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Post by noveta on Mar 15, 2018 12:49:47 GMT
Dear!Really a heartbreaking condition.Actually, to be a mother is the dream of every woman.But when someone is ttc and didn't get the response it's really disgusting.You should not lose hope.Don't be stressful.Stress also cause hormonal problems.Many of us are suffering from this problem.But that is not the matter of life and death.You can consult a good and certified clinic.In Europe, there are many clinics which are working on IVF,IUI and baby testing tubes.A good clinic and consultant can guide you about your situations.Modern methods to examine are really powerful.Be hopeful.Be nice in your matters.I hope your house issues will resolve after being a mother.
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Post by prozental on Mar 27, 2018 12:51:52 GMT
It has been 4 weeks since my baby was born. There weren’t any complications. However, I just don’t feel happy anymore. There isn’t any excitement. The baby for which I have waited for 3 years ,is now in my hands. Still I don’t feel attach to my son. I keep crying while breast feeding him. Is this normal. Am I frustrated due to all the infertility treatment? Yesterday my baby was crying and I just didn’t felt like breastfeeding him. My husband was quite furious because of it. He thinks Iam not being a good mom. Am I really not a good mom. Please help me ladies. How to be a better mom? How can I concentrate more on my baby? Postpartum depression sometimes comes after long stressful expectation. Actually, it’s not O.K. it’s really dangerous and our advice can’t make big difference in such case. as I remember brain frees up the ‘happy hormones’ during and after pregnancy thus you must be so attached to your baby. You have to call for special help because then it’ll be too difficult to get normal mood and I certainly think it doesn’t say anything about what the mother you are it’s a sort of disorder and must be treated Be happy and take care xxx |
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 13, 2018 18:43:49 GMT
That is actually kind of messed up. I don't like sugarcoating things. But you know that's really alright. Postpartum depression is really common. You probably are frustrated because of the treatments. Don't be so hard on yourself right now. Everyone experiences this differently. Take my example for instance. I had my son through surrogacy after TTC for 3 years. When I had him, my life transformed. Its as if depression left me for good. But I know of a woman who went through the same thing. But, she experienced the same thing you are experiencing now. Take your time and focus on the positive things about your new life with your child. You should even see a therapist if you think its necessary. Good luck.
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Post by monikaa on Nov 7, 2018 0:14:21 GMT
You don't need to worry about this. I know a lot of people with whom this has happened. My honest advice to you would be to visit a psychologist. This is a disorder that a lot of women face while they are on this journey. Good luck to you. I hope you get better. Just stay strong and positive. Do keep us updated.
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Post by myraward on Feb 7, 2019 3:32:26 GMT
Hi there! I am so sorry for what you are going through. You are just going through depression. You need to do things that make you happy, do exercise and yoga to avoid stress. You are not a bad mom, the time is just not right. I hope things get better for you. Good luck!
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Post by mandy5238678 on Mar 20, 2019 9:05:51 GMT
It has been 4 weeks since my baby was born. There weren’t any complications. However, I just don’t feel happy anymore. There isn’t any excitement. The baby for which I have waited for 3 years ,is now in my hands. Still I don’t feel attach to my son. I keep crying while breast feeding him. Is this normal. Am I frustrated due to all the infertility treatment? Yesterday my baby was crying and I just didn’t felt like breastfeeding him. My husband was quite furious because of it. He thinks Iam not being a good mom. Am I really not a good mom. Please help me ladies. How to be a better mom? How can I concentrate more on my baby? I guess, that postpartum depression happens to all of the mothers. Oh, can happen. You need to get help. And I mean that in the kindest way possible. Just so your baby do not suffer. We have been told by our manager at World center of baby, that it is necessary to visit some lectures or courses that will help us to prepare for the parenthood. As we have no experience taking care of a newborn 24/7 And I am sure if I start feeling the same, I will go to a therapist and try to overcome it. |
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Post by hannah on Jun 27, 2019 8:28:40 GMT
It is probably because you are overthinking. Think positively. I am sure things will get better. Sending prayers your way. Do share your experience with us. Good luck to you. Stay strong!
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Post by monikaa on Jul 25, 2019 9:41:37 GMT
Some mothers do go through this phase. However, that doesn't mean that you are labeled that way. It is hard to go pass the infertility stage. I think your DH should be supportive. However, stay strong and positive. I would suggest that you start visiting a psychologist. This is something that is really important. All my prayers are with you.
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Post by hannah on Oct 9, 2019 18:02:50 GMT
A lot of mothers do go through this. I believe in such circumstances therapy is really important. You should be happy that after 3 years you were finally able to have your own child. Just think positive and that will help you. Look at the child and then think about all the struggles. It will all look like it was worth it. Good luck to you. I hope things get better.
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Post by hannah on Nov 14, 2019 16:34:35 GMT
I can understand how difficult this might be for you. However, I believe it is the negative thoughts that are really invading your thought process. I think it is soo important to think positively and hope for the best. I am in a phase where my treatment has just started. I am hoping for the best. The doctors are really doing an amazing job. Everything is properly managed. So far so good.
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Post by emmawilson on Nov 16, 2019 13:02:47 GMT
It has been 4 weeks since my baby was born. There weren’t any complications. However, I just don’t feel happy anymore. There isn’t any excitement. The baby for which I have waited for 3 years ,is now in my hands. Still I don’t feel attach to my son. I keep crying while breast feeding him. Is this normal. Am I frustrated due to all the infertility treatment? Yesterday my baby was crying and I just didn’t felt like breastfeeding him. My husband was quite furious because of it. He thinks Iam not being a good mom. Am I really not a good mom. Please help me ladies. How to be a better mom? How can I concentrate more on my baby? Hi dear. I am sorry to hear this. Having a baby is the most wonderful feeling in the world. I think you might have gone through much in your treatment. From where you got the treatment? It must be a good clinic as you ended up having the baby. then what is the need of being depressed. I believe you should not be worried as all your prayers are answered. You might be going through post-pat-rum depression. Many of the women across the globe face this issue. This is real and should be dealt with properly. Talk to your husband about this. I think you should also go to a good doctor. Everything will be fine. You have got the biggest happiness in your life. this is the time to cherish. this depressing time will soon fade away so do not worry. You are absolutely a brilliant mom. |
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