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Post by joeecan on Oct 12, 2017 19:48:31 GMT
Hi everyone, I am currently living in New York, United States of America. I am a married woman. I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I never thought of that I would be suffering from such a dangerous disease. I was happily married and this disease took all my happiness away. My husband supported me both emotionally and physically. I was really very upset because of this disease. The icing on the cake was that my doctors told me that I could not become a mother now. My ovaries were removed. This deadly disease also affected my uterus. I was told about the surrogacy. In America, surrogacy quite expensive. I cannot afford it neither my medical insurance will pay such a lump sum amount. I want to ask you people about the country or a clinic where this treatment is affordable. I have few countries on my list that are South Africa, Ukraine, and India. I have heard that India does not allow people from other countries to have surrogacy treatment. If is it so, I am only left with Ukraine and South Africa. Which country should I choose? Please give your suggestions.
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Post by erikajoe on Oct 13, 2017 15:17:30 GMT
Life is full of uncertainties I was expecting a year ago with my second husband. My first marriage ended because he didn’t want to have kids. Ending relation with a loved one was huge decision. Anyway, with my second husband I had better understanding. The goals of our life were pretty similar as well. We both were sure about kids so only after couple of months I was expecting. It was a precious moment and we were acting crazy about it. Only after a week I lost consciousness and fell in bathroom. That was my first miscarriage and then second one occurred after 8 months. Doctor told me I am unable to carry a baby due to my genetic condition which has gone worse due to hormonal imbalance. The grief I have been through is totally related. Desire to have kids will always be a part of me. My decision is to not to over think about the situation. I simply opted for surrogacy. How often it happens that infertile women can easily be cured? Time is slipping out of my hands and I cannot waste time anymore. I am looking for your advices for surrogacy programs which are safe and legal please if anyone have anything related must share.
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Post by Norma on Oct 17, 2017 9:50:58 GMT
Hi joeecan. I am really sorry for your condition. It might have been a difficult time period for you to go through all this. But the good thing is that you are all right now and life is the most important thing first. I know how it feels when you are told that you cannot have your own baby. It feels like everything has finished and there is no use of this life because what a women all wants after the marriage is a complete family. When she cannot have a complete family she is broken. The same has happened with me. After 1 year of my marriage my husband and I decided to try for a baby and in those days when we are planning my health suddenly declined. After the checkup and test I was told that I am having a heart disease and now I cannot have a baby. My world went upside down. The only cure for this disease is through treatment and after I am cured I can have a baby. 3 years of my treatment and still no progress. so I cannot wait so long to have my own baby. That is why I discussed this matter with my doctor. She told me about a clinic in Ukraine who assures 100% success to have your baby through surrogacy. It is not that much expensive and has some extra perks foe their patients. So I think you should go for the clinic in Ukraine. Keep posted.
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Post by Norma on Oct 17, 2017 9:59:26 GMT
Hi Erika. It is heartbreaking to know about your condition. There are ups and downs in one’s life but it does not mean that you have to panic and feel depressed. Be brave and strong enough to deal with this situation. First of all be close to your husband and talk to him about everything you feel. Don’t let him go away by just feeling shy and not expressing your feelings in front of him. Tell him how eager you are to have a baby. He will definitely understand you. The choice of surrogacy is a good one. I know a few clinics in Europe that will surely be able to assist you. You can pm me to get direct information. I want you to discuss it with your partner and persuade him on this. Hope everything will be fine soon enough.
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Post by anyees on Nov 4, 2017 14:40:01 GMT
It's sad to hear about your deplorable condition. Life is full of uncertainties. Hold your emotions and fight like a fighter. It's heartbreaking and an emotional shock to know that one can never conceive because being a mother and having babies is an integral part of our lives, but there is no need to panic and worry. As now surrogacy is there to benefit women in a situation like you. You should consider clinics in Ukraine Kiev as they are providing amazing services and many facilities.
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Post by waxsy on Nov 4, 2017 22:38:39 GMT
Ah! Another case of ovarian cancer and a lot of difficulties following it. Sometimes I don’t even have the words to explain my feelings for the women who have to go through such conditions in their life. You never know and one day all the happiness goes away. I cannot feel the pain of your ovarian cancer but I can feel the pain of not being a mother. But thank GOD we have surrogacy as our last resort. Surrogacy in America is truly very expensive. My friend had surrogacy two years ago. I will ask her about the clinic details for you. I hope you know all about the process of surrogacy. Still, you want to know anything about it I am here. Will be back soon with the clinic details.
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Post by lolita on Nov 8, 2017 22:16:45 GMT
I'm going through the surrogacy at the moment. As I'm infertile we had to find the solution to become parents. That's why we have chosen the surrogacy. Personally we have chosen one of Ukrainian clinics. They offered us the VIP package at an affordable price. They guaranteed that we would come back home with a baby. It's true. Our surrogate is pregnant now. We had to move to Ukraine for a while. I want to visit our surrogate as often as possible. Doctors from BioTexCom take a good care of our future baby. To say truth, we have nothing to worry about. I'm extremely happy to become a mom. Can't wait to see our baby girl. I wish you good luck, dear.
