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Post by alexandradaddario on Feb 17, 2018 12:24:45 GMT
Hey, everyone, It is quite difficult for me to share my story. I was very active kind of person from the start.My husband totally understands me and he just loves me the way I was. We spend the best time of our lives with each other. He really loves kids so after one year of our marriage we started planning a baby. But I was shocked to hear that I am infertile and can't give birth. This news hits me with a rock.Seeing other women with babies push me to darkness.But all this is pushing me to darkness. I always wanted a big family. Not being able to conceive is most destructive feeling ever!! I just become so antisocial. But after some time I realized that this is not the solution. I just can't give up on my dream. My friend helped me to get over it. She suggests me that I should go for surrogacy. But I just wanted to give birth myself. So the most suitable solution for me is IVF. I built up my confidence. I decided to be strong until there is no hope remaining. At the start, it seems impossible to conceive by IVF. It failed 2 times. But still, I didn't lose hope. I just get frustrated but it is temporary. Because of this hope, I was in much less pain than I was after giving up. And now my doctors told me that I have bright chances to conceive this time. My health is way more improved and now I am completely ready to conceive!! It makes me so glad when I imagine that Yes!! I can conceive and I will. I just need your prayers and suggestions. I will keep in touch with you guys to tell you about my progress. So the only thing I would like to suggest to the women like me is that we have to be hopeful because that is all we are left with. And don't give up. Some miracle is waiting to happen.
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Post by elezabeth on Feb 18, 2018 11:50:42 GMT
It's always difficult to share your story. But you are showing much confidence to others by telling your story. New couples will learn a lot from this. Happy to see the love of your husband. IVF is not always successful why people are not understanding this point. You have to wait long some time to achieve the best results in your life. You are lucky your husband is supporting you. You have all the time in this world to have a baby. Don't loose hope just focus on the results. I am sure like many of other you will have a baby soon.
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Post by twinkle34 on Feb 19, 2018 4:19:17 GMT
Congratulations dear.I am so happy for you.Your story is much impressive and heart touching.from this, many infertile women get strength a hope.The most important thing in my life is not to stop trying and questioning.because both these things we were becoming successful and content in life.So, keep your head up and move on.Stay blessed.
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Post by penelope on Feb 21, 2018 12:08:36 GMT
well, Alexandra great and happy times for you sister.I hope that your happiness stays forever.I know the road down this lane of infertility is never easy, People might leave you.Sometimes it is just you yourself and nobody to give support.But one must never leave hope.so just keep your faith.Happiness will come your way itself
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Post by simili on Feb 21, 2018 16:04:31 GMT
Hey! I am so sorry that you had to suffer this much. But you never lost hope. That is all that matters! You should definitely stay strong. I myself wasn't able to conceive for three years. After which I was declared infertile. It was the worst time of my life. But I never lost hope. My DH is very understanding and was with me each and every second of this misery. Then we decided to go for surrogacy. Had the best time in Ukraine. Lovely people live there. The process didn't even cost me an arm and a leg. And my dream came true. Anyway, I'm very happy for you. I'll definitely pray for your success! Good Luck!
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Post by elezabeth on Feb 21, 2018 16:46:47 GMT
I am very sad after reading you story. It is very informative, i am sure you are in the right position to think about other process now. You are not the only one who are facing this problem. There are many other couples who are facing this problem in their life. I know you are thinking really bad about life. But this is some thing not good. It's a part of life. You have to deal all these situation wisely. We all are blessed that we born in the era of technology. It's easy to find the solutions of your problem now. I faced the infertility issue for 7 years. I joined different forums from where i got to know about the surrogacy and IVF process. After this i start believing that i can have a baby in my life. And now i am in the initial stages of my treatment. They are taking a lot of care. They gave me a chance to choose the surrogate mother. Don't loose hope, One day you will surely find a good clinic.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 21, 2018 16:59:20 GMT
Hey Alex. Your story is very heart touching. I'm very happy to hear that you can conceive now. Just y staying positive and hoping for good can make such a difference. Just be careful throughout. Keep your doctor's visits regular. All my prayers are with you hun. I wish god give everyone expecting this same good news. Hearing about ben infertile can really break a person. Good luck future mother!
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Post by monikaa on Feb 21, 2018 18:45:34 GMT
Hey, there I hope you're doing good. It is a good thing that you didn't lose the courage. I feel like a lot of women don't recognise the importance of being in good health in order to conceive. Also, it is important to visit a good clinic which helps you conceive. These two factors are extremely important for any women who are TTC. I am glad that your doctor says you are in good health. However, make sure the clinic you go through the process is experienced. The staff needs to be professional in order to carry the process. Being in the same boat myself I was truly lucky enough to find a clinic which did so well that I didn't undergo the symptoms which usually women after IVF talk about.
