annym
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Post by annym on Aug 25, 2018 14:38:27 GMT
Hello, everyone! How are you all doing? I hope you all are doing fine. I’m here to find some support, help and to hear your attitude on surrogacy. I’ve never visited any forums like this before. And I don’t even know how to star telling my story here. But... I can’t have a baby and it’s a fact. I’m a married woman and I had a perfect matrimony until recently. Last year I heard from my doctor that I’ll never have my own children. I’ll not go into details but the fact remains. I had an awful depression, my lovely hubby... he changed. I saw how isolated he made himself after. To cut long story short he decided to file for divorce. When I came to my sense I looked at this situation from another angle. I knew that the thing like surrogacy exist. And now, with high hopes for the great future, I started to find more information about it. I decided to learn all advantages and disadvantages and then to tell my husband about it. Do me a favor, tell me your story if you have such.
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Post by mary on Aug 25, 2018 14:40:11 GMT
Hi, dear! I hope you’re keeping cool. Be strong and stay calmed and all will be great. It’s strange that your doctor didn’t tell you from the very beginning about another way (I mean surrogacy). Because it’s really great! Now I have my 8-month son here with me thanks to that. You can’t even imagine how happy I am. Good Luck!
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ann
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Post by ann on Aug 25, 2018 15:13:14 GMT
Hey, I am Ann. I also have the problem of infertility. And I’m sorry to know about yours. We married with my husband when I was very young. I have my favorite job and wanted to build a career. But at the high point of my career I found out that I’m pregnant. And that didn't square with my rules. I decided to have an abortion. It was the worst decision of mine…When after the passage of time we decided to have a child I heard from my doctor that it’s impossible. And we decided without hesitation – surrogacy. My husband and I don’t think that it bad thing. We want to be parents and now we are waiting for our little baby. I pray for the best for you. Good luck.
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Post by laura on Aug 25, 2018 15:20:35 GMT
Hi, I’m Loura! Tell tour husband about your idea! Nowadays, the word "mother" becomes ambiguous. Pregnancy and motherhood cease to be synonymous. You will be lovely mother. It’s not the end of the word!
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Post by monikaa on Oct 25, 2018 18:01:01 GMT
If you have been medically diagnosed with an infertility disorder then yes looking into surrogacy is an option that you can consider. I myself am in the middle of the process. So far things are going really well. All the credit goes to the clinic. They offer amazing services regarding their various treatments including surrogacy. They have a whole DE database as well which consists of over 100 plus donors. The process through which they select the surrogate is highly reliable as well. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by pagerelvia33 on Jan 25, 2019 8:00:59 GMT
I think that it is always better to try and find other solutions than surrogacy. For a lot of women, it is their last option (apart from adoption). It is easier to think about than actually opting for. For us it is the only option we can think of, being 55 and having experienced 5 m/c, you have nothing else to do but go for surrogacy. And if you're not Kim Kardashian, you'll have to work hard to find a solution.
I'd advise anyone who's struggling with infertility to look for every option there is.
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Post by sofistea on Feb 9, 2019 10:31:54 GMT
Hello, everyone! How are you all doing? I hope you all are doing fine. I’m here to find some support, help and to hear your attitude on surrogacy. I’ve never visited any forums like this before. And I don’t even know how to star telling my story here. But... I can’t have a baby and it’s a fact. I’m a married woman and I had a perfect matrimony until recently. Last year I heard from my doctor that I’ll never have my own children. I’ll not go into details but the fact remains. I had an awful depression, my lovely hubby... he changed. I saw how isolated he made himself after. To cut long story short he decided to file for divorce. When I came to my sense I looked at this situation from another angle. I knew that the thing like surrogacy exist. And now, with high hopes for the great future, I started to find more information about it. I decided to learn all advantages and disadvantages and then to tell my husband about it. Do me a favor, tell me your story if you have such. Hi to everyone! How is it going? I’m 35 years old. Lining in Poland with my dear husband. All my life I was cherishing the idea of being a perfect mother. It looks even like a disorder sometimes because I felt obsessed. Unfortunately, I’m not that luck to succeed with my cherished idea. My medical history is filled with failures. On average, I’ve been trying to conceive during last 7 years. As you could predict, I was going through all of that without success. Unexplained Infertility, as my doc said. It’s the most upsetting thing I’ve even dealt with. In brief, I underwent five cycles of IVF with ICSI applied. Two of my rounds were conducted in Germany under command of Israeli reproductive crew. Nothing brought the good to me. My husband and I took some rest because it was unbearable to carry on. The next step was surrogacy as we decided. Staying in Poland, the Ukrainian option didn’t seem ridiculous. It was a good chance to gain it at last. It’s still an amazing chance and I’m grateful for that opportunity. We explored the ‘market’. Excuse me if you find this definition too rough. A couple of clinics were discarded during our research. We met the guys from World center of baby and decided to stay there. Our surrogate is pregnant and we happily keep on with this. Not that easy to point out pros and cons. Each clinic has its advantages. We have to try it and have something to compare and be always ready to face with difficulties. It’s not the easygoing process. I hope that stress won’t grip you. enjoy your journey and remain happy of talking about the clinic you are with. Best of luck! Xx |
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Post by mandy5238678 on Apr 9, 2019 14:27:38 GMT
I really do think surrogacy is one of the greatest inventions ever. But I kind of agree that there are + and - to it. For example, some countries are really protective when it comes to possible violations of human rights. They ban surrogacy without even looking into it. It is my opinion only. Some prefer altruistic surrogacy over paying the SM. However, for us, it is always the other way around. We would be happier to pay for the services we get than to get them for free. As every work should be paid for. For this we decided to go for gestational surrogacy in Ukraine. Sure, we wanted to stay in the US. But unfortunately for us we could not bear the expenses. And had to turn to a cheaper option. It may sound contradictory, I know. But we figured that Ukraine has a different economy and the prices there are as expensive as in the US, however, only for those who love and work there. For us, US citizens it was affordable. After that, we were met with another issue. We did not know what agency or clinic to choose. So we chose World Center of Baby, this agency allows you to met your SM prior to her signing the agreement. Of course, you do not choose her, but at least you can get to know her a bit before the program commences.
We were lucky enough to meet her 1.5 months after we signed the agreement on our part. The donor is anonymous there in Ukraine, so we just chose the preferable features. If I had anything to say about the system, I'd allow meeting the donor as well. But it is up to me, I could've arranged to bring the egg cells with us to the agency if I wanted. But we went with the flow. The SM has had her ET already. And we are praying for the embryo to stick. It'd be such a miracle.
Anyways, I have nothing against surrogacy at all. However, we should all think about the health and well-being of those women who undergo all that just to help us out.
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