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Post by katy2017 on Nov 8, 2017 22:50:42 GMT
Hi. I used to perform the role of the surrogate 4 years ago. I can honestly say that I would choose Ukraine. I haven't heard anything about clinics in South Africa. On the other hand Ukraine has a lot of high quality medical centers. That's why think twice before making a decision.
I'm proud that you are such a brave woman. A lot of infertile women just give up when they find out that they are unable to conceive. You decided to fight and you made the right choice. Go find the reproduction center and get your baby. I'm sure you will succeed. Surrogacy gives a chance to make your dream come true. Just please, don't give up. Keep trying and your life will change. I want to support you, dear. Good luck!
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Post by anjali on Nov 21, 2017 11:10:12 GMT
Hi. I am truly sad for your condition. It may have been a troublesome day and age for you to experience this. In any case, the good thing is that you are OK now and life is the most critical thing first. I know how it feels when you are informed that you can't have your own particular infant. It has a craving for everything has completed and there is no utilization of this life since what a ladies all needs after the marriage is a total family. When she can't have an entire family she is broken. The same has occurred to me. Following 1 year of my marriage, my significant other and I chose to strive for a child and on those occasions when we are arranging my well being abruptly declined. After the checkup and test, I was informed that I am showing at least a bit of kindness infection and now I can't have an infant. My reality went topsy-turvy. The main cure for this sickness is through treatment and after I am cured I can have an infant. 3 years of my treatment and still no advance. so I can't hold up so long to have my own infant. That is the reason I examined this issue with my specialist. She informed me concerning a facility in Ukraine who guarantees 100% accomplishment to have your infant through surrogacy. It isn't that much costly and has some additional advantages adversary their patients. So I figure you ought to go to the center in Ukraine.
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Post by diannaprince on Nov 29, 2017 21:46:48 GMT
Hi Joeecan! I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. I'm glad, however, to hear that you are now exploring the options and considering surrogacy. Many saps waste their time crying and by the time they notice that there are other ways too, they no longer are fit for the alternative methods either. Anyway, coming back to your question - I would advise going for Ukraine. That is the best choice for everyone. They offer economical packages and are well known for their high success rates.
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Post by nancygadot on Nov 30, 2017 18:46:51 GMT
Hello Joe. I feel upset after reading your post. I wonder why we get ill and why diseases attack us. Why can’t we only live a normal and healthy life? Anyways, I am glad that your husband supported you. I would suggest you to go to Ukraine. I have heard a lot about it. I hope you become a mother soon.
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Post by elissaparker on Dec 3, 2017 6:32:38 GMT
Hello Joe. I hope you are doing well. Life tests us many ways. Life is testing you through a life taking disease. You need to be strong to pass the test. I am glad that your husband never left your back. We need more men like him. I feel upset to know that cancer not only affected your ovaries but your uterus too. It is hard to carry a child with you now. In your case, surrogacy is the appropriate choice. Yes, surrogacy is really expensive in USA. There are many other countries where surrogacy is legal for foreigners. Not only this, it is also pocket-friendly in those countries. You are required to do a lot of homework for choosing a suitable country. I hope you get to know a suitable country soon. Good luck.
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Post by gemmawiller on Dec 3, 2017 17:14:08 GMT
Hi there. I am sorry to hear that. You seem to have gotten the short end of the stick. May I first inquire about your cancer? Do you still have it? Or did treatment work for that? I sincerely hope it did. Now, moving on to the topic at hand. Surrogacy is a pretty good option for someone in your condition. In fact, it might be your only shot. I have a friend who couldn't have children either. She went for surrogacy too. She had a great expereince with a clinic in Ukraine. BioTexCom is the name of the clinic. She said, the journey had its fair share of ups and downs. However, it was much simpler and effective than her previous experience with IVF. She is now a proud mother of a baby girl.
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Post by smarty on Dec 12, 2017 21:10:44 GMT
Each time when I hear any infertility story I feel so sad. I don’t understand why it happens to us. Every woman is born to become a mother. So, what are we doing wrong? Why can’t we just have kids? I always dreamed to have a lot of children. My life was destroyed when I found out about my infertility. I’m very glad that my husband was supporting me all the time. He helped me to survive. He found the reproduction center and we entered the surrogacy program. It was the best decision in my life. Surrogacy helped us to become parents. I’m sure you will also succeed very soon. Choose Ukraine and you will not regret. I wish you good luck.
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Post by marion34 on Dec 17, 2017 22:05:59 GMT
Hi! I am sorry to hear about your problems. You suffered a lot. It's strange how much a woman can take and get out much stronger. I know that you want to have a baby. I believe you will find a good solution. I can tell you about my personal experience that the Ukraine is a good choice. I didn't go there because of surrogacy, but some other treatments. I can tell you only that I am very satisfied. My advice to you is to contact some clinics and see what is the best option.
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