tim
New Member
Posts: 11
|
Post by tim on Jun 27, 2017 14:32:19 GMT
My name is Tim and I am a new member in this forum. I will highly appreciate to share more with you. Stress can cause divorce and mental anguish. It can lead to suicide and denial. That is what I underwent through immediately I got married. I was battered, given a shoulder and humiliated. My hubby used to drink to death and on getting home the first thing he used to do was shout abuses at me using vulgar language. In the wake of all that, I stopped menstruating and my blood pressure went high. I was a mixture of confusion in marriage. My adrenaline used to rise any other time I found myself in the midst of men. The high rise of this hormone inhibited me from utilizing hormone progesterone. Pituitary gland was enabled to produce more of the prolactin which could be one the problems I was infertile. I used to conceive but no fruits were born whatsoever. On visiting the medic, I was given some depressants to bring me to my normal self. The catecholamines and cortisol were suppressed and started producing the main body hormone for fertility. The gonadotrophin which is the hormone responsible for stimulating the sex hormones was again stimulated and I was able to conceive and bore a child.
|
|
|
Post by eagerfamily98 on Jul 1, 2017 9:36:17 GMT
Thank you very much for sharing your story. I know how tough it is to share sometimes. Your post is truly an inspiration. I understand that the home life gets rough at times. You are a hugely passionate person, I can tell. I have been trying myself and will continue to push forward. Thank you for the gold you've shared. I am inspired to continue moving along. The light is near. xx
|
|
|
Post by momnikki on Jul 23, 2017 16:09:31 GMT
Jeez, why did you even stay with him after all he has done? You were supposed to leave him after the first time it happened. Marriage cannot be anything else, but the inspiring place to be! Not anything like letting you down that much. You are the first person you need to care about, especially if you want to give a birth to another little one.. I do not understand women who let their husbands treat them that way. Darling, get a bit of confidence and leave whoever makes you feel unhappy. Do not ruin your inner world just because somebody you love is dumb enough to do so.
|
|
dk
New Member
Posts: 12
|
Post by dk on Jul 31, 2017 11:58:22 GMT
First of all congratulation to you for able to conceive and bore a child. After reading your post, I seriously got an inspiration of never losing the hope in life. In the initial surely you have went through the hard times but ultimately you conquer the victory and able to bear the child even after the hard work. You have seen the worst time but also it turns into golden and beautiful days which bring the happiness in your life again. It is just an inspirational speech which inspires many women in the world and tells to never lose the hope. I really appreciate your efforts and says thanks to post such a wonderful experience of your life with us. There are many women who are facing lots of problems like you in their life. But after reading the story of your success, it fully inspire and enhance the strength and power in own self. Your story remembers me of my days which I have been gone through. I cannot deny about the truth but it was a painful and terrible phase of life when anyone woman hear about the infertility news about own. But woman like you are truly an inspirational in life and inspire the other women too. After struggling hard in terrible phase, you go to the specialist and able to conceive which is truly a miracle and boon of God. After all this, you bear a baby which is such wonderful and delightful news for people. During my phase, I had seen many women who work hard, visit to the specialist and also does the proper medication to get conceive. After knowing about your story, I would like to share to every woman and inspire with your story. You are truly a gem and inspirational for the world who give a lovely message to people. I really appreciate your efforts and congratulate you for having a sweet baby. I hope you would live a beautiful and wonderful life with your baby.
|
|
|
Post by toddlerlovah on Aug 5, 2017 8:33:35 GMT
Hello Tim. Thanks for sharing this. I hope you're doing fine. I love your story. It's very inspiring. You cannot call it beautiful... Well, maybe you can. I feel like it is beautiful in it's way. I want to congratulate you. You dealt with many daemons and you kicked them all. You showed what a warrior you are. I hope that from now on all you'll face is happiness. People like you deserve this the most. It's a pleasure to get to know your story. Again thanks for sharing it with us here. I know that sometimes, especially for me, it's hard to come out. You did the right thing though. Wish you all the luck in the world.
