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Post by amelia on Feb 23, 2018 11:51:58 GMT
hope so bishopstonmum are doing well and really getting benefits from different threads. That is really basic aim behind its creation. So, guys, I come up here with a question in my mind. Hope so everybody will give me sincere and accurate answers as much as she knows about it. I am declared infertile by many doctors. Although I also have much knowledge of this field. But consistently one problem is persisting. The problem is I agreed on my infertility but now I am so confused in selection. Some people say that IVF will be good for you and some say surrogacy. While chances of my egg ovulation are too low. If I select surrogacy, then my husband will not favor me. If I choose IVF then the result, I know already. I am stuck at a point that should I test my luck or not.? Maybe in case of IVF result turned to be against my thinking. Multiple changes can be. I think about it more and more but didn’t reach any final conclusion. That why I put forward my query in front of you people.
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Post by monikaa on Feb 23, 2018 15:39:58 GMT
Hey, there I hope you're doing good. Well honestly speaking if you doctors think (not you) that your IVF for sure won't work in your case then surrogacy is the only left option. As there is no point in wasting money on a treatment whose end is not what you desire. Now, for surrogacy, it is important that your DH is with you. I think you should tell him about the whole procedure and convince. As there is no harm in getting it done since the child will be genetically linked with you. The clinic I visited had a lot of positive reasons why even my husband agreed. The major issue was the child's custody which was being given there to us. The surrogate mothers are also chosen on a strict medical test. If they are healthy enough then they're to be a surrogate. Once they become pregnant extreme care is taken until they conceive. They even have high top-notch technology that makes the whole process highly advanced. Most important part is that they give you options even when it comes to choosing from their egg donor list. You have the option to provide eggs from someone you know. So yes convince your DH to tell him all these positive sides of the clinic. Hopefully, he will agree best of luck.
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Post by Thoughtful2018 on Feb 25, 2018 6:48:23 GMT
Hello Amelia. It feels so good that people have started talking openly about their infertility stuff. This helps people in several ways. Forums like this have done a great job by bringing together people with similar concerns. Amelia, I think you should try going for surrogacy. With low ovulation chances, it is better to go for surrogacy. If your eggs are not good or strong then you can have the egg donor too. Although there are numerous clinics all over the world offering surgical help. I believe you must try going to BioTex in Ukraine. They offer the state of the art facilities for those seeking surrogacy. They would also suggest you that which option is better for you IVF or surrogacy. Remember surrogacy will turn out great if you know all the limitations associated with it. In all this procedure don't lose hope. The best results come when you stay strong. Pessimism is not the solution. Search well, take advice, go for appropriate choice and then leave the rest to the destiny.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 25, 2018 13:37:53 GMT
Hello Amelia. I hope you are doing good. People can only suggest you things. The decision is actually yours. First, I think you should consider taking a doctor's advice on this. Only a doctor can tell you in you are stable enough to conceive a baby and carry it through IVF. And if that is not possible in any way then surrogacy is your option. You are going to have to talk to your husband in that case. Tell him about the fact that it's either this or adoption. It's his choice then. You can and should persuade him if you personally wanna go for surrogacy. It is not just his decision, it is yours too. You can go to clinics that offer multiple free IVF tries. There's one in Ukraine that gives you a 100% guarantee of a baby. So you won't even have to worry about wasting the money. You just have to decide if you want a child that way or not. The rest you can leave on the doctors of the clinic.
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Post by camela007 on Feb 25, 2018 17:08:58 GMT
hey there! you look extremely confused.That is okay.Every infertile woman has a lot of questions.She is just unsure about everything.But fear not, these forums will help you out.If your doctor is so sure that your IVF might not work then why wait?.Surrogacy is the only option left for you indeed.See wasting time will get you nothing.It will only cause you age and in this matter, the age factor matters.With age, your eggs do not remain that healthy as they used to be while you were young.Inthe same way if you want to use your own eggs you have an option of that as well.Those can be used to fertilize the sperms.They can then be implanted in the surrogate's womb.Where your child can nourish.The legal issues abroad are much more relaxed kindly start looking as soon as possible.Wasting time will just cause tension and depression.Best of luck
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Post by simili on Feb 25, 2018 18:43:17 GMT
Hi Amelia. It's nice that you've had confidence in yourself to ask about your problem. Honestly, I feel so sorry for you. I know how embarrassing it feels to be declared infertile. But hey? Don't give up okay! You need to be strong. I would suggest you that surrogacy is a better option for you. But if your husband isn't agreeing to it and he agrees to an IVF treatment, then go for it. If your financially stable and could afford it then why not? There's this clinic in Ukraine, Biotexcom. I'm amazed to see their success rates. They guarantee you success or they return your money. So, there isn't any harm in trying it. You should research them and decide. I wish all your dreams come true. I wish you hold your baby in your arms very soon! Good Luck!
