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Post by melissa on Aug 9, 2017 10:31:55 GMT
Hi all, I am 45 and on my second IVF cycle for egg retrieval and my doctor told that out of 18 eggs. 10 survived after fertilization, 5 died, 3 went haywire and 2 are very poor quality which leaves me with another failed IVF cycle. I am considering surrogacy but don’t want to go for donor eggs. I really don’t know what to do, should we give the whole idea of having a baby, please help I am very depressed
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Post by bettygary on Aug 9, 2017 10:33:35 GMT
Hello, really sorry to hear about the trouble you are going through. I am in the beginning of my IVF cycle and know how difficult it could become. But you should never give up hope and be determined. I have heard such issues from many women and also that they kept trying and eventually succeeded. Please, please do not give up, you can consider taking a second opinion or a clinic in some other country. We are strangers, but if you need to talk please message me.
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Post by natashawilliams on Aug 9, 2017 10:35:31 GMT
Hi, sorry to know about your story. The poor quality of your eggs is probably due to your age. But keep trying as there are many success stories with similar situation as yours. One of my friends also had similar situation, she is now 48 with a cute kido. She could not bear child due to incompetent cervix and was considering surrogacy via her own eggs. Her egg quality was poor due to age but she was determined to get it done through her eggs. She concentrated on improving the quality of her eggs, her doc. put her on DHEA for 2 months then switched to vitamin D, CoQ 10 and Omega 3 and within a year her egg quality improved and then finally specialist was able to retrieve good quality eggs. So don’t lose hope, consult your FS and get to know about this treatment. Best of luck.
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Post by melissa on Aug 9, 2017 10:35:57 GMT
Hi, thanks a lot for sharing. Really you provided me hope. I didn’t knew about this treatment method and even my specialist didn’t suggested. I now feel a bit confident that I too can have my own child. Really this information has helped me a lot.
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Post by blancaharper on Aug 9, 2017 10:39:05 GMT
Hi Natasha I have failed 3 IVF cycles due to poor egg quality and undergoing the 4th one, this would be my last chance to become pregnant and deliver a healthy baby. I talked to the specialist about improving egg quality and he said that I can’t get this treatment as I have low level of AMH, so before giving hope please clarify who are the right candidates to get this treatment.
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Post by natashawilliams on Aug 9, 2017 10:40:18 GMT
Hi Blancahaper, I never said that anyone can take this treatment. I had said and again saying that you should consult your specialists about this treatment. They are the best person who can give you better answers and know what is good or bad for you. My friend who underwent this treatment, it was suggested to her by her specialist who performed various tests on her and only then suggested this treatment to improve egg quality. So please all, do not take medications on your own, consult the specialist.
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Post by kellyks201 on Aug 10, 2017 6:20:32 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand your physical and mental state at this time. This is good opportunity for me to help you to overcome this difficult situation on behalf of my own experience to handle this critical problem in effective way. I also face poor equality problem. You need not to lose hope. There are many effective methods that can change poor to good quality eggs within two and three month with strictly follow on rule and regulation timely. The first and foremost thing I want to say to handle this critical problem with positive attitude. The positive attitude and positive affirmation are effective tools to cure incurable disease in medical history.
You should understand the power of positive attitude and affirmation in effective way. The next important thing is balanced diet. You are poor quality simply signify that your body hormone level is not in balance. You should keep your body hormone level in balance to enhance quality of eggs that is very beneficial for you to conceive in minimum time. There are various Medical Researchers reports that show effect of balanced diet. The unbalanced diet should come become cause of infertility in future. The lack of physical exercise is second main reason of infertility. You should do proper routine work with little exercise to maintain proper blood supply to all reproduction system that not only enhance your immunity system but also enhance your egg quality to conceive in limited time. This is your turn to bring brightness into your dream life with healthy baby gift. I hope you got soon good news.
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Post by anjalisha on Aug 24, 2017 7:44:16 GMT
Hello dear. I know very well you have decided to go with surrogacy. It is the best and high accuracy decision you can achieve. You have made the best decision in your life and hope you will achieve the success in your life. It is an advance medical treatment which can enhance the chance to become pregnant and conceive the healthy baby. If you are worried about the donor eggs then you won’t need to stress your mind. Whether you receive the donor eggs but you will become the real mother and your genes will be included in the baby. You should remain calm, think positive and go for the surrogacy. It is the best option for you and surely you will become the mother and also an inspirational for the other women too. It is the most recommended and best treatment to have the baby. Although it is quite expensive but give the high accuracy result to you.
It makes your eggs strong and you can easily survive to the pregnancy level. During this stage, you need to take care of your health properly. You can eat the healthy and high nutrients foods. You can add the vitamins minerals food in your diet. It is the best and effective diet that can help in conceiving the healthy baby. Moreover to keep the mind healthy and refresh you need to change your schedule and should wake up early in the morning. You should go for the morning walk daily and concentrate on yoga. Surely you will be blessed with the healthy baby and it won’t effect on the motherhood. You can use the donor eggs and go for the surrogacy option.
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Post by michael24x on Aug 28, 2017 7:47:37 GMT
Hi and hello sister this open online forum to share your personal problem at this reliable platform. I can understand your physical and mental stage at this time. It is not easy job to manage stress and depression in professional way. I am feeling happy to help you to overcome this horrible situation in your life to defeat infertility problem. I also face same problem like you just three year ago in my life. This is golden opportunity for me to share my success story with you to overcome this horrible situation on behalf of my personal life experience. You should not miss this opportunity to take maximum benefit from my own life experience. I want to forget those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to infertility problem. It is medical certified fact that stress and depression are responsible for infertility problem. You should handle it in medical way to get maximum benefit in short time period.
