tim
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Post by tim on Jun 27, 2017 14:30:09 GMT
My name is Tim and I am a new member in this forum. I will highly appreciate to share more with you. It was very hard and difficult to describe how infertility meant to a lady. It had a so disastrous impact to my life as a whole. I struggled with infertility for seven years and yet remained strong. As a marriage counsellor, I always struggled to put words across to my clients. My close colleagues used to call it a crusher of souls which ended up inflicting pain in my heart. My self-esteem was lost and couldn’t muster any courage to serve all my clients. Married to my husband for twenty years, I was always on birth control and both of us yearned to have a family of ourselves. It was barely two years I had been done an operation where my appendix was removed. I didn’t know it would interfere with my getting children. I used to have painful periods which was also accompanied with painful ovulation. Through the doctor’s advice, I decided to stay away from using the pills. They really aggravated my problems and worsened the case of me getting children. No one from my husband’s family lineage had the same problem that I had. I always thought it was genetical but it was not. It was as a result of continuous use of birth control pills which damaged my uterus and ovaries.
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Post by key on Jul 2, 2017 12:37:14 GMT
I am thrilled by your experience, Tim. What you experienced is very emotional. It is very right to see a medic anytime you experience such. On the contrary, apart from prevention of pregnancy, pills can help you to overcome the trauma that arises when in doubt during sex. On the other hand, the use of pills has more advantages like it prevents bone thinning, acne, the growth of cysts in the ovaries and breasts and the serious infections that usually occur in the ovary. So kindly keep following the doctor and I am 100% convinced you will get better.
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Post by eagerfamily98 on Jul 10, 2017 12:44:07 GMT
That is unfortunate. Good luck. Try finding another solution. For me it was infertility clinics. They were fantastic. I used Biotex and you can use whichever you prefer. With Biotex I got a solid price. I also didn't have to give up on trying again! How here we are. Across the world.
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Post by rim on Jul 15, 2017 21:45:23 GMT
I concur with you eagerfamily98. I had the tendency of using pills quite often in my life but they later missed me. It was a time of grief and sorrow where I could not believe that I would live a life without a baby. Pills affected my cycle of the monthly periods and the tendency to become fertile. All the eggs that I produced were all premature and it really gave me a lot of a hard time trying to figure out my next course of action. I tried to exhaust all available channels to boost my fertility and it could not work. I was living a life of despair and despondency. In every clinic and hospital, I went to, the cost of the procedure for fertility was very expensive. I decided to shift to BioTex clinic in Kiev in Ukraine. The whole procedure was cost effective and until now I cannot regret. I am also a proud mummy of a very cheerful girl.
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Post by mishavailable on Sept 16, 2017 7:51:59 GMT
I am really sorry for you. I am shock after reading your painful and trilling story. But finally you take the courage and however you share your problem with all of us. After all this, a woman cannot bear the pain anymore. You are truly an inspirational for the women who are facing the same situation in their life. My dear sister, I am here to support you. I know what you are going through and how it feels to have the pain in life. It is the time you need the complete support, care and love of your partner. I would like to say you should not lose the hope and find the possibility to change the situation and able to overcome with the terrible situation. Of course it had happened by taking the birth control pills. The pills you took cause the problem in regulating the periods and imbalance the hormones of the body. If you are feeling low or depressed then it is the not the solution at all. But you can visit to Lotus Clinic where you can enlightens the hope to cure the disease and able to become pregnant.
It is the advance medical research generation where everything is possible. Now you can get the best treatment and you will be able to get pregnant and cure the disease. You can cure the damage ovaries and uterus if you maintain the schedule. You just need to give two months to yourself and get the best solution for you. You need to add the high quality of fresh fruits, go for the morning walks and do yoga. It refresh your mind and help in treating your health.
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Post by sonamgupta2107 on Sept 16, 2017 16:07:18 GMT
Hi dear. If you are facing any such problem where you think that you are suffering from infertility due to use of pills, I will suggest you consult a doctor first. I was lucky that I got the support of Lotus center for all my pregnancy-related matter and their tips helped me a lot. there's no evidence that long-term use of the birth control pill interferes with fertility. Some women experience a disruption in their menstrual cycle for several months after going off the Pill (a condition called post-pill amenorrhea). In fact, taking the Pill can protect you from diseases – such as ovarian and uterine cancers – that can lead to infertility. Researchers have also found that long-term Pill use may improve the symptoms of endometriosis, a condition that can cause abnormal menstrual bleeding and result in infertility. Finally, the Pill has been shown to reduce the incidence of ectopic pregnancy – when a fertilized egg is implanted outside the uterus, typically in one of the fallopian tubes. (Unfortunately, an ectopic pregnancy can't result in a successful birth.). Some doctors advise trying to get pregnant as soon as you go off the Pill, but I recommend that you wait until after you get your first period – usually four to six weeks after going off the Pill. That way, you'll know you're ovulating. If you still haven't gotten your period two months after stopping the Pill, it's a good idea to check with your healthcare provider. There may be an underlying problem that needs to be addressed. But don't be concerned if you do get pregnant right after going off hormonal contraception. Research suggests that there's no need to worry about the effects of any lingering hormones on your baby. Remember that it's always a good idea to talk to your healthcare provider before going off any hormonal contraceptive.
