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Post by lydias22 on Feb 1, 2018 7:37:52 GMT
hey there Menci! I hope you have found some track on what while looking for a surrogate mother.although I'm very much younger then you I have been researching about surrogacy options around the globe especially because it is looked down upon in our society and is banned in my country. Hence it also concerned about the legal procedures of bringing the child back to my country, but I'm looking to contact this one clinic in Ukraine and I do believe they have a solution for it. I would also advise you to go and check them out and get all your queries entertained on your own.
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Post by penelope on Feb 1, 2018 10:58:05 GMT
hi there! for you to feel this distress is natural but you must keep your calm as you should know that this all is just natural and nothing and nobody even you yourself is not responsible for this.You should think about surrogacy as a very open-minded option.people around you are using it and are living happily with their kids.with your age, it is advisable to go for it now.For this purpose, there are plenty of clinics like the clinic in Ukraine which has facilities not available in many of other clinics.They are quite reasonable or we can say cheap and offer a lot of things.My friend has tried it and recommends to everybody.
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Post by evahadwin on Feb 1, 2018 19:38:37 GMT
Hey there Nenci!
How are you? Hope you're doing good.
It is really a family matter. You guys need to consider every aspect of both choices. Talk to each other. Communication gap is the biggest drawback of this technological era that was actually supposed to bring us closer. You'll sort it out I'm sure. I can tell you what we do when we have a conflict. Me and DH sit together on the dining table with one page and a pen. We make a list of the merits of our choice and demerits of partners choice. We then exchange our papers. We read other persons views quitely. And usually, after all this, we have ended up on a single decision.
So whatever decision you need to make, make it together.
Hope this helps!
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Post by evahadwin on Feb 4, 2018 20:39:57 GMT
Hey there. You don't need to be sad over it. Surrogacy is quite common these days. Its a process through which you can have your own biological child. Me and my DH are TTC for three months. No good news yet. I think I am infertile because of endometriosis. I have gathered information about a clinic in Ukraine. I have heard all good about it. The laws there also support surrogacy. They give a nice package for everything. Yo don't worry about it. You should go for surrogacy. There is no harm in it. Best wishes  |
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Post by penelope on Feb 6, 2018 16:22:16 GMT
hey, i couldn't help but share one of my friend's story with you guys.She at the early stage of her marriage got to know that she was infertile so she became very depressed as she couldn't even get IVF, IUI done so she started looking for other means and surrogacy came in front of her.Actually one of the doctors gave her this idea so she looked it up on the internet and searched the prices in different countries and found the Ukrainian clinic very reasonable with max facilities being offered she took the information that could be possible and went there straight.There she was not even a pinch regretting her decision and later she came back with a beautiful little girl and now she has two from the same procedure of the same place.She talks so highly of that place, their accommodation, multilingual staff which is highly qualified as well.Also, the people are the nicest according to her.So kindly look into this option more.Dig a little deeper.Ask me anything I can connect you with my friend as well.I hope you succeed in making the best possible decision soon.
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Post by twinkle34 on Feb 7, 2018 6:30:32 GMT
Hi lady.I also go through for surrogacy in Ukraine.I have infertility problem the doctors said I cannot conceive naturally.after the years of infertility we got it.Believe me Sometimes feel hard to deal with this procedure.but it really works.My surrogate is now in 20 weeks.I am too excited and wait for that moment when I hold my baby.Life is great, but life is even better once have you been blessed to become a mother....
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Post by monikaa on Feb 11, 2018 6:38:36 GMT
Hey there! Going for surrogacy I believe is a great option. As it allows you to be genetically linked with the baby. It isn't expensive everywhere. You just need to research more. I know about a clinic from these forums, the one in eastern Europe. Which I have heard isn't that expensive. Just do the right research. Best of luck.
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Post by evahadwin on Feb 13, 2018 6:35:44 GMT
Hey there. Hope you are doing great. Surrogacy is a great option to chose. It allows you to have your baby, genetically and legally. It has a high success rate and is quite common these days. In this procedure, your sperms and eggs are kept in surrogate mother's uterus. You get to have your child after delivery. It is a safe and reliable procedure. You must look into it.
Best wishes.
