ryan
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Post by ryan on Jun 13, 2017 9:25:50 GMT
Live is beautiful, isn't it? But getting a new life into this world is even more beautiful. But some couples have trouble accomplishing this task. Honestly, having gone through that phase, I know how a couple feels when they are first met with this bad news. But what most people don't know is that it isn't the end of the world. There are various things you can do about it. All you have to do is be mentally prepared and research your options.
First of all, people need to know that it can happen to both males and females. Sometimes, males tend to refuse the truth which may lead to mental illness thus deteriorating their condition. Another thing to keep in mind is that when you're met with the news, you have to be strong and support your partner. But most of the couples tend to do the opposite and try to play the blame game which weakens their relationship. You won't believe but a couple's inability to produce babies also leads to divorce which can be very disturbing for both the people. Your love and support plays a crucial role in these times. Being mentally strong helps you think clearly thus eliminating half the problem. You need to take care of your partner and try to get rid of all the factors which may prove depressing for your them. Seriously friends, I can't stress enough how much you need to be there for your partner and trust me guys, if you can get through that depressing stuff, then you will definitely get through all the medical procedures and you will have a great family life lying in front of you.
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Post by saraqueen on Dec 12, 2018 11:49:58 GMT
Hey there Ryan! Thank you for sharing this information. It's important to have support from both sides. When I was diagnosed with my infertility I was devastated but thanks to my husband, he helped me get back on my feet and now we are having surrogacy at a clinic abroad. Everything is working out for me now. Thanks to him. If he didn't support me I would have given up a long time ago.
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Post by barbaraww on Jan 4, 2019 0:17:20 GMT
Hi Ryan! You are totally right about everything. In this stage, your partner needs the most support. This is something that can only be dealt with if both sides are willing to help. This is a two-way road, it needs support from both sides. Stay blessed.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 3, 2019 19:17:46 GMT
Hi. I agree. My husband is so supportive. We went through some tough times together. During TTC I was very close to give everything up. But he supported me. He is always there for me. I try to do the same. This is how it should be for everyone. Thank you for this amazing post.
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Post by sofistea on Feb 28, 2019 19:02:46 GMT
Life’s wonderful I agree. How many times it was cursed and saved from a real fatal mistake! I can proudly admit my life full of miracles would be nothing without my dear man. He was always the one who never betrays. He’s a man maintaining my faith despite the falls. I’m much grateful for his warm hands, and words, and deeds.
The life is often unfair. Are you agreed? I’m the one who always loved children and wanted to raise them but I couldn’t. sometimes we see those who get pregnant without even any wish and thought on that plan. They commit abortions explaining their acts with their great love of freedom. I don’t have children, and this condition isn’t about the freedom at all. I’m often sad and unhappy because of my inability. But my husband is always next to me to support.
It’s really hard to imagine this life without his shoulder. All my words of gratitude are sent to his integrity and commitment. I love him the same strong way as he loves me with all my disadvantages.
We can’t be perfect but we can give maximum care to each other. Sometimes it makes us heroes.
If my DH gave up and stopped supporting me, we would never be here expecting our sweet baby to be born. I think I was clear because it takes a lot of emotions.
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Post by monikaa on Jul 30, 2019 23:14:37 GMT
This post is very important. I am sure people will take some help from it. Support from both sides is extremely important. When I was diagnosed with a poor ovarian reserve I thought the world had come to an end for me. However, my husband was extremely supported. It is because of him that we found this amazing clinic that was willing to help us. If it wasn't for him I am not sure how I would survive. Do pray for us.
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Post by hannah on Oct 12, 2019 17:08:06 GMT
It's important to support one another. The journey is a really hard one and therefore you have to be patient throughout. However, not even any party should showcase any sort of negative vibe. Mainly because that is not good for the other. Things are going well for me because my DH is supportive. He always makes sure that I am happy. Similarly, I care about his feelings too. Good luck to you.
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Post by hannah on Oct 22, 2019 15:15:48 GMT
I am glad to hear that. It is really important to do that for another. The clinic I am visiting also offers therapy. Just so that if there is a problem things get better. The clinic has played a vital role and making sure that we both are satisfied. They keep updating us. I am hoping for the best. Good luck to you.
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Post by hannah on Oct 31, 2019 8:21:29 GMT
I want to share my story here. When I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. I was honestly shattered. Mainly because I always wanted to be a mother. I never thought it would be this hard. Therefore, I was really disappointed that something like this would happen. However, it was my husband who was supportive. He really pushed me forward.
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