|
|
dk
New Member
Posts: 12
|
Post by dk on Aug 26, 2017 11:03:20 GMT
Hello, congratulations on your conceiving and on finally you bore a child. I can understand how it feels. The mental stress and tension you must be going through the days. You are truly an inspiration of never losing hope and continuously trying to reach the desired goal. I know you have faced a lot of troubles in your marriage life but it shows how strong your will power is. In the starting stage the phase was tough but you finally successes which i find very very inspiring. You saw two faces of a coin. Here coin is you marriage you saw the worst part as well as the best part as well. Your post mainly highlights that stress can cause infertility and menstrual problem which is very true. I truly believe what you said because I have myself gone through this phase. I used to take a lot of stress and one time in my life came that I started feeling depressed and very much lonely. I always give all the credits to bring back positivity and happiness in my life to my dear husband, because of him i was able to rebuild myself more strong and healthy, he was the only one who gave his 100% in making me stand again and come out of the problem. I always feel blessed to have him and his family as a support system in my life. I remember he was the one who took me to a very famous clinic in kiev were we consulted for the problem was having and later on with the help of gynecologist and regular check up i conceived after 6 months. Currently, i am a mother of a beautiful baby girl. I am happy for you that you finally found the good news. I wish good luck to you for future.
|
|
|
Post by michael24x on Aug 28, 2017 7:09:53 GMT
Hi welcome sister at this open online platform. I want to appreciate your courage to share your personal story at this online forum. I am here for you to provide sufficient information to clear your doubts and provide easy and effective tips to overcome stress to handle infertility problem in easy and effective way. I can understand your problem in professional way because I also face same problem like you in my life just 1 year ago. Now I am happy and healthy to enjoy endless joy in my life with baby gift that fulfill my whole life with brightness. I want to forget those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to infertility problem. I want to overcome this horrible situation at any cost. We try each and every effective method but not succeed. I want to overcome this difficult situation at any cost. We consult with popular gynecologist of Ukraine to get permanent solution of stress and depression. I want to suggest you some easy and effective tips and tricks that help you to overcome this depression and stress horrible problem in your life to defeat infertility problem. This is medical science based treatment available in medical history. You should not lose hope. It is medical proven fact that stress and depression are responsible for infertility and miscarriage problem all over the world. It is smart idea to make proper planning to defeat stress and depression in easy and effective way. I hope you get sufficient information to clear your doubts to enjoy joy in your life like me. I hope to hear good news soon that fulfills your whole life with happiness.
|
|
|
Post by anjaliraghu on Aug 28, 2017 7:31:47 GMT
Hello friend. I am really sorry for what you have gone through in the past. But I am very happy that you overcome from the difficult in life. Truly I appreciate your courage and like to salute you about your decision. I know how you felt about the infertility but finally after the great courage and inspiration you able to fertile and blessed with the baby. I wish God shower the blessing and keep your baby healthy. I know how some of the husbands react to their wife. But it is the time to make him change and bring the best in him with your effort. My dear friend, I know how you are feeling right now. You are the only one who can make the changes and start a new phase in life. All I can say, your story remind me of my days and I would like to thanks to you for sharing your story. You are such an inspirational to other women. It is the time to take care about health and keep feeding your baby for the betterment of baby’s life. All you can do is to need to change your schedule and eat only the healthy foods. You can drink the fresh juice daily and eat the high nutrients foods. You can go for minerals and vitamins food diet daily. To refresh the mind and get rid of the stress you need to go for the morning walk daily. I am really impressed with you and you are truly an inspirational for other women. I hope you would have great future and live a healthy life with your baby. I wish you all the best and hope you would like my suggestion.
|
|
|
Post by britney33 on Aug 29, 2017 14:35:39 GMT
Yes, stress can be the real and the major cause of the infertility. Stress alone makes up about 20-30 % of the infertile cases through out the world. Although the antidepressants help them it remains with a known healing scar throughout their life journey. Stress not only affects the mental plane but also affects the physical strength in the serious plane. But you are very courageous and inspiring that you did not give up and faced all the stuff alone. You are amongst the few to get themselves out of the situation and manage all the wrong decisions to make it right again. And you finally did and bore a child too, which was truly rewarding to yourself. Not all the females get such courage to come out of the situation and make the right judgments, many females are still suffering silently in the dark corners of their homes and are under their husband’s domestic violence. But you can be their inspiration and keep posting your success stories like this. This can help them to bring back their shattered confidence and may rise their voices against violence. Along with antidepressants, one can also do meditation, start involving in personal chores and tasks like gardening, dancing, sports etc can also help them their mind keep calm and relaxed. This also makes to learn to control their emotions and overcome their sufferings. Stress is a mental state of worrying due to the extent of time spent on it. This can help to overcome the situation and manage all health related problems associated with the stress.
