lilly
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Post by lilly on Mar 6, 2017 11:02:24 GMT
Hi, everyone!
I'm here to share my sad story and ask for some advice.. I had been pregnant for 12 weeks already and we were dreaming about our future baby day and night. We were looking for baby's cloths, decorating the room and all the stuff like that .. But here began our dreadful story..we set our minds to do the analysis to see if our baby is developing properly.. I will never forget the day when the results were ready and we were called to see the doctor.. As a typical representative of the medical stuff he tried to control his emotions but we understood that something was wrong from the very first second we saw him. He then took us into his cabinet and in a low and concerned voice informed us that there's great probability our baby was going to develop a Down syndrome. He was recommending an abortion .. he was even insisting on that and convinced us that we would definitely have a chance to get another baby born absolutely healthy.. and we agreed to that.. In just a few days we lost our child and our dream
We underwent a row of TX to recover after that .. then in about 5 months we started our ttc attemps again but without success. . The subsequent check up showed damaged fallopian tubes and infertility. I think it could have been avoided if the doctors were qualified enough. One should be very careful when choosing a specialist! They can easily get a lot of trouble into your life. They say IVF could help now. The thing is to get good doctors and if possible for affordable price. Is it possible to get good advise here? If someone has any information that may be useful please share...
Thanks in advance
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Post by ammanma on Mar 6, 2017 11:24:51 GMT
Hello lily! I've just joined this forum and wanted to create my own post, but then I saw your one and it happened that we are in the same boat. My tubes are blocked and in addition my amh is 0,2 (bloody age). If there is a chance to retrieve my eggs I'll have IVF, but unfortunately even stimulation can't help me in this case. Too late. My gyno told me I could try donor egg IVF. This procedure improves quality of embryos, at least I will have embies, and my chances will be much higher. I don't know details about your problem, but maybe this method could be useful and for you too. Sending you lots of love!
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Post by rhutes on Mar 6, 2017 11:33:11 GMT
Hello everyone!
I am also in IVF boat. Am opting for egg donation ivf. though it is going to be the second time when I will be undergoing the treatment of this type. I had already 3 failed rounds of ivf but now my heart is full of hope because with my new clinic everything is better than it was earlier...
good luck with your txs girls!
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Post by antonia on Mar 6, 2017 12:43:41 GMT
Hello, I'm a new member as well as you all girls. Honestly, I don't know what to advise you because I'm not a big expert in this field. My story is quite different from yours. I faced my infertility 8 years ago. I had a hysterectomy in 2007 and that ruined my life totally. We wanted to have babies but God had other plans. Any way, we started to fight and won this competition.. |
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lilly
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Post by lilly on Mar 6, 2017 13:17:06 GMT
oh, girls .. thanks for your support and for sharing your stories. It's good that one may find out so much useful information here .. though it's so sad at the same time that there's so many unhappy people who experience that grief in their lives.. I'm just waiting for the results of my analysis.. that will show if it's still possible to use my own eggs for ivf or I'll have to stick to donor ones. I'm 38 already and there's definitely such a risk.. As far as I understand that's the options for you too..? How have you coped with that?
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Post by ammanma on Mar 6, 2017 14:05:17 GMT
lillyoh you definitely need to know if you are able to have ivf with your own eggs or donor egg is your only chance. Many women refuse to proceed with DE treatment as long as they have a slightest chance to get pregnant on their own or at least without donor eggs. Btw lots of women don't want to have children if the are not 100% related to them. It's a hard decision after all. as for me, i'm ready to take this step, I want to be a mother more than to keep my blood pure haha.
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Post by lilly on Mar 6, 2017 15:08:46 GMT
Of course, that is the reason why I have doubts and fears about the ivf on donor eggs and still have high hopes for my own ones. Though I'm sure I won't give up an idea of being a mom even if I happen to have that difficulties. That's great you set your mind about everything already. I'm really afraid that I will be told to have the same problems with my amh or the thing like that which can make the retrieval of my own egg impossible. Now I remind my doc mentioning such situations.. which I didn't pay much attention to ... and that might have been for the reason.. Where do you do your treatment by the way? Can that place be trusted? Sorry..probably I'm too suspicious now but I'm so scared to get into trouble again..
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Post by antonia on May 25, 2017 8:11:01 GMT
Hello dear!!!!!!
It's no be here again. I was busy this time.
As you probably know I was writing we are going to be parents.
I'm curious how are you. It's been a long time we didn't speak here.
Have you decided something? Are you with any clinic right now?
p.s. I'm not sure whether you know about ukraine, but you can look at its clinics. They offer good prices and conditions. In any case you can consult someone from the clinic and ask any question you want. for sure they will give you a valuable information.
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Post by emiliajoe on Nov 28, 2018 22:17:08 GMT
I, too, think IVF would be a good option for you. I actually happen to know of a good fertility clinic where you can get this done. The best thing about them is how affordable they are. I went to this clinic when I wanted to have a baby through surrogacy. I couldn't afford it where I live. Everything went so well with them. I think this could be the answer for you. You should check them out.
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Post by myraward on Feb 5, 2019 6:10:41 GMT
Hi there Lily! I am so sorry for your loss. Infertility is a hard thing to deal with. The doctors are right, IVF is a great option for you. But it's important that you do some research about clinics before opting for one. The clinic where I had my surrogacy was not that expensive. The packages were affordable and the services you get are just great. They even have a guarantee program in which they will keep trying till it's successful for you. It's abroad but trust me it's worth it. The doctors are so experienced that you will have nothing to worry about. I just hope this helps you. If you are looking for a clinic then this one is a good option. Good luck! Stay blessed!
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Post by feliciapayton on Feb 9, 2019 12:51:00 GMT
Hi there! Welcome to the forum. I hope you are doing well. There are a lot of people who have had IVF and it worked out for them. You are right, It's important to get a good doctor. Then things have more chances to work for you. The clinic i m going to visit for my surrogacy is a good one if you are looking for one. The packages are also quite affordable. The doctors are very well experienced so you don't have to worry about that. I Hope this helps you. If you need any more information, you can ask me or visit their youtube channel. Good luck. Stay blessed. Bye.
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Post by monikaa on Aug 2, 2019 16:59:56 GMT
If your doctors are saying that IVF will help then I would suggest you do opt for it. However, for the process just make sure you visit the right doctor. For IVF this matters a lot. The more experienced the doctor the better it will be. This I am saying from my own personal experience. I changed my clinic when I opted for surrogacy and things are going really well. I can provide you with the information regarding the clinic. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by hannah on Sept 29, 2019 7:19:58 GMT
I don't want to sound opinionated but why did you go for that route? Children with Down syndrome are as precious as the kids that are normal. I think your doctor forced you to do something completely wrong. I am really sorry to know about your later disorder as well. I think you should look into IVF. The process has a very high success rate! A lot of couples are now opting for the process. It is just about visiting the right doctor for the process. The doctor should be professional and experienced enough to know what he is doing. I believe many are unaware of that. Good luck to you. If you need help with the clinic do let me know. I am visiting a clinic for a different process and things are going really well. They are reliable which is a really big factor. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by hannah on Nov 21, 2019 7:15:06 GMT
I hope things go smoothly. Just think positively! A good doctor could have definitely helped in the situation. However, now what has been done has been done. Just hope for the well being of the baby. Good luck to you. Dont lose hope. I am sure things will get better.
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