divya
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Post by divya on Sept 14, 2017 2:21:09 GMT
This is my first pregnancy, and all i seem to hear from currently pregnant friends & family members is how wonderful being pregnant is. I get asked all the time "don't you love being pregnant? It's such a magical time in a woman's life"
Well, i don't feel it. Quite frankly, I'm not particularly enjoying pregnancy. Which makes me feel guilty because i feel like i should be. I'm happy that I am pregnant, because the outcome is amazing. But actually being pregnant isn't all rainbows and unicorns like people in my life make it out to be.
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Post by shannon on Sept 14, 2017 9:54:49 GMT
Hello Congratulations on your pregnancy. I hope everything will be fine for you.
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Post by sifiawest on Sept 22, 2017 18:47:21 GMT
Get the fucking hell out of the things that help you to move forward. I have been trying on the infertility but iit's sucking all tthe energy out of me.
I hope you understand.
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Post by divya on Sept 23, 2017 5:04:07 GMT
Shannon Thank you! hope everything will be fine.I am feeling guilty that I don't have the feeling of awesome during my pregnancy.
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Post by divya on Sept 23, 2017 5:08:08 GMT
sifiawest I am sorry to hear about your infertility.I can understand you feeling ,even my friend was trying on infertility and always used to be depressed.I will pray for you to overcome all your problems.
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Post by mishavailable on Sept 23, 2017 5:16:19 GMT
Hello dear friend. I can understand your situation very well. Your story sound similar to me. When I was pregnant, initially I was too not excited about this and feel awful. My relatives and family members get shock about my reaction. But later I came to realize that how it is wonderful and amazing to become the mother of the lovely baby. I know what you are feeling right now. But my dear, it is the dream of every woman to get pregnant and conceive the baby. You are one of those women who are going to make the dream true. I am pretty sure that there is something that you are hiding from others. You should feel proud and feel lucky that you are going to conceive the baby. You should see the happiness in the eyes of your partner and relatives. There are many women who are facing the infertility issues and desire to have the baby. You are lucky and need to change your thought about this. It happens to some women that they don’t feel the excitement to get pregnant.
I think you need some changes in your life and realize how much it feels beautiful to get pregnant and become the mother of the lovely baby. I am here to support you and provide you wonderful tips. You need to change your schedule and maintain the health. It is good for you and your baby too. You can go for the morning walk daily and eat the iron rich foods. You can eat the green leafy and high nutrients foods that can change your mood and you feel the love for your child. I hope it would work for you.
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Post by nisha332 on Sept 23, 2017 7:52:24 GMT
Hi dear. I don't know a whole lot of women including myself who enjoy the first trimester. If this is your first pregnancy you may have a lot of physical sensations and feelings that make you worry all the time. I can tell you that I was not a good pregnant lady much first time around. I enjoyed my second pregnancy more starting in the second trimester. With this one, I feel like it's my first time all over again. There are pains that I worry about, questions I have never encountered, different feelings you know? I remember feeling so lost almost like I wasn't normal because I had always thought that pregnancy was supposed to be this divine experience. It wasn't divine my first time. Now I have that experience and as I struggle with some of the same doubts and worries I can look back and remember and that really helps. I hope my experience will help someone. Best of luck for all the upcoming mothers on their motherhood. Be safe and stay blessed.
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Post by rebecaa8411 on Sept 23, 2017 14:44:17 GMT
hey dear generally a lot of couples feel that after the arrival of their baby their relationship change. And surely it does change, and it only makes the partners feel that they are parents now and therefore responsibility and accountability is there now. Maintaining your relationship takes a lot of energy and time and these two are something which are clearly not available as of now. I will just let you know about my story here wherein I also went through the same phase. My darling and loving husband all of a sudden became distant after our daughter was born. There was no intimacy or love and there were frequent quarrels about things which were simply irrelevant at some point. So to cope up with all of that, we sat down like mature people and discussed about our issues and grievances. We decided to work like a team and when you guys get together and work like a team this problem will fade away before you both even realize it. You need to make time for sex, cuddle with each other and make love.Why do you guys even have to feel that things have changed whereas they are just as they were earlier?Besides go on for dates with him, candle light dinner and something like this.Hang out like you guys hung out earlier and relive those days.Take help from the baby’s grandparents and they will gladly help you keeping the baby safe with them. Spending time alone with your husband is very important and just the thing both of you need at this point. Go out watch a movie, visit some other country together and explore new things. Involve each other in your household chores are few things you can try.
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Post by selinadylan247 on Sept 24, 2017 15:12:44 GMT
Hey dear.
Well truth to be told, I don't know how it feels to be pregnant. I have been
infertile for the past 12 years. I have been undergoing fertility treatment.
But let me tell you, that some of my fertile friends tell me wondeful things
Things from the time they got pregnant. I believe you don't realize how
lucky you are. And that's because, you haven't been to a fertility clinic
and I pray you never have to. Be happy and feel grateful that you are
going to be holding your child soon. And you don't have to feel guilty
about it. Gratefulness is a feeling. And like all feelings, it can't be forced
Try being around more children and playing with them. Or talk to some
unfortunate soul like myself. I guarantee you will feel a lot more grateful.
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Post by honyeliat on Oct 31, 2017 19:33:55 GMT
This is so relatable! When I was pregnant, this is all I could think of too. That this not what I signed up for. I kept waiting for the pregnancy glow and halo to kick in. Unfortunately, it was only nausea, cramps, and discomfort that visited frequently. I never shared my feelings because I thought people might call me ungrateful. I hope your experience goes by smoothly.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 20, 2019 17:43:12 GMT
Hi. First of all, congratulations on being pregnant. Feeling weird is completely okay. Just try to nod along when people ask such questions. Dont pay much attention. Everybody has a different experience. It doesn't make you insensitive or any less of a mother. Good luck. Hope you feel better.
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Post by hannah on Apr 22, 2019 14:07:55 GMT
I can understand you. Things are similar in every case. People often tend to generalize. However, that is not how it actually should be. Good luck to you. I hope things work out for you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope things work out for you.
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