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Feb 8, 2018 16:17:30 GMT
Post by elma on Feb 8, 2018 16:17:30 GMT
Hello girls. I hope that you guys are reading my post on a good time. I am in need of some serious advice and some love and support. I hope that I am at the right place. I would really appreciate if people who really do get my problem and who really do think that they can help me out reply to my this post. I have been going through a very tough time from the past 9 years. I got married to my DH and the plan was to have the lovely family that everyone wishes for. I have been wanting to become a mother since I was a kid lol. I gave everything time, I am a very patient person and I used to believe that everything happened on its own time. After years of waiting for my family suggested me to consult a doctor as this long delay in conceiving was not normal and there was something wrong with me. I really do not get why people always think that something is always wrong with the female's body. Anyways, I went to the doctor, got myself checked and he told me that everything was fine with me. I suggested my DH to carry out the same tests, at first he hesitated ( I will never get why men are like this ) but then he agreed. On getting the results we found out that his sperm count is very low and that's the main reason behind our infertility. I am not sure how to react to it. I want to support my DH but I do not know how. He would not be able to feel the same until we find a solution to it. Looking forward to some positive replies.
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Feb 8, 2018 19:10:52 GMT
Post by monikaa on Feb 8, 2018 19:10:52 GMT
Hey Elma! Hope you're feeling better. Honestly, this is a growing problem in today's world. I would suggest that you try opting for either IUI or IVF.The problem can easily be treated and therefore there is nothing to be stressed about. Find yourself a good clinic and go for it. Do your research on this as well. Best of luck.
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Feb 9, 2018 13:06:22 GMT
Post by catriona on Feb 9, 2018 13:06:22 GMT
Hey elma, i must say you should support you're husband. If he is facing with any infertility problem, it's time to stand with him and try to find it's solution, as it's not only his problem but also yours because you both want kids. Well, low sperm count is not such a big problem. A number of medicines are there for males to increase their sperm count. Ask you're husband that you are with him in every condition and that infertility is our combine issue because we both want kids. Ask him to consult a doctor and start his medication as early as possible.
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Feb 10, 2018 20:39:25 GMT
Post by elma on Feb 10, 2018 20:39:25 GMT
Hi Monika. It is so nice of you to take out your time and give me a response. Your reply really made me feel a little better. In this kind of times, even a single word of kindness can help a person to get stronger than he/she was before. Are you sure that the problem can be treated? Because having a low sperm count is a huge problem according to me. I mean it is the only source of having a baby and using donor sperms in not ever going to help us out and I do not think so that I will ever opt for them because that will make my DH feel very bad about himself. I am trying to do my research on this but I really have not gotten to find a cure yet. It really makes me sad and discouraged but I have to stay strong for him. I really want to find more people who are going through the same situation as me. I think that will really help me out in some way. About the clinics, I am really not sure where to get the help form because all the clinics these days are just out there snatching money from their patients, I do not think so that they are there to help their patients out anymore. I would really welcome some suggestions.
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Feb 10, 2018 20:39:46 GMT
Post by elma on Feb 10, 2018 20:39:46 GMT
hello, catriona! I am so thankful for your reply. Are there really some treatments that get increase the sperm count? your reply really made my day. it gave me hope that I can get to have a baby. I just texted my husband about this and I am very sure that he will be glad to hear this too. Can you please give me some details regarding the treatments and some place to get it done from?
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Feb 26, 2018 22:50:47 GMT
Post by amelia on Feb 26, 2018 22:50:47 GMT
hey, really it was about mid of night when I saw your post. That time I like most. Yeah, you are on right station to move on with your query to be answered by us. It’s really a scary thing. Don’t do anything. Just try to cool down yourself. After that visit you HV and set your mind according to him. He will be prescribed your best things. Do it as early as possible.
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Feb 28, 2018 21:46:27 GMT
Post by lolita on Feb 28, 2018 21:46:27 GMT
Hello, dear. I’m very sorry that you have to go through all those difficulties. So called male infertility is getting really popular nowadays. I know that most men don’t want to believe that it is true. But we have to deal with this. So, first of all, keep supporting your DH. He definitely needs your support. He should know that you still love him and you will handle this. Also, you have to consult the fertility specialist. In your case you will be offered the IVF or surrogacy service. Both of them work great for infertile couples. It means that your baby will be genetically related to both of you. It is a great way to become parents without getting pregnant naturally.