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Post by killenjack on Feb 22, 2018 7:08:23 GMT
I empathize with you the on your failures. It is a lot to take. I really feel sorry for you. I can understand what you are going through and what you feel right now. But I must say that you are a lucky person to have a supportive partner. As long as you have a partner who helps you and understands you in the difficult times, you are good to go for anything in your life. I am sorry to ask you about the reason for your failures. As you have not mentioned anything about it. Pardon me, if it hurts you or bothers you. I am asking this just because it will be more helpful in guiding you.
Surrogacy is an option for you right now, as far as I can understand your situation. Since you have tried IUI, IVFs, so now you should go for surrogacy. It is an excellent way to have your own child. There are many clinics to help you in this regard. But you have to be very careful because there are many people nowadays who keep spamming people. They don't actually know that people are here with their real problems and need the best solution for it. I would suggest you be aware of any spam and try to dig into it by yourself. Only then you can know which one is the best and where to go.
Wishing you luck and success in future. Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust on your way.
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Post by rose23 on Feb 23, 2018 13:37:59 GMT
I am so glad that I got a chance to read your story. May you get your baby soon. At first the life take your exam. I think you cleared it so well. Now the life is giving you a reward. A beautiful reward that you always wanted. The journey that you suffered, I can understand this. You know why. Because I am facing same problems in my life. I am under infertility treatment from biotexcom. I am very much worried until I found out this place. Now I am bit satisfied as I am under process. Still things won't go my way mostly. I feel very much devastated back then. I am hopeful that many things are going to be good for me. Your story is a great motivation for me. I am thankful to you that you shared. It's helpful to allot of us.
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Post by meezee123 on Mar 22, 2018 18:40:48 GMT
Awww . . . I feel sorry to hear that you suffered a lot. My cousin was infertile and going through different unsuccessful treatments, after ten years she and her husband decided for surrogacy even her doctor gave them hope of conceiving naturally as she had less than 10% chance. They decided not to wait more and took an initiative. Now they have a baby boy. I wish you best of luck and will pray for you. Please do share any good news
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Post by silver on Apr 26, 2018 14:31:36 GMT
Thank you for sharing your story, dear. I really hope that your next IVF attempt will be successful. It is so unfair that you have to go through all those difficulties. You are happily married and you are worth of having kids. You will become a great mother.
I know that it often takes more time to get pregnant through the IVF. That's why a lot of couples just give up and enter surrogacy programs. As for me it is also a good solution. In case if a woman is unable to get pregnant, surrogacy can really help. There's no need to adopt if you can have your biological baby. A lot of countries offer this service legally. You just have to choose the reproduction center to enter the program.
Anyway, I'm very glad that you didn't give up. You are such a brave woman. Let me wish you good luck!
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Post by lolita on May 17, 2018 21:38:05 GMT
You seem to be a really strong woman. I'm proud of you, dear. I really wish you to succeed this time. I know that IVF works in most cases. Unfortunately, a couple of attempts might be needed. My friend got pregnant after the third attempt. She didn't give up and she got her baby. I'm so happy for her. I've also gone through 3 IVF attempts a couple of years ago. Unfortunately, I wasn't lucky enough to get pregnant. My body kept rejecting the baby. Well, we decided not to give up. We already have one baby, which was adopted. This time we decided to go for the surrogacy. It was my husband's idea. He said that he wants to be genetically related to our baby. We already found a great reproduction center. The embryo has already been transferred. So, we are about to get our biological baby soon.
Modern medicine is a real miracle. Every infertile couple has a chance to become parents. As for me, it is really great. Unfortunately, prices for IVF and surrogacy are still pretty high. I hope these services would become more affordable soon. Every couple should have a chance to get their baby.
So, you don't have to be afraid of surrogacy. In case if your third IVF attempt is not successful, you can enter the program. The baby born will still be genetically related to you. I understand your desire to give birth on your own. But sometimes we have no choice. Anyway, let me wish you good luck.
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Post by alexa1214 on May 18, 2018 16:54:22 GMT
It's always difficult to share your story. But you are showing much confidence to others by telling your story. New couples will learn a lot from this. Happy to see the love of your husband. IVF is not always successful why people are not understanding this point. You have to wait long some time to achieve the best results in your life. You are lucky your husband is supporting you. You have all the time in this world to have a baby. Don't loose hope just focus on the results. I am sure like many of other you will have a baby soon. Hi there , it’s very difficult to share such a personal issue . I am glad that your husband is supporting you . Well don’t lose hope . You are strong person . Your IVF will be successful soon . It’s failed with some attempt . It will be successful at the end . Best of luck my freind |
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Post by prozental on May 21, 2018 19:09:57 GMT
Hello! I’m so sorry dear! I’m feeling for you as it could be possible.
I myself know how much effort and doubt it’s worth in real. You were tortured with thought in order to decide sharing your closest story of life. The huge piece of your own biography dedicated to struggle.
Hope you’ll conceive and fight your enemy down one day. You’ll see how everything concerning to your bad past is fading away. Bad things will disappear while your baby’s growing.
Don’t give up on a dream! Accumulate power for new step. Feel huge hope inside your heart all the time.
The other things are the concerns of physicians and specialists! Good luck sweet! Hope you’ll be keeping us updated.
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