Can I have a baby at 45?

Hey Marianna! First of all, I'm really sorry. It's good that you wanna move on. It is healthy for you. So you are 45. IVF is really helpful but the age factor will still count. I think you should consult a professional. IVF can't eliminate the age related changes. If I were you, I would go with surrogacy. But I'll be hoping that my eggs are viable. I can't stand that the child I'm bringing up is not mine biologically. That's why I can't go with adoption either. There is just too much emotional chaos involved. I can't take a child through it. I know it's a difficult situation. But consulting a professional is the best option. People here are helping you every way they can. But there best is limited. I hope the best for you and your family.

Hey Marianna! I hope you are doing well. I know how hard it is for you. It's possible if your healthy enough. IVF is a wonderful treatment. But so unpredictable as well. It also depends a lot on the clinic you are opting for. If the clinic is good enough then it will make anything work for you. If the clinic is bad like L**** and A***** then all you will get in return is pain. So make sure you do your research on clinics before opting for anyone. Good luck. Stay blessed. I hope things work out for you. Bye.

Hello Dear! It’s really such a terrible story. I’m afraid of imagining what you could feel. It’s not just a painful experience. It’s literally a true hell. You have to be so strong to overcome it.
I know another story of a couple from Dallas. They were older than 50 when their only son got into road accident. He died after all. I can’t actually say what it was for them. All details aren’t that important here.
Perhaps they spent a year without taking any steps. It was a year of their grief. Then they decided to try surrogacy as the final straw. It became the only option to succeed for that couple. Happily, they did it and now they raise wonderful twins. These guys will be quite old when their boys go to college. However, they gave birth to them. Their will was enough strong to do it.

Your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm very sorry to read about your struggle, dear. You've been through so much. You deserve every happiness in the world. I'd like to tell you that it surely is a true thing that delivering a baby after the age of 40 can be complicated. There are a lot of stories of which this fact is based upon. If you are a healthy active woman, you can do it. But, I must say that it will be a miracle if you're able to conceive a baby. The quality of your eggs starts to decline after the age of 40. IVF is a painful procedure, and in most cases, it's worth it. If you consult a doctor, I bet he might also be suggesting you do not do this to yourself. You can always consider adopting a child. Also, the world is advancing. Methods like surrogacy help you have a biological baby. Think about it. Good luck!

I am really sorry to read the story about how you lost your child. I hope you have recovered from it. However, I am glad you found the love of your life. I am sure this must have made you feel so much better. Your concerns are right! Age can be a factor that could cause issues. However, I would say that visit a doctor and get your screening done. They will after this tell you if you are a possible candidate or not. Other than that are you open to DE? You could consider IVF with DE as well. However, again the doctor will give a better insight on this. Make sure to visit the right clinic for your procedure. The better the clinic the more successful would be the process. Good luck to you! I hope things go well.