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Post by amelia on Feb 1, 2018 19:25:38 GMT
hello zella44!!!! I read your post and it turned me into tears. How ladies are forced to think about it. I can understand your fears and worries about it. It’s a bad fact of our society that they always blame that particular lady for such a loss. They don’t care what she wants and what she thinks. How much disturb she is. Her life will have ruined totally when her in-laws take some action. Nobody cares about her. My suggestion to you after removing the cancerous particles from your body have an appointment from some famous physician. If you found nothing, then think about surrogacy. Visit a clinic in Ukraine for treatment. They will guide you more. They have treatment for an infertile woman except for all those ladies who have suffered from heart diseases. Don’t be afraid. Have a peaceful mind and then think to move on. Wish you all the best!!!
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Post by alixberlin on Feb 8, 2018 16:58:02 GMT
Hey Zelle, I am so sorry to hear about your struggle. It makes me feel so bad because I have been through all this pain. To this disappointment, it is not going to be easy but Infertility is not your fault so don't impose this fear on you. And in this era infertility is not something which makes you feel helpless.Because a lot of people out there are struggling for all of us who are suffering from it. I honestly suggest you that don't makes your life complicated as I did. And now I regret all those years I wasted on making all this even more horrible for myself. I can only say that go for best treatments. Infertility does not mean that you can't be a mother. A miracle may happen! If I had given up I would not be as satisfied as I'm now.I had a baby boy now. So be strong headed and go for IVF rounds or surrogacy whatever is best in your case. Do it. don't live an incomplete life without even trying.I am 100 percent sure that I wouldn't have my life so figured out without fertility treatments, and it truly feels like some miracle happened for me. So stay positive.I wish that you will conceive soon.
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Post by penelope on Feb 8, 2018 17:15:27 GMT
hey there Zella.First of all, I am so sorry to hear about your condition and at this age when your emotions are so sensitive, you don't expect that kind of news to happen to you.For you to cope up with all that it is tremendous.But listen there is nothing wrong in you it is their I mean your in-laws who nee the mental treatment, how can people be so mean and selfish to a person who is already going through all of this and knowing that this is all natural and not due to anybody, not even your own self.This is really heart-wrenching to read.Above all what your first and foremost priority should be is your own health.ealth is everything, go for the best doctor available around you and believe his consultation and as far as the baby is concerned there are many ways now to get a baby these may include IUI, IVF or surrogacy etc.These have become common and the technology being used is top classYou need not to worry about your family first comes the health.Ultimately these people will learn to shut their mouths and you will be at peace.Much love and support to you dear.Good luck!
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Post by monikaa on Feb 11, 2018 6:35:41 GMT
Hey there! Firstly, it must be extremely difficult for you to cope with the behaviour of your family. I believe that is the worst part as the support of your loved ones is so very important. However, my suggestion to you would be to not lose hope and try opting for a treatment asap. Since there is a lot going on in your body you and your DH should start considering surrogacy. It is a great option to go for and be genetically linked with the baby. Try researching on it and look into the procedure. Also, search for good clinics. On this forum, I have seen people use the eastern clinic a lot. I have read very positive reviews on it. I believe you should look into that as well. Look into the legal work as that is the most important. Also, see the rights of the surrogate wherever you decide to opt for. I hope to hear good news from you. Best of luck all my warm wishes are with you.
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Post by katherinegrant on Feb 17, 2018 8:34:14 GMT
You in laws are really horrible people if they did that to you. Right now however, you do not need negativity in your life. Keep moving forward and do not look back. Right now your health is the most important thing. You must focus on that. Do not take too much stress. I know that is easier said than done but you must do that. Also please make sure the doctor is doing what is necessary. From what you wrote it seems fairly serious and could get worse if you do not fix it soon.
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Post by penelope on Feb 21, 2018 12:05:22 GMT
dear Zella i am so sorry to hear you.At this time of depression, all you need is love and support from your loved ones.You must be feeling alone.But fear, not every gloomy night has a bright day ahead.You must start looking for ore better options.As the age factor matters a lot so you must go for other than natural procedures like IVF, surrogacy etc.As with time, your eggs will be of no use.And tell your husband he will surely support you.Be strong and never lose hope.If a door closes another opens
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Post by amelia on Feb 23, 2018 15:24:34 GMT
zella44 you said right that fears are fears. In this situation, men change their behaviors quickly without getting to know anyone. This is really a worrying situation. Even a woman gets sensors in a depriving situation naturally. Because a woman has her respect if she has kids. Actually, this is not true you can say that our society considers a woman to whom who has kids. I am really sorry for your continuous bleeding. May you have a well and better treatment. Hope for the best. Nothing wrong will happen to you. dear be brave and go to your doctor with full of confidence. Moreover, if she denied any positive hope then don’t lose courage. Now a day surrogacy is being happened. Most of the clinics are offering their remarkable service. Try to join them in any case of disappointment. This will help you to save your home. One more thing is it will change your in-law’s behavior with you by giving you a baby. consult it with your husband.
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Post by monikaa on Oct 2, 2018 17:47:41 GMT
I can totally relate to you. Sometimes it can be really hard to deal with such kind of situation. At times I feel in soo much pressure from the people around me! However, honestly, stress isn't good for you so don't worry and keep calm. When I was going through this phase I kept my self-busy in finding a good clinic. Once I was able to find one I got so busy that I never got time to think about what people were thinking about me. The clinic that I am visiting has helped me a lot as well. They are always there for me whenever I need any help. So for my process is going smoothly as well. Everything is being done in a very structured manner. The clinic took every step after making sure that it was done in accordance with the plan. This is one of the reasons why I am so calm now and stress-free. Just stay positive and research about the next step. Good luck to you. If you need any help do let me know.
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Post by emiliajoe on Oct 26, 2018 16:15:25 GMT
You are going through so much right now. Infertility is the last thing you should be worrying about right now. Please focus on your health. Once you are in a stable condition you can think about this. You can consult your doctor and see what options you have now. This is not the end of the world. I hope your surgery goes well.
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Post by hannah on Apr 9, 2019 7:07:08 GMT
This is really sad! I can't believe that families can actually act like this. However, honestly speaking just concentrate on your journey ignore them. I am sure thing will work out for you. Technology in this field has drastically improved and therefore there are a lot of options. Just visit a good doctor! They will help you out. Sending baby dust your way.
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Post by hannah on Oct 21, 2019 18:32:07 GMT
I can understand how hard this all must be for you. However, dont lose hope. I am sure things will get better. Just know that it is really important to visit the right clinic. Research and make sure before visiting them. I am saying this from my own personal experience. The reason why things are going well for us is that of this reason. Good luck to you.
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