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Post by melisaadams on Aug 23, 2017 7:00:23 GMT
I am Melisa Adams. I am going through cycles to have a baby in my life. I have been trying really hard to get what it means for me. When the fourth cycle was failed during the infertility treatment I fall apart.
It is really hard to face such kind of things in life. I suffered enamours depression when I heard about my failure. Believe me or not, it’s all turned out to be one of the worst things that happen due to genetic disease.
My doctor recommended one more treatment and which I am going to face it.
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Post by silver on Sept 7, 2017 19:23:28 GMT
Hello, Melisa. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm really sorry your treatments are not successful. I believe you will realize your dream. Just don't give up and keep doing everything possible.
Nowadays there are a lot of chances to become a parent. Even if you are infertile or single. You still can go to the reproduction center and use their services. If you are not married you can go through the Gestational surrogacy with donor sperm. It means that your doctor will choose for you the sperm donor and the surrogate mother. The baby will be related to you. You will be mentioned as his/her biological mother. You don't have to torture your body with a lot of infertility treatments. You should know that there is a much easier way to get a baby. If you are married you will just need the surrogate mother. The doctors will take your eggs and your husband's sperm. In this case, you both will be mentioned as his/her biological parents.
I used to be a surrogate mother and I assure you that it's absolutely safe. You will sign a contract, which will protect you and your future baby. The surrogate mother will have no chances to keep the baby. But you will also need a good lawyer. The surrogate mother will have to follow the terms of the contract.
Nowadays a lot of women use the help of the surrogate mother because they don't want to give birth to the baby. They want to keep working. Also, they do it to keep their bodies in a great shape. We are not allowed to say if it is good or bad. This is their choice. But this is a great chance for you to realize your dream.
I just wish you good luck with your treatment. Feel free to ask if you have questions. Hope you are doing well.
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Post by smarty on Sept 7, 2017 20:31:00 GMT
Hello, dear. Let me give you some recommendations. I used to go through infertility 4 years ago. I had a lot of treatments but nothing helped. I've been married for 5 years then. We've been trying to get pregnant for 3 years. We were so disappointed. My husband supported me very much! This was the only reason I kept trying. We were not going to give up, that's why we decided to find the surrogate mother.
We've chosen a great medical center in Ukraine. I read a lot of good reviews about this clinic, that's why we decided to go there. Our doctor answered all our questions and we started the examinations.
My eggs are ok, so we didn't need the egg donor. After we approved our surrogate mother the doctors started the process. The embryo was transferred. We found out that the surrogate is pregnant in 21 days. You know, it was the happiest day of our lives. We understood that we are gonna become parents soon. And we started the preparations.
In 9 months we got our daughter. She is amazing. We definitely can't imagine our lives without her. She is our angel.
In her birth certificate, we are mentioned as her biological parents. I'm not sure if we will tell her in what way she was born.
I'm sure that you can become as happy as we are. There's nothing better than being a parent! Go find the best medical center and get your baby. There's no time to wait. You have to become a mother!
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Post by melisaadams on Sept 16, 2017 7:04:28 GMT
Hi, smarty and Silver. I am incredibly grateful for the support that i am getting from the both of you. and smarty your story is really helpful. I will think on both the perspective and will try.
Than you,
Melisa
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Post by myraward on Feb 2, 2019 3:35:57 GMT
Hi Melissa! I am so sorry to hear about your failed cycles. So this is not working out for you, then maybe you should go for Surrogacy. Or maybe try any other clinic. Clinics can make a huge difference in these treatments trust me. Just don't give up, everything will be fine. Good luck!
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 25, 2019 16:47:20 GMT
Hi. I hope you're feeling better now. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. Somethings just don't work for you sometimes. Most fertility treatments dont guarantee pregnancy. You just get a shot at it. It might not work or you. Just don't lose hope and give up. You should take your doctor's advice. Go for the option. This might be the one for you. I was once where you are I have a son now. I had him through surrogacy. So you dont know what might actually work out for you. Don't lose this chance. I hope things work out for you.
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Post by hannah on Apr 22, 2019 14:22:31 GMT
I believe your doctor is right. You should opt for a process. I am sure that will really help you out. However, make sure that the clinic you visit for the process is expereinced. They should know what they are doing. These things really matter and shouldn't be ignored. Good luck to you. I hope things work out for you.
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Post by monikaa on Aug 8, 2019 22:47:46 GMT
I am really sorry to hear about your failed cycle. I can understand how much devastating this must be for you. However, I would say that don't lose hope. I am sure things will work out. For the IVF process, it is important that the doctor you visit has a high success rate. Also, he should be experienced and professional. Therefore, I would say maybe its time to consider switching the clinic. Good luck to you.
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Post by hannah on Sept 18, 2019 10:50:03 GMT
I am sorry to hear about your failed cycles. I can totally understand how you must be feeling. I have been in the same boat previously as well. However, there is something that really matters while on this journey that is not giving up. Apart from this also make sure that the clinic you are visiting is operating at a high success rate. The doctors should be experienced as well. I had to switch my doctor due to these reasons. I am glad I decided to do that because now my process is going really well.
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