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Post by sarahlietzo on Feb 17, 2018 9:51:07 GMT
Now i'm 43 years old and i am married to another man and we both want babies of our own. I know at this age it is quite difficult to have babies of my own womb. Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children. So i have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children. He has agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records. I have founded many clinics regarding the surrogacy method but i think that BioTexCom is the best clinic regarding surrogacy method. I contacted with them and asked them many questions and every aspect about surrogacy and they replied to every question of mine. From their satisfied answers i guess the clinic is the best solution for having a baby via surrogacy. So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact BioTexCom for further details. But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything. But now i don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess. If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences. |
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Post by selenajones on Feb 17, 2018 12:18:28 GMT
Hi, I would like to ask your advice. We know our only options are surrogacy or adoption. He doesn't want to adopt. He wants to use a surrogate. But I don't know how I feel about that. Plus the expense is so high to do so. I find myself crying myself to sleep some nights. I do not know what to do in this situation. I am 39 years old, and my husband is 36 years old. Hi there Nenci! How are you doing dear? Well, yeah! I know how hard it can be. I myself took several years. But, I think your husband's right! I mean you guys can have a child of your own by that way. There is nothing wrong in using a surrogate mother. So, don't get tensed. There is no need to cry. I am also undergoing an IVF later this year at a clinic in Ukraine. If it won't work well for me. I will then go for surrogacy. It just like having your baby in someone else's womb. So, don't worry! Everything will be fine! Anyway! I wish you luck! think about it again. xx |
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Post by rose23 on Feb 17, 2018 15:23:16 GMT
You don't need to cry dear. It's just destined this way. Does your crying help. No right because that won't help anyone ever. Just be cool. Now when you started a journey. Just make sure that you go in it with motivation and courage. Your husband don't need adoption. He thought that adoption is not good for him. it's not his own child. Don't worry some people think that. Surrogacy is expensive you said. Of course it is. It is most expensive. Don't worry I got a solution for you. I know a clinic Biotexcom. They offer surrogacy in many different packages. You can go with standard package. That is going to help you. This is for the people like me and you. Listen, you have to make yourself comfortable with the situations. You can't do anything about it. Just do that and you'll be completely fine. I hope you take my advice seriously.
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Post by monikaa on Oct 3, 2018 18:45:34 GMT
This can be a very confusing point for one as you are unable to decide which option to go for. I also did go through this phase. However, the clinic I opted for helped me in choosing the most appropriate treatment for me. So the procedure started when I first got in touch with the clinic. They directed me to the English department. I was so impressed when I discovered that they had 12 language departments. The clinic was also really good when communicating with us. Not even once did they replied late. They were always very efficient with their communication skills. This made the process automatically much quicker for us. After this, I sent the clinic all my documents and my medical reports so that the doctors could evaluate it. After this in my first free visit the clinic also medically examined me. Once, all of this was done the doctors carefully studied my case and helped me in choosing a treatment for me. I hope I was able to help you. Do tell me about your decision.
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 22, 2018 17:53:22 GMT
It's really your decision. You should talk to your husband about this and then decide what you want to go for. Don't choose an option that you may regret in future. Make a decision and sleep on it. I suggest you think about it as much as you can before applying. I had my son through surrogacy and I'm glad I chose that. But adoption is great too for people who are okay with it.
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Post by monikaa on Oct 24, 2018 17:32:45 GMT
When you are confused about a process the first thing is to ask the doctor to help you. The clinic I am visiting is really good at making things better for the patients. I was also confused regarding my process. However, both the doctor and the manager made sure I knew both the pros and the cons. They made sure there was no confusion. Plus I opted for the guarantee program which ensures success. So I was not confused at all. Good luck to you.
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Post by monikaa on Nov 12, 2018 20:15:25 GMT
It's a common misconception that surrogacy is more expensive than adoption. Traditional adoption was costing us the same as was surrogacy. I guess the clinic you're looking at is charging you more. It is sad that for such services high is charged. One of the reasons I really liked the clinic I was visiting was because they were comparatively inexpensive. They offer two packages. The standard package and the VIP package. Both of these are amazing prize wise. For them, the quality matters more than does the quantity. Other than this choice between the two is really up to you. I went for surrogacy due to my own personal reason. I wanted to have a child since his/her birth. Also, I wanted to be genetically connected to him/her. I hope you are soon able to decide. Do let me know.
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