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Post by giorgia3 on Oct 28, 2017 7:19:03 GMT
Ladies I have one word for you. Stay postive and be brave. It is the perfect solution for anyone who is in such a situation because I believe Selena here isn't the only one having this problem. Many women in the world have trouble conceiving. Surrogacy is probably the best solution for women like us. Yeah! adoption too. How it works is that the interested couple needs to visit a surrogacy clinic. There are many such clinics but the one I went to stood out from the rest. In terms of both hospitality and services. All you have to do is give some tests to make sure the that surrogacy is your perfect solution. You will need to proove to the clinic that you cannot carry your own child. After this the clinic calls you for your first visit in which husband gives his semen sample.
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Post by lilouee on Oct 28, 2017 8:13:50 GMT
Nice to see you back on this forum. You are very right in saying that women like you and I should never give up. Infertility is like a bleak cloud in any woman's life. But like every cloud, this one too has a silver lining. If treatments and procedures aren't helping you out then there are other ways. These include surrogacy. The internet is full of information on the topic, but it is easy to be misled. Thats why I will tell you my personal experience. I researched and found out about a well reputed clinic that offers surrogacy. My husband and I approached them. The staff at the clinic were more than happy to inform us about surrogacy. They answered any questions we had and provided advice on the most suitable package to opt for. Afterwards we just donated the eggs and sperm. This was followed by a waiting period which ended with us being blessed with a baby.
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Post by marry on Oct 29, 2017 8:13:05 GMT
Your words are inspiring. Thank you for that. I wish more people thought like that. Especially women who are infertile. They feel that they are doomed to lives that are dull without children. But the truth is far from it. There are so many options available for such women. And in my opinion, on top of that list is surrogacy. This is because of how easy and straightforward it is. And also because of how low the risks are. Another important factor was the cost-effectiveness. The clinic I went to offer surrogacy at a competitive rate. And at the top of it, they also offer so many perks and added benefits. Surrogacy allows infertile women to have a baby which can be carried by a surrogate mother. And if the client is unable to provide eggs then even for that the client can request an egg donor.
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Post by sofiaa on Oct 29, 2017 12:31:02 GMT
Hope is what stops one from falling into despair. It is the knowledge that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. If one does not have hope they will simply give up. And I believe that giving up is not an option. This is equally true for the scenario you mentioned. Infertility or inability to conceive for any reason can be heartbreaking. But you must remain hopeful. But of course, hope alone won't help you. What you need to do is research on alternate methods to have a child. With the advancements in medicine and technology, there are many options available. You can shortlist the ones that sound suitable. And then decide on one after consulting a doctor, particularly a gynecologist. I am a staunch believer in the effectiveness of surrogacy. I found it to be the perfect solution for my situation. It is a noninvasive, and safe procedure that allows infertile women like me to have children. Do look into surrogacy and I'm sure you will find it to be helpful too.
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Post by Perera on Oct 29, 2017 12:47:24 GMT
Hey. Your motivation and hopefulness are admirable. In fact, if more women were this hopeful then the fight against infertility would have different results. As a doctor, I often see cases where infertile women get depressed and take drastic steps. Such as suicide attempts etc. For these women, it is important to realize that just because the can't conceive now, does not mean things won't change in the future. There are countless treatment options available. And if those aren't suitable for you, then there are other ways too. Such as adoption or surrogacy. Surrogacy, in particular, is a brilliant option. There are many clinics that offer this service. And they can effectively change your situation. But the most important part is to not give up hope. And to keep trying. Live to fight another day.
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Post by Melissa on Oct 29, 2017 12:52:05 GMT
I get what you are saying. Women who have trouble conceiving tend to get emotional about their predicament. One just can't blame them. Having a child is one of the greatest joys in the world. It is more than understandable when such women become sensitive about the matter. Especially after treatments don't give positive results. I too am one such woman. But all that ended two years ago. A friend of mine introduced me to the idea of surrogacy. I was intrigued. I looked it up and it looked too good to be true. She referred me to a clinic and I got an appointment as soon as I could. I headed over there after our free initial consultation and the doctor there explained the entire procedure. It was so straightforward. I didn't have to take medication or have any surgery. I did not have to take medication because we were using donor eggs. My husband's sperm was used. In due time we got to take home our 2 weeks old daughter.
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Post by honyeliat on Oct 29, 2017 13:23:26 GMT
Hey can you please guide me? How does uterus implantation work? Can you conceive normally after this? Or do you need to get eggs donated first?Like in surrogacy. Or do you need to get those eggs donated by a doctor using your husband's sperm? I am very confused. I have been trying to make sense of all the different options available to me. With so many options available, I don't know which one to go for. Currently surrogacy sounds like the best option. The clinic I went to looked quite good. The doctor sounded competent and reassuring. I just want to know the details about all the options first. Apparently I have 3 options: adoption, surrogacy and uterus implant. For all I have researched there aren't any prominent success stories about uterus transplant as yet.
