neer
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Post by neer on Oct 1, 2017 6:09:09 GMT
Hi all ladies. I am writing this post due to the pain that I am going through. My sister has been trying to conceive but to no avail. We have tried to seek medical advice, but we are not ready to get answers. Life has become complicated on our side. As I speak her husband has divorced her. Days are filled with tears and anguish. Worse of all, her husband is not ready to accommodate her once again. Life has become complicated now to all. Her ovulation has changed, and we are not exactly sure where the problem is. The more we try to talk to her, tears fill her eyes. She is now very desperate, and she does not know what to do. We have tried to seek attention in the hospitals around and we can’t manage the cost of treatment. The only clinic that gave us a hint was one for our personal doctor. She explained everything and as such she is experiencing infrequent menstrual periods. We were wondering whether she will ever get pregnant again in her life. Could there be any treatment for such infertility? Kindly help us ladies as we are stuck without an idea of what to do.
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Post by grad on Oct 1, 2017 6:10:45 GMT
Dear I have read what your sister is going through. That should not shake your spirit. It should rather encourage you to remain strong and forge ahead. I know the gravity of the matter when a lady does not manage to conceive. It is always very disturbing and creates confusion at home. IMP is the inability of the lady to experience periods in between twenty-one to thirty-five days. This is the period where the lady is expected to ovulate. Ovulation immediately starts two weeks before the start of the next period. If the woman goes beyond thirty-five days, it is very automatic she is having a problem. Remember ovulation of the egg is very essential from pregnancy. I would recommend you take your sister to hospital for treatment and checkup. This will help her overcome such vagaries of pain she is going through. If all does not work out, it is important you encourage her to go for Surrogacy. In this procedure, she will be required to carry the husband’s sperms to the clinic. The method is cost friendly at BioTex clinic in Ukraine. On leaving the clinic, she will also be given legalized document for the same. So, there is no reason to worry and she should be happy always.
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rim
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Post by rim on Oct 1, 2017 6:11:57 GMT
It may not be lost on me that your sister might be stressed or something of the sort. I understand stress is bad to fertility. It disorients the hypothalamus. In the process, it makes the pituitary glands redundant. These glands are responsible for production of fertility hormones. These hormones are FSH and LH. The hormones stimulate the ovaries to produce more ova. If she can’t ovulate that means that is the main cause. The metabolism of the body is always destroyed by the stress. You find even the biological set up of the cells change dramatically. At his point it calls for immediate attention by the doctor. Otherwise the lady would end up staring infertility all her life. It will be prudent for you to guide her and show that it is possible to still get a kid. She can also try to inject fertility hormones. These hormones will trigger ovulation. And it is now that she can try to conceive again. Thanks a bunch for sharing such vital information.
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mek
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Post by mek on Oct 1, 2017 6:13:13 GMT
Does your sister take any type of drug? I guess these substances can halt ovulation. The chemical composition of these drugs tends to stop ovulation. They do so by deactivating the hypothalamus. The hypothalamus then finds it hard to send signals to the pituitary glands. It is this point that she should be so attentive to clinics. Remember these drugs also are like stress. They make it hard to experience periods and this is very painful. Some ladies go to an extent of experiencing painful periods. These drugs have a tendency of causing frequent contractions of the uterine walls and it pains a lot. Such can even cause miscarriage just in case she conceives. So, it is very important to rush her to hospital for treatment and checkup. If all goes to the worst, you can decide to go for IVF. It is an infertility treatment procedure that suits well with ladies that can’t conceive. If done properly with the right expertise, I am sure your sister will smile all the way. I am sure you will finally concur. Never tire as you seek the treatment dear.
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Post by amt on Oct 1, 2017 6:14:24 GMT
I am lost for words dear. What are you doing currently, I know it is very painful to go through such a long and painful process. It rips someone’s heart and creates confusion in the process. The last time I had something like that was two months ago. It was a time of stress for me as my in-law succumbed to untoward infertility. She needed me so much and desperately that she kept weeping. But due to the clinics around, we finally sighed. We were treated half way, but the solution was not found after all. She could try to conceive but to no avail. Life was not as simple as we thought. To me I better live a life of mystery than a life of lack of a child. Our hearts oozed until we found someone to direct us to Ukraine. This is a place we found the best clinic. At BioTex clinic, we desperately found a place we yearned before. She went for an IVF. As we speak now, she is in the clinic under the care of well-endowed physicians.
