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ter
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Pills messed me Jun 27, 2017 14:17:15 GMT amt likes this

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Post by ter on Jun 27, 2017 14:17:15 GMT

My name is Ter and I am a new member in this forum. I will highly appreciate to share more with you. Abstaining from penetrative sex, I thought it would be a good feeling for foreplay. I sometimes coaxed my boyfriends to use condoms any time we had sex. On my side, I made sure I had kept birth control pills to keep me away from pregnancy. All my tricks bore fruits as I never remember any time I got pregnant or contracted HIV or AIDs. All the time I had the inner confidence that I was fertile to conceive and give birth to a child. I used to have a lot of sex for sexual gratification and never worried about the repercussions. I always took a lot of care to myself not to ever mess myself. Little did I know I would suffer from my naivety. I bonded well with my colleagues, exchanged pleasantries to an extent of exchanging bodily fluids downplaying the fact that HIV is real. Through experimentation, I used all the birth control measures possible till I almost exhausted with everything. But in the end, the hell broke loose. This time I wanted to settle and start a family. I was too careful to choose the man who can easily become the father to my children. When I got one, we tried to conceive but to no avail. I visited the gynecologist and later realized I had the problem. The doctor was very quick to inquire how often I had been using the birth control pills. It was my worst feeling on earth as I had never thought when I was doing that it would later have a detrimental effect and impediment to my siring a kid.

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amt
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Pills messed me Jul 1, 2017 10:59:42 GMT

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Post by amt on Jul 1, 2017 10:59:42 GMT

Thanks Ter for giving us an insight into your life. Pills have an advantage of reducing pregnancy but can't help in reducing the transmission of STIs. Though advantageous when the woman is not ready for pregnancy, it has some side effects like headaches, nausea and vomiting. In some cases, they can lead to mood swings and the tenderness of breasts. I would advise you to use them moderately.

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Pills messed me Jul 15, 2017 21:10:54 GMT

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Post by rim on Jul 15, 2017 21:10:54 GMT

Hi Ter, Pills are not bad either. When used moderately they can't do you harm. One of the main problems is misuse and overuse when they are not so much needed. When overused, they may end up damaging your fertility which would be too bad for the general and overall health. In some cases, they may result in a child being born with some health issues like mental retardation. One of the most damage they can do to someone's body is making them infertile. I was a victim of that but I ended up Ok. I was totally infertile and it's only through the BioTex clinic in Ukraine that I was able to rise to my feet again. Otherwise, I would be infertile to date.