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Post by killenjack on Feb 26, 2018 11:05:44 GMT
I am so sorry to know about you. You must have been so much strength to bear all this. As it is not easy for one to know that they can't have their own baby naturally. I will tell you as per my knowledge. IVF is a process which involves in-vitro fertilization. In this process, your eggs and sperms are kept outside your body for fertilization. After fertilization, they have transferred back not your uterus. It has a high success rate. While on the other hand, surrogacy is the process which allows you to have your biological child with the help of the surrogate mother. The surrogate mother is the lady which carries your baby into her uterus. Your eggs and sperms are kept in the surrogate mother's uterus. It also has a high success rate. Choice of treatment completely depends on the problem you have. As you have not mentioned what exactly is going on with you, so I can't help you through that. And yes, it also depends on the choice of the clinic you visit for the treatment. As I am also on the same journey, I have been searched something about his one. It is the best one so far. I hope my search will help you somehow. I wish you find some solution real soon. Hoping to hear more from you. www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA |
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Post by rose23 on Feb 26, 2018 13:55:57 GMT
Hello dear, I hope you are fine. Yes of course don't worry. You are saying right taking a review about a clinic is always best. There is a clinic in Ukraine that do this type of activities. Please try that. My friend recommended me. I use their services. They are simply awesome. It's Biotexcom. You can always view their videos on you tube by just simply writing the clinic name and your query. What you want to learn about. Just write and have results. Try that. You are going to be blessed soon with a child.
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Post by selenajones on Feb 26, 2018 15:50:23 GMT
hope so bishopstonmum are doing well and really getting benefits from different threads. That is really basic aim behind its creation. So, guys, I come up here with a question in my mind. Hope so everybody will give me sincere and accurate answers as much as she knows about it. I am declared infertile by many doctors. Although I also have much knowledge of this field. But consistently one problem is persisting. The problem is I agreed on my infertility but now I am so confused in selection. Some people say that IVF will be good for you and some say surrogacy. While chances of my egg ovulation are too low. If I select surrogacy, then my husband will not favor me. If I choose IVF then the result, I know already. I am stuck at a point that should I test my luck or not.? Maybe in case of IVF result turned to be against my thinking. Multiple changes can be. I think about it more and more but didn’t reach any final conclusion. That why I put forward my query in front of you people. Well, I think you should try starting with an IVF first. It's pretty basic from all of them. So, yeah. It's like that! I'm also having an IVF later this year at a clinic in Ukraine. Because I can have surrogacy. But, still, I want to have this last try on my own. I hope you get it. xx |
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 16, 2018 17:39:06 GMT
Hey. hope you are well. Only a doctor can help you decide what to go for. When I was diagnosed, I went to my doctor to know what my options are. According to him, even if I had gotten pregnant with IVF, there was a very good chance of it ending in a MC. That wasn't the risk I was willing to take. The other options were surrogacy or adoption. Personally, I have no problem with adopting. But my husband did. He was his own child. So we ended up going for surrogacy. Thanks to this fertility clinic, they made it possible for me. We have a 1-year-old boy now. He was born through gestational surrogacy. At this point, all you can do is talk to your husband about this being the only option that makes sense for you guys. I'm sure he will understand.
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Post by myraward on Jan 25, 2019 13:10:20 GMT
Hi Amelia! I think you should go for IVF with DE. Maybe that's the perfect option for you. If that doesn't work out then go for surrogacy, convince your husband for that. I also both of my babies through surrogacy so I can assure you there's nothing bad in that. Good luck!
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Post by monikaa on Jul 26, 2019 21:51:24 GMT
I think you should opt for a treatment that your doctor thinks is the most suitable one. Infertility journey is not an easy one to be on as it is full of obstacles. However, you have to be very careful while you are on it. Just make sure that the clinic you are visiting is experienced in this field. I have been so calm after finding the right clinic. The clinic is doing an excellent job with all my procedure. They are really good at communicating everything. There has come not a single point where a confusion has been created.
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Post by hannah on Sept 16, 2019 17:12:47 GMT
Hey Amelia, I hope you are well. The thing is both IVF and surrogacy are different treatments. Both of them have the same success rate. It really depends on your condition and what will suit you the best. Therefore, I would say that you should visit a doctor that will help you figure out what treatment you should consider opting for. The clinic plays a huge role in such procedures. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by hannah on Nov 14, 2019 16:07:39 GMT
Hey, Amelia, I might be able to help you out. Actually, the thing is we dont really have a choice between the two processes. Both procedures come with certain conditions. The doctor will really be able to determine if you are a candidate of the process or not. Therefore, nothing really can be said. Therefore, for the process make sure to visit the right doctor. Someone who is experienced. Good luck to you.
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