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ter
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Post by ter on Oct 1, 2017 6:15:39 GMT
In the even you encounter something like that dear, it is advised you to try all that you could to visit a clinic. Find a personal doctor to take you through the whole treatment I am sure you will not be spoilt of choices. What you should fathom so quickly is how to handle stress. Stress will complicate the whole process. You may be trying to seek fertility treatment but there is something that is blocking you. Be strong dear sister. The struggles should not surprise you. They should not weaken your spirit. I might be too far from where you are currently, but I know my guide will help you to overcome the worst vagaries of life. If your sister can’t get fertile, refer her to IVF. This is a procedure that I bet she will never regret. It will involve mixing the sperms and eggs in a petri dish. Then, the fertilized eggs will be inserted into the uterus via the vagina. The embryo is then allowed to implant. It can’t take a lot of time. It all depends on the place where it is being undertaken from.
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Post by shweta118 on Oct 1, 2017 6:18:33 GMT
Hi dear. I will tell you my opinion. I do not know the risks of your particular condition. I have a cousin who bore two children despite a serious health risk and did well. I have three friends of friends who also bore children however as a result two are severely disabled (pain, paralysis) and one passed (heart). It's shocking to face our own mortality as we consider creating life.
My condition is relatively minor as it goes I suppose RPL (6 losses, at least 2 of them ectopic). The first time I faced potential death (Class IV hemorrhage), I had had little idea it was a possibility. Then I thought the Dr's had fixed my problem, so chance was very low (they thought so also). So the second time I faced potential death, it was bitter to know I put myself in that situation and I feel sad for that - that for me pg is a "risk", not a joyous occasion. For me, my children mostly die, but thankfully some survived. I am still trying to get my brain around the fact that this isn't bad luck - it's a physical condition I have. I know humans are not perfect, but... well, you may have figured this out much better than I have. My sister offered to be a gestational surrogate before I was ready to consider it and it's only now so many years later that I understand what an amazing offer that was. My path didn't go in that direction. I have two friends that did third-party GS from BioTexCom clinic in Ukraine and wouldn't have it any other way. They are very well now with healthy children. I do not know anyone who did GS in my family. I hope my answer will be helpful to someone.
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Post by rebecaa8411 on Oct 2, 2017 1:27:02 GMT
Hi, I hope you are doing good? i can understand the mess condition you are in. There's no denying that one can’t get pregnant until age 40.I had a friend who conceived at an age of 43. She consulted a very famous clinic in Ukraine were the experts said that after age 45 it's almost impossible to get pregnant using your own eggs. At the same time, many 40-plus women do get pregnant. Many women use fertility treatments such as IVF or surrogacy and some conceive naturally. Pregnancy at any age has advantages as well as disadvantages. Fertility specialists say 40+ is something where moms get a realistic picture of what it's like to have a child in your 40s.According to me advantages of being pregnant in after 35+ are: You are more experienced, You make a wiser decision as compared to moms at an early age, you have more secure financially etc. With advantages comes the disadvantage as well they are: you may find hard to conceive naturally and face problems in getting pregnant. There is a high chance you may have a small or preterm baby, maybe your partner's sperm at this stage may get low and weak, at this stage if you are not properly flourished pregnancy then having a baby can strain your finances etc. You have 5-10% chances to get pregnant in every ovulation. Till an age of 40, the chance of conceiving decreases from 30 - 40 % from 70 - 80%. Delay in getting pregnant can result in miscarriages as well. Many women get menopause at a very early age so delaying pregnancy can result in an end of egg supply as well. As you are very much eager to get pregnant I would suggest you not to delay anymore and start the process. Go get an appointment with a good gynecologist and ask for the best method you can choose. I suggest you to visit Biotexcom clinic in Ukraine. I hope you will get help from my post. Wishing for your success.
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Post by jaseka on Nov 8, 2017 12:40:52 GMT
It’s good to see that you are really concerned for your sister. I feel sorry for her. Her husband should not have left her in such a difficult time. If he is not accommodating then so should help your sister. Tell your sister to opt for surrogacy. It is a very successful process as I also have experienced it. I hope things will change for her.
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Post by lolita on Nov 8, 2017 22:04:14 GMT
Hello, dear. You are so stressed out. I'm so sorry that your sister has to go through such a difficult situation. But I believe that everything will be fine. You have to figure out if she can use IVF. In case if she is unable to conceive, she can try the surrogacy. As far as I know surrogacy works in every case. As I'm infertile I also had to find the surrogate. We have chosen the reproduction center in Ukraine. After all the examinations they have found the surrogate for us. To make story shorter I can say that our surrogate is pregnant now. I visit her a couple of times a week. I'm still scared but I'm trying to calm down. I'm looking forward to meet our baby girl. You know, I wish every infertile woman could become a mother.
