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Post by lucille on Dec 21, 2017 4:05:29 GMT
Hey girl, what a good friend you are. However, you failed to mention the number of attempts your friend made at IVF. One IVF failure means nothing. I have seen people getting pregnant on the sixth attempt. What do you mean she cannot get pregnant, you have not mentioned her details. If her eggs are good quality and she is in good health, then nothing can stop her from getting pregnant. However, if her health status does not allow her to carry a child, that is another issue. For that, she might consider surrogacy. Surrogacy would certainly help if her DH were in good shape. If the sperm count and quality are healthy, she can go for surrogate motherhood. A clinic in Ukraine by the name of Biotexcom is becoming noticeable in the past few years. I have heard some very successful stories out of there. With cost-effective facilities and a high achievement rate, they have some of the best doctors available. Do not worry about the language barrier. They provide translators and interpreters to communicate directly with the client. Do look it up. I must say again, your friend is lucky to have you.
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Post by malia on Dec 21, 2017 4:20:33 GMT
It is very considerate of you to be worried about your friend. I know that you must be quite stressed regarding your friends condition. Infertility can be very frustrating . Specially failed IVF procedures . It is not necessary that second attempt will also be unsuccessful . It is good to know that her husband is very supportive. Moral and emotional support is very important at this stage of life. It is vital for her to decide wether she has the courage and determination to continue. Has she thought about surrogacy? Surrogacy has higher success rate than any other fertility treatments. She can do a thorough research regarding the procedure and then decide. I hope things turn out well for her.
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Post by pansy on Jan 31, 2018 16:54:13 GMT
Look; the common misconception about an IVF is that it can work on all ages in women. Wrong. It only works effectively on the women under 34 years of age. Those older than this have almost no chance of being pregnant from this treatment. I was diagnosed with fallopian tubes blockage. I have turned towards surrogacy from BioTexCom. They have best of everything: medicines, equipments, staff, doctors,etc. Suggest your friend the same. I hope she will be able to conceive this way.
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Post by piya22 on Feb 17, 2018 10:17:03 GMT
Hey amy, I understand your concern about your friend. She is lucky, she has a loving husband and a caring friend. Reluctance to try anything that's failed once, is very common. And in this situation the reluctance is driven by emotional turmoil and the fear of the same happening again. I believe your friend could get rid of this fear if she herself visits this forum and reads similar stories and experiences of women who eventually conceived through IVF. This won't happen overnight. Little efforts like making her talk about something else that would cheer her up. Or something that would change her perspective on IVF. Browsing through the posts on this forum could be an effective step towards achieving that. I wish her well. Take care.
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Post by rose23 on Feb 17, 2018 15:21:36 GMT
The most important thing is her husband is with her. You are right about the success and failure rates. The 90% success is valid. This is basically a procedure with cycles. If you are not successful in first cycle. You can take another cycle. It's not much difficult. This is a very simple process. May be that is why it's success rates are so high. Another important thing is that her husband is with her. Full support of husband is required in these matters. Anyway please tell her that she has many things to do. Please don't be depress. She must think of upcoming good things. Just tell her that nothing to be affraid of. You know dear another friend of mine is also in a worry than she consulted biotexcom. You that thing works as a miracle for her. I think you should suggest your freind about that. She'll be very happy than. I am hoping best for her.
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Post by elliana on May 17, 2018 17:39:16 GMT
Hi, it’s very sad to hear that you are going through IVF. It’s not an easy way to go through. I believe difficulties in your journey makes your destination beautiful. So never lost hope. My sister also goes through IVF. She visits a clinic in the UK. They recommend her to do Surrogacy. It's less expensive in UK clinic. My sister goes through it. She is now having 2 kids through IVF. If you are healthy it will be successful. Trust me you won’t regret your decision by opting IVF.i hope my suggestion will be helpful for you.M ay you have a happy life. Best of luck for the future.
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 24, 2018 19:27:23 GMT
if your friends want to go for it again, she should. A lot of people don't conceive after their first transfer. It takes 2 to 3 transfers for some people to finally get pregnant. If nothing happens again, it won't be the end of the world. She can talk to her doctor about other possible options. I hope she gets pregnant soon. She is very lucky to have such a nice husband and a friend like you.
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 24, 2018 19:28:35 GMT
if your friends want to go for it again, she should. A lot of people don't conceive after their first transfer. It takes 2 to 3 transfers for some people to finally get pregnant. If nothing happens again, it won't be the end of the world. She can talk to her doctor about other possible options. I hope she gets pregnant soon. She is very lucky to have such a nice husband and a friend like you.
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Post by hannah on Apr 8, 2019 21:22:41 GMT
I am sorry to read about your friend's journey. I can understand how difficult this all must be for her. I have been in a very similar situation. I can't really recommend treatment. This is because it is the doctor's job to analyze and then help. This is what the clinic I am visiting did. The doctors helped me by suggesting the most right treatment. If you need help with anything else let me know.
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Post by mandy5238678 on Apr 18, 2019 13:45:48 GMT
Hi honey! It is fine if you fail one or two times. IVF is not a 100 per cent guarantee. You cannot predict the future. Your friend can go for ICSI. It is a better option in my opinion. The chances are higher as far as I know. Unfortunately for us, we were too late to have the chance to choose between ivf or icsi. It was a straight path towards surrogacy for us. By the way, if your friend or anyone is interested, here is the clinic that we have signed with. It is called World Centre of Baby. And it is located in Ukraine. It is very popular fertility tx destination. However, I know for sure that surrogacy is far cheaper there than anywhere else in the world. Hence us choosing it in the first place. We were a bit upset due to the fact that ivf is no more for us. But you know, surrogacy has much higher chances of success than any other tx. And we are trying to find positive sides in everything. Of course, our desire to have kids has pushed us towards travelling abroad. But what is life if not a set of trials? We are lucky we have savings to afford it even in Ukraine. It would've been a disaster if we had no option rather than to stay in the US. Hope that it works out for your friend. It has been working well for us. Our surrogate is pregnant. Hell yeah! And we are celebrating it by purchasing some neat stuff for her and for the baby. By the way. Here is the link to the agency - worldcenterofbaby.comThey are pretty fast when it comes to replying to emails. |
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Post by monikaa on Jul 24, 2019 19:32:30 GMT
Amy, I think you should ask your friend to give IVF another try. However, this time she should visit another clinic. It is very important that for the process she visits a clinic that is professional with such procedures. IVF is a complicated process that requires good doctors. This is the case with almost all the treatments. It is due to this reason that I changed my clinic and now things are going so much better. I hope things go well for us. Tell your friend to stay strong!
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Post by hannah on Oct 21, 2019 18:32:50 GMT
IVF is an unpredictable process at times. Therefore, I would suggest giving it another try. However, this time she should visit a good doctor. This changed things for us as well. The clinic I am currently visiting I visited them after a lot of research. I made sure that the clinic was operating at a high success rate. The doctors, therefore, turned out to be amazing. They have been making sure that things turn out well.
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