pes
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Post by pes on Jun 27, 2017 14:39:45 GMT
Hi
My name is Pes and I am a new member in this forum. I will highly appreciate to share more with you. All my life the kids I sire are through the caesarean operation. My birth canal was so small and the muscles surrounding the canal couldn’t stretch out properly. So, the doctors opted for the easy way out. The way of the knife. It didn’t ring in my mind that multiple operations would end up scarring my ovaries. Trying to conceive for my third child, it couldn’t work. Visiting my medic, as usual, I was diagnosed and gave me hope. It is always very hard to give birth to a fourth child if I had been done surgery for the third time. I got a bit surprised as I only had surgery twice. Hoping for the best the medic advised me to go back home and wait for a few months and the condition will be back to normal. Through the multiple surgeries, my ovaries failed to ovulate. The ovaries were so much scarred to the point of not releasing the ovum for fertilization. After a rest of fourth months, five months up to six months, nothing came forth. I didn’t give up but kept on waiting. It was only after waiting for a whole year that I tried my lack again. This time I was able to conceive and after nine months I was able to be induced. Though so painful, I was able to make it.
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amt
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Post by amt on Jul 2, 2017 13:46:32 GMT
Wow. I am motivated by your confession. On top of that, scarred ovaries can be caused by damage to the fallopian tubes. Another common cause is the STIs through the development of Chlamydia.But anyway am so thrilled and learnt a lot.
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Post by honyeliat on Nov 9, 2017 13:24:11 GMT
Hey Pes. Welcome to the forum. Your story is so moving. You managed to brave through. That is highly admirable. Multiple surgeries can be damaging. Despite that surgery is often the only possibility.
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Post by ellaoty5 on Nov 9, 2017 13:51:24 GMT
Hi Pes. Sorry to hear that. Multiple surgeries can be harmful. I am glad you recovered. Despite the setbacks, you managed to have another child. Congratulations. Good luck for the future.
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waxsy
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Post by waxsy on Nov 9, 2017 13:59:29 GMT
Hey Pes! Welcome to the forum. You have chosen the right platform to share your views and worries with other women. Your journey is inspirational for all the infertile women and the one who is trying to conceive for a long time. You are so lucky that final you conceived after so much struggle. Take good care of yourself, dear.
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Post by marion34 on Dec 17, 2017 22:35:35 GMT
I am reading your story and thinking. This could be a great motivation story for my friend. She is fighting with similar problems. Thank you for sharing this story with us. You are a brave woman. You suffered a lot and it's great that you succeed make your dream come true.
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joddy
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Post by joddy on Dec 27, 2017 20:53:41 GMT
Welcome to the forum. I am glad that you decided to share your story with us. It's great story that will motivate others. Thank you for that. I wish you well.
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Post by lucero on Dec 31, 2017 20:14:48 GMT
Hi! Welcome to the forum. I think you made a great decision when you decide to share your story. After all your problems I am glad that you found your happiness. Take good care of yourself. I wish you all the best in your life. First of all, I wish you and your family a healthy life.
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pansy
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Post by pansy on Jan 31, 2018 16:49:25 GMT
I am so sorry to know this that you are facing similar issue as me. You do know that this issue arises because of damage Fallopian tube? I was diagnosed with the blockage in these tubes. You confession is so positive that I have to read it thrice to remember it. You are a string girl. I am so proud of you. After I am diagnosed with this; recently, we have opted for surrogacy from BioTexCom. You can try this out as well. All is still not lost. I am quite positive that you will be a mother. God is with you and our prayers.
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Post by amelia on Feb 24, 2018 19:24:26 GMT
I read your post and surprised to know that how much pain you have endured. It’s your stamina. Not every woman can do. After giving birth by C-section Is always scaring. I can remember those days when one of operation that I have seen. That was really terrible. Whenever I imagine those scenes my hand's shivers. Pes you are strong and brave. After trying so hard you didn’t give up. You continued your efforts. As you said that your ovaries were not able to produce ovum. It’s a pinchable moment when a lady came across it. but you get your result. I think everything is possible in the world. Need is just push up yourself. You should keep your vision and stamina high. Next will be your luck. Maybe good sometimes and may be bad.
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Post by lydias22 on Feb 26, 2018 3:39:20 GMT
this is such a heartwarming and brave story.You deserve a round of applause.I wish I was as strong as you, also congratulations you deserved it.I really all goes well for you from this point onwards.I know it can be really hard to come out of that dark place.I envy you honestly, I've had my ovaries removed due to the damage they took.I was in a road accident back in 2016.14 weeks into the pregnancy when all this happened.My life has been a train wreck ever since then.I am a bit more optimistic now let's see where this goes.Might be going to assisted pregnancy procedures.I think I can still go for IVF with donor eggs.Anyways you have a very brave story.Please take care of yourself for your and your families sake.Much love to you guys and take care of your diet.You are the living example of whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
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Post by monikaa on Oct 3, 2018 18:51:26 GMT
This must have been so painful. There are certain doctors who even while retrieving the eggs are not careful at all which causes scarring. It is due to these reasons that I made sure that the clinic I am visiting is using the latest equipment and has doctors who have the experience. For assisted conceptions, it is really important that the doctors are professionals and have the knowledge to carry out the process. My process due to these factors is going very smoothly. I think it should be a lesson for others. Everyone should be careful while going through any treatment. Good luck to all those who are in the similar journey.
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Post by hannah on Mar 23, 2019 20:02:27 GMT
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so happy that things worked for you. This must be soo exciting for you. After soo much of struggle, you were finally able to get the desired result. Its all about staying determined. Congratulations to you. I am in the middle of a surrogacy procedure. I have been on this journey for more than 5 years. After every treatment failed for me I would give another try. Many times I wanted to quit. However, stayed strong and kept moving ahead. Now things are finally going according to the plan. Hoping for the best. The doctors are doing an amazing job. Do pray for us.
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Post by mandy5238678 on Mar 27, 2019 9:49:33 GMT
There was a moment when I realised that quitting was not an option. Although, I have to admit that there is a different meaning what I think to quit stands for. I think that if you decide to move on from ivf to surrogacy it is not quitting. Or if you decide to stay childless, it is also not quitting. Quitting is allowing your own negative emotions overtake all of the others.
Just trust yourself and your journey will end on a good note. This is what I have been thinking about a lot.
We have decided to take a pause prior to signing with World center of baby. And all of the decisions were right the moments they were taken at.
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Post by hannah on May 21, 2019 0:46:39 GMT
Congratulations to you. I am so glad that things worked out for you. It is all about giving everything your best. I can understand it is a bumpy ride but if one is strong things do get better. I also do believe that if the doctors are expereinced they do increase the procedure's chances of success even higher. I hope everything goes smooth for you in the future. Thank you for sharing your story.
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