|
|
|
Post by anjaliraghu on Sept 1, 2017 9:14:43 GMT
Hi Tim welcome at this online platform. I want to express kind heart thanks to sharing your problem at this reliable platform. I like your corporate your natural. I love your story very well. I read your problem word by word to understand the cause and provide best-in-class treatment to face this horrible situation in your life. It is a not childish act to handle stress and depression due to infertility problem. It is very important to handle negative thinking at this difficult situation. You can easily handle stress and depression with proper management plan in advance to get maximum benefit to get healthy baby gift in your life that is dream of every woman to enjoy labor fruit. I can understand your problem in easy and effective way. I also spend lots of my marriage life day with stress and depression. It is medically certified fact that stress and depression are very harmful for pregnant women. I want to suggest to some effective tips and tricks that you should keep in mind to handle stressful and depression in your life. It is good idea to make proper balance with body and mind to get real time benefit to conceive effectively to defeat in infertility problem in short time period. You have to stop negative thinking and our thinking that ruins your life day by day. You can spend your valuable time in your hobby and play with children that are the best idea to convert your dream into reality to enjoy baby gift in your life to get brightness in your life. I hope you get sufficient information to defeat infertility problem due to stress and depression. I am waiting your reply to hear good news soon.
|
|
jessy
New Member
Posts: 4
|
Post by jessy on Sept 14, 2017 14:24:20 GMT
Hi, Tim, Dr. Domar says” One Japanese study found that about 40 percent of women with fertility problems were clinically anxious or depressed before they even started getting treated for infertility”. It’s possible that high levels of stress can still make getting pregnant more difficult." Stress can interfere with conception. Because stress can affect the functioning of the hypothalamus – the gland in the brain that regulates your appetite and emotions. The good news is that stress-induced delays to ovulation should not stop you getting pregnant.
|
|
|
Post by sonamgupta2107 on Sept 16, 2017 17:16:40 GMT
Hi dear. I will be glad to give you some information on how stress affects fertility. I am a victim myself. I will not be able to get a child still today if it was not for Lotus center. A very well known center in Ukraine which helped me a lot. Infertility can cause a monthly rollercoaster of emotions that run the gamut from anxiety to expectation, from hope to fear, and it can be difficult for couples to endure it together. Furthermore, the struggle to conceive is often felt and processed differently by different people. This emotional disparity can create tension in the relationship and compound stressful feelings. Infertility struggles should be shared as couples seek to support each other throughout the process. Couples are encouraged to remain sensitive to each other despite the difficulties and not allow the wish to become parents to harm their relationship.
Extended infertility can intensify feelings of depression, anger, and sadness. Some doctors have found evidence that stress might adversely affect a person’s overall health and well-being so it is imperative to try and reduce personal stress levels. If you are having trouble managing negative feelings related to infertility, talk to your doctor, reach out to more support groups, and if necessary, seek help from a therapist or mental health professional.
There are many different approaches to mitigating stress so it is best to try a variety of techniques, be it meditation, light to moderate exercise, yoga, massage, exercise, prayer, professional counseling, or a combination of methods. However, it is vital not to struggle alone. People coping with stress should not hesitate to discuss their feelings with their health care provider in order to maximize the chances of conception. I hope the information I gave you will help you. Be safe and stay blessed.
|
|
|
Post by shannon on Sept 18, 2017 6:46:39 GMT
Hello Tim, Thank you soo much for sharing your amazing story. I hope it will motivates others.
|
|
|
Post by priyaangel2587 on Sept 20, 2017 16:18:28 GMT
Hello my dear friend, thank you for sharing your personal experience and problem with us. Sometimes it is very hard to share such experiences on a public platform and you are very strong to do it. It is always a good option to share your problems with others so that you can find any good advice and good solution for it. Your story is very inspirational and very motivational. I hope many people will get good inspiration from it and it is for sure that you are very strong and positive person in your life. I can understand that your life was not so simple and you went through many hard and difficult situations in your life. It is always important to keep your attitude positive towards life to get happiness in life. One thing is for sure that you should never lose hope and happiness due to these problems in life. It’s all about destiny and we can't-do anything about it. We can only keep it in a positive way to find any good solution. It is never a good option to give up in such situations because you can only get light in your life by fighting with such situations. When I was facing the issue of infertility in my life, I also get many problems to find a good solution for it. It is always important to get hope for good and good time will come soon for sure. Now I am also living a beautiful and happy life with my baby but there was a time when I was going through depression and stress because of my family problems and infertility issue. Your story is very inspirational for me and I am getting positive energy inside my soul with it.
|
|
|
Post by melisaadams on Sept 22, 2017 18:31:05 GMT
Hi Priya,
don't face the same situation again and again. You need to keep going and face the bad days and I am happy for you. I have so mmuch love for you in my heart.
Don't stress.
|
|