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Post by shannon on Sept 18, 2017 7:16:37 GMT
Hello Tim, I'm really sorry about your condition. I think you should not take any pills with out doctors recommendation.
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Post by priyaangel2587 on Sept 20, 2017 16:11:33 GMT
Hello my dear friend, thank you for sharing your problem with us and I hope you will find good solution for it at this forum. I can understand your situation and I know that you are going through very hard time of your life. First of all, I will suggest you not to lose hope and happiness because of this issue. Many couples are facing infertility problem because of use of birth control pills. Use of birth control pills is very common these days and people are using it to control unwanted pregnancy. I will suggest going with other pregnancy control options like use of condom as a good option. Birth control pills can cause various Side Effects if you use it for a long time. As in your case, you got such problem with heavy use of these pills and now you are facing such issue in your life. In this condition, it is very important for you to be strong internally to fight with this issue. You should understand that treatment solution is also available for it and you can get help with professionals and experts of Medical Science. Medical Science is very advanced now and doctors and health experts can provide good treatment solution to get rid of this issue. Your body will need time to recover from that damage of these pills. I will suggest you switch to Healthy lifestyle and you should get help with regular exercise and yoga to recover your body in a good condition. It is also important for you to add good nutrition to your regular diet so that your body can get help in recovery. You should consult any professional health expert who can provide good treatment solution for you.
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Post by sofiaa on Nov 10, 2017 16:21:22 GMT
Hello Tim. I am sorry to hear that. I hope you manage to find a solution. Yes, prolonged usage of contraceptives can be harmful. This is why women need to be more careful while using them. Have you considered other options? You could go for uterus implantation, surrogacy or adoption.
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Post by humahony on Nov 10, 2017 19:15:58 GMT
Hi Tim. Excess of everything is bad my dear. You could have used other safety measurements or protections. Had the doctor told you about its cure? Will you be able to have a baby? I know you are overwhelmed with emotions right now. You are supposed to be courageous to fight against infertility.
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Post by mexge on Nov 10, 2017 21:32:28 GMT
Again a case of abortion-causing infertility problems! Dear, why do you get pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby? You should have protected intercourse. Another mistake you made was using the birth control pill. Now you will have to pay the consequences. As far as children are concerned you can still have them through surrogacy. I have a baby through surrogacy and I am planning for the same. Kindly think about it.
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Post by zaniim on Nov 10, 2017 21:33:46 GMT
Sometimes we make some bad choices and then, later on, we have to bear the consequences of it. If you were not ready to have a baby then you should have protected sex but you used birth control pills and look what have they done to you. Don’t be so upset. There is a solution to your problem. You should try for surrogacy. I can share my experience with you but first, you need to make a proper decision.
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Post by anjali on Nov 21, 2017 11:47:37 GMT
I am truly sad for you. I am stunned in the wake of perusing your excruciating and thrilling story. Be that as it may, at last, you take the mettle and anyway you share your concern with every one of us. After this, a lady can't manage the agony any longer. You are really helpful for the ladies who are confronting a similar circumstance in their life. My dear sister, I am here to help you. I comprehend what you are experiencing and how it feels to have the torment in life. It is the time you require the entire help, care, and love of your accomplice. I might want to state you ought not to lose the expectation and discover the likelihood to change the circumstance and ready to overcome with the repulsive circumstance. Obviously, it had occurred by taking the contraception pills. The pills you took cause the issue in managing the periods and lopsidedness the hormones of the body. On the off chance that you are feeling low or discouraged then it is the not the arrangement by any stretch of the imagination. Yet, you can visit Clinic in Ukraine where you can illuminate the want to cure the ailment and ready to wind up noticeably pregnant. It is the propel therapeutic research age where everything is conceivable. Presently you can get the best treatment and you will have the capacity to get pregnant and cure the ailment. You can cure the harm ovaries and uterus on the off chance that you keep up the calendar. You simply need to give two months to yourself and get the best answer for you. You have to include the high caliber of new organic products, go for the morning strolls and do yoga. It revives your brain and helps in treating your wellbeing.
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Post by emiliajoe on Feb 14, 2019 17:46:24 GMT
Hello. I'm really sorry to hear about that. I've always had mixed feelings about such pills. They mess with your hormones. The working of your body is disturbed. One should never take a risk like that. I understand there is a need. But there are other precautions you can take too. But its really important to use stuff of high quality. But even that does not give you a guarantee. But hey. Thank you for telling us about it. People will think twice before using these things now. Coming back to you. I'm sorry that this is happening. If medication doesn't work for you, you can try other options. Maybe IVF would work? You should talk to a professional about this. Hoping for the best for you. dont lose hope already.
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Post by hannah on Apr 8, 2019 21:20:03 GMT
I can very much relate to you. This journey is not an easy one. There are soo many highs and lows. The hardest part is to keep on moving forward. Like it is soo hard to deal with a failed cycle and start a new one. I have been on this journey for more than 6 years now. Nothing has really been the easiest. Really hoping for the best.
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