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Post by humahony on Oct 29, 2017 13:31:37 GMT
Hi darling! You have made a great choice by coming up to this forum to discuss your problems and give hope to other women. I also came to this forum to seek some help and guidance regarding my problem and guess what, now I have a lot of hope in me. Many women supported me and guided me throughout this difficult time. I also realized that I should also help other women so that they can feel relaxed and get out of their worries and difficult situations. Well, I have found a partner and it’s you, Selena. I am glad to know you. I am a lot similar to you because I was also tired of my treatment and had almost lost all the hope but then I joined this forum and decided to spit out all of my stress here. I was not hoping to get any response, but I was really amazed when I saw the response of people here. They were really supportive to me. I then gathered myself and I am still having my treatment. I have also considered the option for surrogacy if I do not get success from my treatment in the coming 2 or 3 years. I also want to become a mother and have my own children. My husband did not allow for adaptation as he thinks that we will not able to handle things in such case but he agreed for surrogacy when I told him about all the process. I think that you should also go for the surrogacy process. Discuss all the details with your husband first. I hope you will keep posting. Thanks again for the love.
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Post by anyees on Oct 29, 2017 13:38:48 GMT
Greetings dear! You have settled on an awesome decision by coming up to this gathering to examine your issues and offer want to other ladies. I likewise resulted in these present circumstances gathering to look for some assistance and direction in regards to my concern. Now I have a lot of expectations from my life. Many ladies upheld me and guided me all through this troublesome time. I additionally understood that I ought to likewise help other ladies with the goal that they can get a handle on the loose and get off their stresses and troublesome circumstances. Indeed, I have discovered an accomplice and it's you, Selena. I am happy to know you. I joined this forum and chose to release the majority of my worry here. I was not wanting to get any reaction but rather I was truly stunned when I saw the reaction of individuals here. They were truly strong to me. I at that point assembled myself and I am as yet having my treatment. I have additionally considered the choice for surrogacy on the off chance that I don't get accomplishment from my treatment in the coming 2 or 3 years. I additionally need to wind up plainly a mother and have my own kids. My husband did not consider adaptation as he feels that we won't ready to deal with things in such case. Yet, he agreed for surrogacy when I informed him about all the procedure. I surmise that you ought to likewise go for the surrogacy procedure. Talk to your husband first. I trust you will continue posting. Much obliged.
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Post by mehwishhony on Oct 29, 2017 13:45:34 GMT
Dear, you have you have made the right decision to share your feelings and emotions with others. I am very sorry for your uterus removal. Many women feel shy to come here but you are brave and bold women who want to help other women despite your own infertility issue. You have shown the guts Selena and this will make many shy women to come up to this forum and share their problems. I know that it is very difficult for women to withstand such a situation and wait so long to have a complete family. This is the most important dream of every woman. I have also gone through a lot because of my heart disease. I am fertile but still not able to become a mother. I have a few suggestions to discuss with you. An infertile woman n has two best options to go for. One is adaptation and the other is surrogacy. I have seen a lot of women here who don’t think adaptation as a good choice and have opted for surrogacy. Now those women have their own children and a complete family. The reason behind it is that surrogacy gives you the feeling of becoming true parents. You don’t need to worry about the process. I know of a clinic that takes care of all the matters until you have the baby. You just have to go there for consultancy. I hope my suggestion proves to be helpful. Much love.
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Post by jonyhony on Oct 29, 2017 13:51:10 GMT
It’s been a week that I was looking for someone to post something related to the problems and solution for the women here. I just read your post and I feel enough confident to express my feelings as well. I joined this forum because of my husband as he knows that I cannot share my problems with anyone. I feel very isolated and depressed. The reason is totally similar to yours and that is I can also not bear a baby because of my heart disease. I was diagnosed with it after my marriage. I had lost all the hope. I am having a proper treatment and the doctors have told me that it can take years to get cured. Well, I cannot wait for that much longer to have a baby. I am 28 at the moment and the time is passing really fast. You mentioned about surrogacy and I did a bit research about it. I have found that by this process I can become a mother. I just have to give my eggs and my husband has to give the sperms. The embryo will be placed in the surrogate mother will give birth to our child. I have discussed it with my husband and he is so happy to know about it. I think it’s time for me to be happy as all my problems will be solved soon. My husband is also very eager to have a baby as we have awaited along. I also want to share my experience with you people after I visit a clinic for surrogacy. I would also like to tell that you and all the infertile women on this forum should start looking for surrogacy.
