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Post by rose23 on Feb 26, 2018 2:51:00 GMT
Hello everyone,
I am on my cycle. We are trying for over 8 months now. Nothing is happening. Three months ago I felt a little vomit. I became very happy and took a test and nothings there. We really want to know about the circumstances of this. How much time it takes?? what are the signs?? what should I do to make it perfect?? What should possibly be the best solution for this?? My husband is not so much worried but I am and I am feeling exhausted because of my anxiety issues. Any kind of help would be great if you can. Please help. Thank you so much for reading.
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Post by Thoughtful2018 on Feb 26, 2018 13:05:13 GMT
Dear rose23 I can feel your pain but I would suggest don't get disappointed. It is just 8 months dear. People took several years to happen this. Stress would further harm your health. For me, stress is a killer. It multiplies your chances of infertility. Have faith and look at the brighter side of the picture. Why don't you try consulting BioTex in Ukraine? I think they can give you a better advice.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 26, 2018 15:58:41 GMT
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Post by simili on Feb 26, 2018 18:36:14 GMT
Hey Rose! You have to stay strong, honey. This process may take some time and sometimes it happens very quickly. Depend on person to person. Everyone is different you see. You should have patience and keep trying. Don't stress yourself or it'll make things difficult. Consult a doctor maybe? I wish you Luck! I hope you have a baby very soon. Much love.
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Post by isabeljones on Feb 28, 2018 21:27:39 GMT
Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm glad that you came here to seek help. Well, another woman in the TTC. You're TTC for 8 months, this is not a long period of time. I think that your husband is right. Pregnancy usually occurs late in many women. I've seen women ttc for even 11 years and getting pregnant. I don't think that you should take this much tension over this issue. You should try more for some time. If you're still not satisfied then go see a good doctor. Maybe there would be some problem. Otherwise, it's normal for a couple to conceive in a year or two. And don't take the stress. Don't get it to your head. Relax and wait for the best. Everything will be fine at the end. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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Post by prozental on Mar 29, 2018 9:42:46 GMT
Hello Rose! I hope all is Ok now and you feel good! I see you wanted to expedite the course of things around you. I agree with the most that it could sometimes take years of expectation and as your concern and disappointment are so destructing already now it’d be a real catastrophe for you then. Try to treat this as you are a philosopher and don’t let circumstances destroy your victorious disposition. Shit happens we know it but good things often happen either. Additionally, it’s better to take blood count to figure out details of your possible pregnancy.
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Post by silver on Apr 26, 2018 14:43:24 GMT
Hello, dear. As usual it takes up to one year to get pregnant naturally. So, you still have some time to keep trying. I'm sure you will succeed soon. First of all, stop being so nervous. There's no reason for panic. If you want to make sure that you are fine, go and visit the doctor. Take all the necessary tests to make sure that you can conceive naturally. There's a chance that you might need some kind of medical treatment. This is absolutely normal. A lot of women need help to conceive. We are not perfect, dear. So, you are not alone with your problem. Any reproduction center will offer you the list of all the necessary examinations. After that you will be offered the most appropriate solution.
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Post by lolita on May 17, 2018 21:14:22 GMT
You seem to be stressed out, dear. Stress doesn't help to get pregnant, you know. It can be a reason of your infertility. You should try to calm down. 8 months is not a long term for ttc. As usual it takes up to 2 years to get pregnant naturally. Anyway, if you want to make sure that you are fine, you can visit the fertility specialist. You will go through some tests and examinations. After that you will know for sure if you have a chance to conceive. In case if you hear bad news, you can start looking for solutions. You might need some kind of medical treatment. A lot of women get pregnant with the help of IVF. Well, you are at the beginning of your way, so you have nothing to worry about. Try to think positively. Relax and imagine that you are holding your baby. This will help!
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Post by monikaa on Sept 29, 2018 12:26:30 GMT
Hey Rose, I hope you are well. I know this journey of TTC can get exhausting but you will have to be patient. I would suggest that you change your eating habits a bit. These will help you a lot also stay hydrated. Other than that a lot of people do yoga and exercise to help them out. I would suggest you to, do that. Lastly, it is only after 12 months of trying that doctors will check you up so wait till that time. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by feliciapayton on Feb 9, 2019 12:47:44 GMT
Hey Rose! You are only trying for 8 months, keep trying. You will get your BFP soon. If it doesn't work even after 1 year then visit a clinic. Till then keep trying. Good luck.
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Post by samcol on Mar 26, 2019 20:57:18 GMT
Hi there, Rose. I hope you're feeling better now, dear. I can feel your pain as I myself have been through this phase. TTC is the toughest period of a couple's life. You really have to have a lot of patience and strength. Don't just lose hope like this. 8 months isn't that long, trust me. People try for years and then succeed. I'd advise you to stop having negative thoughts to your mind, this will only demotivate you. Just keep on trying and if you are really worried, then visit a clinic. Visit a good clinic and get your tests done. Take your husband along too, male infertility is also common nowadays. Just guiding you, dear. No need to be discouraged. I hope everything goes well for you. All the best!
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Post by mandy5238678 on Mar 27, 2019 8:48:47 GMT
We have been trying for a few years before we got to the point when we could not continue anymore. It took us 5 m/c to finally understand that it is not going to work. And we had to stop and relax. and after years of therapy, we have moved on. We managed to find a clinic that was the best for us in terms of price and services they offer for the price. And voila we are here, waiting for some positive news regarding our surrogate's pregnancy. The clinic is called world center of baby in case anyone is interested.
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Post by emiliajoe on Apr 16, 2019 15:33:08 GMT
Sorry to hear about this. But it's not too late. Now is a good time to go consult your doctor about this. I have wasted around 3 years on this. Which is why I suggest not wasting more time. Your doctor will run some tests to see what the problem is. He might also put you on medication. I hope things go well for you. Good luck.
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Post by hannah on Oct 12, 2019 17:15:26 GMT
Hey Rose I hope you are doing well. Dont be this hard on yourself. I am sure things will get better. Just stay strong and positive. It normally takes 12 months for a couple to conceive. However, if you are being impatient you can visit a clinic. Ask them to do your tests, these tests will help in determining what the issue might be. Just make sure to visit the right doctor.
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Post by hannah on Nov 21, 2019 6:46:34 GMT
I would suggest that you visit a doctor. He will do a couple of your tests. After the tests, he will be able to help in determining the issue. Therefore, dont lose hope. I am sure there is nothing to worry about. Good luck to you. Usually, doctors do say to wait until a year. Therefore, I would suggest to keep trying.
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