. Despite that, more often than not, these people are not up to the task. Infertility needs to be dealt with expertise. I personally think that only an expert doctor should handle that. I am glad you went to a doctor at the end. Fortunately, the treatment worked for you. I hope that your problems are with you now. Congratulations. Hope your pregnancy goes by smoothly.
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Post by Perera on Nov 9, 2017 13:20:17 GMT
Hey Pes. Welcome to the community. It is saddening to see the way women are treated. It’s not like infertility is their fault. People like your husband need to realize that I understand that he wanted a child. Regardless of that threatening to end your marriage is not the way to go about it. I hope his behavior has changed now that you are expecting. Congratulations on that by the way. I hope you have a healthy baby. How long did you take those multivitamins for? Did you need to do anything else as well? What exactly was the cause of your infertility? I believe that your answers can help other women. As there are so many other women going through something similar. Looking forward to hearing from you.
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Post by Melissa on Nov 9, 2017 13:21:42 GMT
Hey there. I am impressed. You are highly courageous. You went through it all alone. The doctor, treatment, and everything. I hope your husband supports you more in the future. The doctor sounds like a magician! Are multivitamins all it took? It shows how so many of our problems are because of our poor dietary choices. We don’t eat healthy enough. Fast food and junk food have become more popular than ever. That is one reason behind rising infertility. I hope others will be inspired by your story. So that they start incorporating more nutrients into their diet. Fingers crossed.
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Post by honyeliat on Nov 9, 2017 13:24:00 GMT
Hello Pes. I am happy that you found a solution. It seems that your primary problem was lack of nutrients. Eating healthy is so important. Without it, your whole body is messed up. Fortunately, this was easy to fix. You now have a baby on the way. For many people, the journey is not that easy. They need to face so many obstacles in order to have a baby. I too was one of them. Lucky for me, I found a good solution. Surrogacy. It changed my life. I am sure many others would agree with me. Thank God we have so many options available now.
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Post by humahony on Nov 9, 2017 13:29:38 GMT
Hey Pes, its heartbreaking to read your post. And the thought that you had to fight this alone made me teary eyed. How can husbands just can kick their wives out of their lives when they need them the most. I think that's the height of selfishness. I fought with infertility for two years and I didn't fight alone it was my husband who fought with me. Then his friend recommended us a clinic in Ukraine Kiev. First, we were not sure that are we ready to this. But my husbands support kept me going. We had a treatment and rounds of IVF. Soon we got the good news that I was pregnant. I must the clinic was amazing. It had the best technology and professional doctors, who treat you like their family. Anyhow congrats dear on the good news. I know how happy you must be feeling. May God protect you from evil eyes.
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Post by anyees on Nov 9, 2017 13:45:35 GMT
Hi Kim. Not getting periods by the age of 15 is the definition of amenorrhea. I can see why you are worried. Despite that, I would urge you not to worry just yet. Not everybody’s body clocks are synchronous. These things can fluctuate. A year above or below is perfectly normal. Your mother is right. Waiting till you’re 16 is a good idea. Until then, try to analyze a bit. Is your diet okay? What food items can you consume more to trigger the onset of menstruation? Some people swear by raisins. Similarly, eggs can help too.
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Post by mehwishhony on Nov 9, 2017 13:47:15 GMT
Hi Pes. I am glad that you stayed courageous. You fought your battle against infertility all alone. That’s so strong of you. Your post is really inspiring for other women who are fighting against infertility. Positive attitude always leads you towards success. I am so against of the treatments like going to witch doctors and stuff like that. Trust me, it is completely useless. It is the waste of time and money. People should follow scientifically proved treatments. They are authentic and produce some results. Rest of the treatments has nothing to do with reality. I am happy that you preferred going to a doctor at the end. I am happy for you that you are pregnant. Enjoy your pregnancy.
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Post by jonyhony on Nov 9, 2017 13:49:32 GMT
Hi Pes. Your story is a source of inspiration for many of us. I am glad that you found a solution. I didn’t understand why you chose to go to the witch doctor. They are just waste of time. Don’t you think, medical has become so advance that you should believe it instead of such false things? Infertility is a very sensitive issue. I think it is better to discuss it with the experts and specialists. I am disappointed to read about your husband. He was sort of blackmailing you. Ending marriage is not a solution if your wife is unable to conceive. He must understand that you were not doing it on purpose. Can I please ask the reason for why you were unable to conceive? By the way, congratulations on your pregnancy. Enjoy it before you have a little bundle of joy in your hands.
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