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Post by sosmar84rom on Jun 7, 2017 7:13:17 GMT
Hello everyone. I don't know if I find your support here but I should try. My issue is infertility. I faced it long ago but it doesn't matter because I still haven't found a solution. The most bitter part is that I have no one to share with. I have too few friends and they all have children. I have no partner and my parents are also not with me. I feel so alone...One of my mates suggested me to buy a dog to spend time with. I don't want a dog, I need family! The reason for my infertility is extremely low AMH. My body just refuses to make me a mother. I tried IVF with donor sperm but it failed. I opted for one more cycle but it was cancelled due to empty follicles. My doc says we can't try again as it won't give any result. If I want to move on, I need to use not only donor sperm but also donor eggs. I'm depressed...I'm so lonely and I'm not lucky enough to have someone related to me beside me. What should I do? What would you do if you were me?
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Post by prozental on Jun 7, 2017 7:30:25 GMT
Hello dear! I’m pitiful to hear about your problem. It’s always hard to know when someone feels bad. You’re not alone I’m infertile too. And my husband and I tried hard to conceive for so long. our useless trying and my failed rounds didn’t give us babies and stole our poor hope.
But now we are living through another new stage. we cordially changed our view.
What do you plan? Describe in short your main plans for the nearest future, thank you
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Post by ammanma on Jun 7, 2017 7:31:31 GMT
sosmar84romI'm sorry for that heartbreaking things you faced, I feel for you. Infertility is a trial for everyone and unfortunately it's not easy to struggle against it alone. over years of infertility I met women who were ready to let go of the reins but they had faith in success and constant support of the closest people. It's really sad that you don't have people near who are ready to share your sorrow and to support you when you need this so much. Anyway, it's great that you are ready to share at least in such forums and communities like this. We always ready to help each other. I wish you nothing but the best. I'm with you x
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Post by sosmar84rom on Jun 7, 2017 8:55:54 GMT
Hello dear! I’m pitiful to hear about your problem. It’s always hard to know when someone feels bad. You’re not alone I’m infertile too. And my husband and I tried hard to conceive for so long. our useless trying and my failed rounds didn’t give us babies and stole our poor hope. But now we are living through another new stage. we cordially changed our view. What do you plan? Describe in short your main plans for the nearest future, thank you Thank you for your compassion, it's what I get so rare that it feels like my problem is not an issue for anyone else at all. I mean I'm not expecting people to nice to mee all the time because of this thing but at least not to be rude with me. I feel for you as well. On one hand I don't want people to go through the same misery but on the other hand, it's kind of relief to know that I'm not alone. What is the stage you are going through? I don't know what to do to be honest. I'm studying up on different option and trying to figure out what I need. Have doubts if I need even to start all this. |
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Post by sosmar84rom on Jun 7, 2017 14:22:32 GMT
sosmar84rom I'm sorry for that heartbreaking things you faced, I feel for you. Infertility is a trial for everyone and unfortunately it's not easy to struggle against it alone. over years of infertility I met women who were ready to let go of the reins but they had faith in success and constant support of the closest people. It's really sad that you don't have people near who are ready to share your sorrow and to support you when you need this so much. Anyway, it's great that you are ready to share at least in such forums and communities like this. We always ready to help each other. I wish you nothing but the best. I'm with you x Thank you so much for your support! I agree with every word. I wish I had someone here with me to give me a helping hand in need. But yes, the best society to share with is the one where infertile women like we share their experience either the bitter or the sweet. I'm really grateful for everything! I will post more x |
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Post by prozental on Jun 8, 2017 8:07:43 GMT
My poor girl! I’m nearly to sink in your drama. You are really alone. And only god knows how it’s tough to cope with this injustice. But I ain’t wanna you to be so upset. It doesn’t work as well as gives nothing.
You should know this world is full of unhappy people which find their calm coming together. I guess you don’t often use female forums. But they can be highly useful.
Let’s try change your life conditions dear! What you want to do? What you want most of all?
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Post by sosmar84rom on Jun 13, 2017 7:23:22 GMT
Prozental, thank you for these kind words. YOu are right, I don't spend much time on forums and I don't want anybody to feel my paind and "sink in my drama", it's not my goal actually. I appreciate you for worrying about me but if my story is upsetting, you may leave the discussion.
Anyway, regardless of your decision I'll answer you.
I don't what I want beside being a mother. Or maybe I just don't want to be alone. I'm tired of being lonely..
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Post by christ on Jun 13, 2017 8:03:03 GMT
hi sosmar84rom
It's awful what you've been through. i can only imagine how tough it is for you.
I have been through 7 IVF cycles and can tell you for sure that it's not that horrifying. although all my attempts were unsuccessful, I keep moving on and want to have few more cycles to make sure that I'm not able to have children. My advice would be to start your treatment with donor eggs. It's not painful but it's extremely exciting. Wish you all the best x
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Post by antonia on Jun 13, 2017 10:31:44 GMT
hi sosmar84rom It's awful what you've been through. i can only imagine how tough it is for you. I have been through 7 IVF cycles and can tell you for sure that it's not that horrifying. although all my attempts were unsuccessful, I keep moving on and want to have few more cycles to make sure that I'm not able to have children. My advice would be to start your treatment with donor eggs. It's not painful but it's extremely exciting. Wish you all the best x oh wow, 7 cycles, don't you worry your body will be exhausted and you couldn't live a normal life? I just found this thread on the forum, I'm also not a big fun of different forums. I prefer to have a face to face conversation. As you I was struggling with infertility issues. Frankly, I don't know how and when the God decided to send me a husband because I was born with a rare disease, I'm not able to carry a baby. He was strong and helped me to live a normal life. sosmar84rom with all my heart I can't help you because I know nothing about egg donation process as my issue is quite different. Any way, if the doctor told you an egg donation if for you, don't waste a time and do this because time is flying so don't lose your chance to be happy. xxx |
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Post by ammanma on Jun 27, 2017 10:13:19 GMT
Hello again sosmar84rom
I just want to ask if you have any updates. It's been a while since your last post, I worry a bit. I'm sure you need support as you are in a difficult situation.
I though t a little about your problem and I do think that you need to have a closer look to the process of an egg donation. If you are not ready to live childfree life it could be an option for you. The process itself is the same as you underwent but even simplier because you only need to take pills for your lining...I've been trhough this and it helped me to become a mother. Wish you luck
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Post by keji17 on Jul 22, 2017 18:16:01 GMT
Hello. I know it's a lil while you posted this, I hope you are holding up fine. Have u found a solution to the fertility issues yet? If yes, congratulations. If not, do not lose hope. You definitely need all the help and support you can get. You said you have a few friends that already have children. I am sure they wish you the best but does been around them make you feel worse? If yes try to spend less time with them. What do you love to do? Do you have any hobbies? Try to keep yourself occupied with things that make you happy. Try to see a different doctor too. Someone else might have a different opinion, approach or solution. Find something that makes you happy and hold on to it. Another quick way to lift your spirits quickly is to help someone in need. Might be your next door neighbor or a homeless person. Helping others is definitely a mood lifter for most people. I hope you find happiness. Good luck.
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Post by sarahfischer on Jul 23, 2017 22:31:25 GMT
i know nothing will help. not even a millionth sorry on the internet. just be brave and keep it strong. its not the end of the world, but the end of one chapter that will just make you even stronger.
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