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Post by ellaoty5 on Oct 29, 2017 13:59:56 GMT
 I am very sorry for your uterus removal. You are very kind women who want to help other women despite your own infertility issue. Your post will help all the women to come up to this forum and share their problems. I know that it is very difficult for women to go through such a situation this is the most important dream of every woman. I have also gone through a lot because of my heart disease. I am fertile but still not able to become a mother. I have a few suggestions to discuss with you. An infertile woman n has two best options to go for. One is adaptation and the other is surrogacy. I have seen a lot of women here who don’t think adaptation as a good choice and have opted for surrogacy. Now those women have their own children and a complete family. The reason behind it is that surrogacy gives you the feeling of becoming true parents. You don’t need to worry about the process. I know of a clinic that takes care of all the matters until you have the baby. You just have to go there for consultancy. I hope my suggestion proves to be helpful. Much love. |
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Post by mexge on Oct 29, 2017 14:15:48 GMT
It seems that the problem you are having is becoming a common reason for being infertile. I have seen a lot of women on this forum who had their uterus removed and now they are looking for hope and support. Well, you are doing a great job by helping out infertile women. Many women here are very shy to share their problems and they just read the posts of other women just like I did in my early days. I hope that is support and help makes them enough confidence to share their problems and they find a solution very soon. My husband wants me to go for surrogacy. He consulted a doctor about my condition and that doctor suggested that I should have surrogacy. I am a bit afraid that my husband tells me it is a safe process. The doctor told him that the clinic will take care of all the requirements and I just need to do as they say. Well, now I am considering surrogacy to have my own child. I believe it's the ideal opportunity for me to be cheerful as every one of my issues will be settled soon. I also need to tell my experience to you individuals after I go for surrogacy. I might also want to tell that you should also begin searching for surrogacy.
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Post by zaniim on Oct 29, 2017 14:22:40 GMT
"""Hello! It's always great to hear from women like you who are lending the helping hands to everyone with issues. They say whenever you are feeling hopeless, talk to people who have had experienced and overcame it. It's then we realize that life is standing right across the corner asking us to just have a look at and embrace what it has to offer. When I came to know about my infertility condition about 4 years back, I was so stressed and literally wanted to kill myself. Life seemed so meaningless you know. One day my neighbor told me to watch a movie to stay positive. haha, no kidding. She's been of great help. So, the movie was ""It's Wonderful Life"", a perennial Christmas favorite. Gosh, I loved that flick. As a matter of fact, I loved it so much that I'll be watching it maybe 100 plus time this weekend. It was so full of hope for me back then and even now. Soon after watching it the first time, I had joined many online platforms where people with the same condition would discuss their issues and make useful suggestions - I stayed away from people who'd spread negativity and talked only to those who had a positive attitude towards life. The lesson I learned: don't you worry now, see heaven's got a plan for you  Moving to my present - I have a 3 years old now... thanks to surrogacy and doctors who attended my case. I have so much to share about surrogacy - treatment that made it all possible for me and my husband. And, just like you, I am also always here to offer my assistance and help to the best of my knowledge and experience. Adiós!" |
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Post by jaseka on Oct 29, 2017 14:31:59 GMT
Have you considered surrogacy? I am thinking about it too. I was referred to a clinic. I went there for the free initial consultation. I was quite happy with the experience. The doctor seemed well-informed and guided me well. I was asked whether I could produce eggs or not. And whether I can carry a child or not. And to provide documentation certifying both things. Only then could the next course of action could be decided. I am back home now and awaiting test reports to determine just that. Once done, my husband and I will return to the clinic again with the documents. Then we will know whether we just need egg donation. Or whether we also need a surrogate mother. I am so excited!
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I am very sorry for your uterus removal. You are very kind women who want to help other women despite your own infertility issue. Your post will help all the women to come up to this forum and share their problems. I know that it is very difficult for women to go through such a situation this is the most important dream of every woman. I have also gone through a lot because of my heart disease. I am fertile but still not able to become a mother. I have a few suggestions to discuss with you. An infertile woman n has two best options to go for. One is adaptation and the other is surrogacy. I have seen a lot of women here who don’t think adaptation as a good choice and have opted for surrogacy. Now those women have their own children and a complete family. The reason behind it is that surrogacy gives you the feeling of becoming true parents. You don’t need to worry about the process. I know of a clinic that takes care of all the matters until you have the baby. You just have to go there for consultancy. I hope my suggestion proves to be helpful. Much love.