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Post by luckymom on Nov 28, 2017 22:39:13 GMT
I am very sorry for your sister’s problem. Infertility is the worst thing, which could happen to a woman. Your sister should stay strong because the fight will be very difficult and long. A lot of women go through hundreds of treatments to get pregnant. Unfortunately, in 50% of cases we are unable to conceive even with the help of medicine. Have you been thinking of the IVF? I know that it works in most cases. I also tried it twice, but unfortunately, it didn’t work in my case. Anyway, your sister should consult the fertility specialist. If there’s the smallest chance for her to get pregnant, she should use it. By the way, do you know that stress reduces our chances to get pregnant? If the woman is trying to get pregnant, she should be healthy, happy and relaxed. It is very important for our reproduction system. I mean it. It is obvious that your sister is stressed out. She is unable to conceive plus her husband broke up with her. Seems like her life is destroyed. But it is wrong! Her life is changing and everything will be fine. Try to support her as much as possible. I’m also single and infertile. But I decided to keep trying for a baby. That’s why I entered the surrogacy program at BioTexCom. To say more, I met a great guy, which is supporting me with my surrogacy idea. My life is changing and I feel that I am very happy at the moment. To say truth, surrogacy costs a lot. But it guarantees women, that they would become parents. As for me it is the most important. I am praying for positive result. I wish your sister good luck. Hope you both are doing fine.
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Post by natalika201 on Jan 10, 2018 12:41:31 GMT
I read a lot of information about such clinics. I was also interested in this in a certain period. I wanted to find normal prices and good service. Some firms wrote the queue for 2 years ahead. I understand that these are clinics with a great name. For two years I was not ready to wait. I think technology is the same everywhere. Need to read more feedback from customers. Reviews are useful negative and positive. This means that the clinic is working. We reviewed many reviews and websites of different clinics and in different countries. We paid attention to the qualifications of doctors. I learned a lot about the surrogate mother. Many people recommend the Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom - Center for Reproductive Medicine. I read about this clinic, and I liked it. There are doctors, translators and psychologists. Therefore, in communication there are no problems. I liked that the arrival and accommodation included in the payment. The clinic has a large base of surrogate mothers. All of them are healthy and pass many tests. I also liked that I can undergo a course of infertility treatment. There is a chance that I may have a child. Doctors are very attentive and positive. The equipment is modern and uses new developments. On the wall I saw hundreds of photos of parents and children. This is so positive. Most likely, we will go to this clinic. I looked at the price, and I was pleased with the prices. If someone has found out about the Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom, write reviews. I will be glad to know more information. I see that there are already 24 responses to this post. So the problem is very urgent. Many families solve this problem.
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Post by pansy on Jan 31, 2018 16:42:18 GMT
I am sorry to read about your sister. I am facing some grave issues with my own fertility capabilities. I suggest you ask your sister to try out acupuncture as well. It is said to help in regularizing the menstrual cycle. Fertility treatments are available in all forms now. I, myself is having a surrogacy process from BioTexCom. If your sister continues to face this issue; then I advise consult doctor and have any one of the fertility treatment. This way no more time will be wasted and she will be able to conceive. I had been diagnosed with Fallopian tubes blockage and was told I cannot conceive naturally. Now; I have opted for surrogacy and having all the positive hopes.
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Post by lydias22 on Feb 1, 2018 7:38:18 GMT
it's so sad to hear that women all over the world are going through such issues. you need to be strong for her as well I feel do not let these emotions shake you girl. you have to take care of your sister emotionally if not physically. If the divorce paper has been signed both of you should move on, if not you can always propose the idea of having a surrogate mother that resembles your sister. If her husband is a logical person he might still take her back. There are some great clinics out there with a huge bank of surrogate women and you can pick them as well. I have been going through a similar struggle, I had met an accident around a year ago and lost my child, the doctor told me that I was completely infertile, and it could not be recovered. I've also researched for such procedures to cure my infertility but after wasting quite some money I realised its futile as none of them guarantee 100% success. I hope all ends well for you and your sister. she is truly blessed to have a sister like you with her.I'm sure that she cherishes your existence. It's true that in times of struggle only family helps you out. I will be thinking of you and your sister today.
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Post by catriona on Feb 1, 2018 11:03:42 GMT
Hi Neer, so sorry for your sister's condition. Her husband should not divorced her as it is not her fault. Anyhow, do not lose hope. There ia a solution to every problem in this world and having irregular periods is not a serious disease. A common ovulation problem that affects about 5% to 10% of women in their reproductive years is polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). In most cases, the ovaries become enlarged and appear covered with tiny, fluid filled cysts. Symptoms include, no periods, irregular periods or irregular bleeding. If she do have irregular periods, it is certainly possible to become pregnant. Understanding the cause of irregularity and how you can help te restore cucle regularity can help her embark on her trying to conceive adventure. Ask her to consult a good gynaecologist. It's medicatition is definately present and it's not incurable.
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