You still produce eggs and your husband’s sperm is fine, so there’s no need to talk about adoption. But you should keep this option in mind. There’s nothing to be afraid of. We adopted our first baby. We love him so much, you know. Every child should have a family.
Now we are going through the surrogacy at the BioTexCom clinic. We decided to enlarge our family again. And this time we want our baby to be genetically related to us. Our surrogate is pregnant at the moment. We will be allowed to visit her soon.
As you can see, there are a lot of options for you. You should stay positive and keep trying. You still have a chance to become parents, dear. Try to calm down and talk to your husband. You should find the solution together. Let me wish you good luck. I’m sure you will be fine.
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Oct 18, 2018 12:25:41 GMT
Post by jayden123 on Oct 18, 2018 12:25:41 GMT
Hey you. I hope you are also having a good time. Male infertility is also common now. All you need to do is to visit some good clinic. There are many clinics to help you in this. You will soon be able to find a good solution. Stay strong and keep loving your DH. Love and strength to you.
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Nov 15, 2018 21:18:01 GMT
Post by monikaa on Nov 15, 2018 21:18:01 GMT
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Dec 26, 2018 14:38:44 GMT
Post by saraqueen on Dec 26, 2018 14:38:44 GMT
Hey there! I m so sorry to hear about what you are going through. Infertility is also very common in men these days. It's all because of our bad habits and unhealthy diet. But don't worry you can help me improve his sperm count. There are many ways to do that, Tell him to exercise on daily basis. After that provide with him some things which can help him get enough Vitamin C and D. You have to make sure that he's not taking any stress because stress can really have a bad impact on the sperm count. Just change his routine and give him healthy food so he can get back on the track. Everything will be alright hon. The clinic where I am having my surrogacy, I saw a lot of cases like these and those were not hard to treat. Just make sure you are opting for a clinic with a high success rate. Stay blessed! Good Luck!
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Jan 4, 2019 14:55:25 GMT
Post by hannah on Jan 4, 2019 14:55:25 GMT
Hey, I am glad that you are supporting your husband. Male infertility is quite common. It is sad that there is less awareness about it. I would suggest that you both consider opting for IUI. This will for sure work for you. For the process make sure to visit an experienced doctor. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
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Jan 5, 2019 15:51:34 GMT
Post by barbaraww on Jan 5, 2019 15:51:34 GMT
Hi Elma! I feel so bad for your husband. Infertility is something that can really affect your life. In our society, for men, it's like a social life killer. People don't understand how hard it is. So you are worried about his sperm count, there are so remedies which can help you improve that. A good healthy diet and some exercise on top of them. This thing can be improved naturally. Everything will be fine. Just find a good clinic that can guide you in the right direction. A clinic with a high success rate means that your chances of conceiving are high as well. Because of that reason I have opted for this clinic abroad. The success rate of that clinic is so hard to resist. Good luck to you. Stay blessed.
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Jan 21, 2019 18:08:29 GMT
Post by emiliajoe on Jan 21, 2019 18:08:29 GMT
Hello. So sorry to hear about this. Low sperm motility is actually a common issue in males. You can consider IUI with donor sperm in this case. Talk to your doctor and husband about it. I hope your problems get solved soon. Good luck.
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Feb 2, 2019 3:36:16 GMT
Post by myraward on Feb 2, 2019 3:36:16 GMT
Hi Elma! I hope you are better now. Nowadays infertility is quite a common thing in both men and women. There are many ways to increase his sperm count. Tell him to take Vitamins on daily basis and also do some exercise. It will help his body to recover itself. If that doesn't help, there are many treatments out there for you to conceive with. Good luck!
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May 7, 2019 20:47:41 GMT
Post by hannah on May 7, 2019 20:47:41 GMT
I would suggest visiting a RE at this point. He/she will really help you out. Other than this there is nothing to worry out. Low sperm count is treatable. You should look into IUI that works really well in certain situations. However, the clinic you visit matters a lot. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
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