I want to accept my husband help to handle this horrible situation. We have true bonding to understand each other physical needs and emotional very well. We start healthy lifestyle and early morning walk to maintain high hemoglobin level and proper blood supply that enhance healthy sperm count and high quality eggs that is beneficial for you in many ways. You can choose the right path with surrogacy that is totally medical research based treatment that has high success rate all over the world. This becomes boon for infertile women that has poor quality like you to defeat infertility problem in easy and effective way. I hope you get sufficient information to defeat infertility in your life to enjoy healthy baby gift that fulfill your whole life with happiness.
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Post by anjaliraghu on Aug 28, 2017 8:00:42 GMT
Hello dear. I am really sorry about what you are going through. But I am here to support you and clear all the doubts. I know due to the poor egg quality it is very difficult to get pregnant and it cause the infertility problems. But in this phase you do not need to get panic and go for the best solution. We are living in the advance medical research test generation where everything is possible. Now you won’t need to worry and seek for the opportunity. I also had gone though infertility phase and then I lose the hope. But once I met with my friend in the party where we both discuss about the problem in deep. She gives me the best solution and suggests me about the surrogacy which enhances the chance to get pregnant. I agree with your question about the eggs but the genes will remain the same of yours into the baby. My dear friend, you won’t need to worry and go for the surrogacy which defeat the infertility and satisfy many women. Along with this you need to care about many other things which can help in getting pregnant soon and help in conceiving the healthy baby.
First of all I really appreciate your efforts and like to inspire other women through your decision. With the little more effort you can get fertile and easily conceive the baby. I am feeling happy to share my suggestion which is beneficial for your health. You need to take care of your health properly and avoid lifting the heavy things. In this phase you need the complete support, love and care of your husband. You can add the vitamins and iron rich food in your diet and eat the minerals and vitamins foods daily. I wish you all the best.
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Post by anjaliraghu on Sept 1, 2017 9:45:29 GMT
Hi welcome sister, I can understand your problem in easy way. The first and foremost thing, I want to suggest you to handle this horrible situation with positive attitude towards life to get maximum benefit in short time period to defeat infertility problem in easy way. I can understand your mental stage at this time. I am totally surprised to see that you are also facing same problem like me. This is golden opportunity for me to solve your problem from my personal life experience to handle this horrible situation. I want to express kind heart thanks to my husband to support me at this difficult time and provide proper guidance to achieve your target in limited time period. We consult with the popular gynecologist of you plan to get permanent solution of my problem. It is very horrible to remember those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to my infertility problem.
You can start your proper planning from day first to defeat poor quality problem in short time period. I want to suggest you to choose natural way to enhance your eggs quality. You should maintain your body hormone level in balance that is very necessary to enhance eggs quality with high hemoglobin level. You can start easily with rich iron food and folic acid that is beneficial for you to conceive naturally. You should make proper planning to handle stress and depression management and professional way. You can start early morning walk and exercise as per your capacity and endurance. You can go for the higher level to enjoy maximum benefit for both you and your husband to enhance eggs quality and sperm count value to defeat infertility.
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Post by panchal on Sept 4, 2017 8:09:07 GMT
Hello
I can understand that infertility has really depressed you and you have to make a choice now. But, please don’t worry as everything will be alright and surrogacy is a good option. However, surrogacy is a costly option and there are other ways to which you might not be thinking now. There are many ways to cure infertility problems and I think your problem can be cured naturally. There are many medicines available in Ayurveda and also allopath which can surely cure you. First of all, you have to remove all your stress from your mind because stress also hampers fertility. You can try yoga or do some sort of exercises in order to cure yourself. Sometimes, health issues get solved with proper exercise and yoga because fat is also a reason for infertility. I suggest you find the root cause of your infertility problem that is, cause for poor egg quality. I think sometimes we ignore the root cause and move on with treatments like IVF. You must try to improve your egg equality first and for that, you can consult a good gynecologist. I am sure a good gynecologist will be able to correct your problem and avoid surrogacy. However, you can put surrogacy as your last option but, you must try first to solve your problem. Your problem is very small if you compare your problem with other women in this world. There are many inspiring stories in this forum from which you can take inspiration. The point is you are not alone, we all are with you and all the best for your future.
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Post by saw on Sept 14, 2017 10:54:38 GMT
Hi dear, thank you very much for this. It is a very motivating piece. During birth, every lady is born with a finite number of eggs. With time these eggs end one by one. Which means one day, they will all run out. Each and every month, a woman releases eggs. The remaining eggs will be getting lower and lower. The body is very selective. It always uses the best eggs and leaves the less desirable ones. Due to age, the number of eggs declines dramatically. The remaining eggs will not be viable at all. This usually happens most at the onset of menopause. From menopause, the lady will always find it difficult to conceive. All the eggs will have declined and the only way could be surrogacy. It is not something one can be happy of. But if done properly you can still conceive. Otherwise thanks very much for sharing dear.
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Post by neer on Sept 14, 2017 11:03:56 GMT
It is not always dear to fathom the pain of getting to menopause. Worse of all especially if you have not finished getting children. It would be a painful experience though there are a variety of methods and procedures to relinquish that. Remember dear it is very important to always understand your egg quality of all things. The egg quality may depend on very many factors. More so what matters the most is the number that remains after every ovulation. During old age, the eggs are very damaged. As a result, the lady may not have a healthy pregnancy. Besides, some eggs would be having less chromosomes. Therefore, a successful pregnancy would be hard to develop. Worse still there will be other eggs that would not be having enough energy to develop and survive. Many ladies go through this which end up lending them infertile. Remember at 45 years it would be too hard. The best option could be surrogacy. The operation is done with the husband’s sperms. Your case may not be that genetic. It is because of age.
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Post by mek on Sept 14, 2017 11:14:49 GMT
The most important question here is? What causes egg quality? The answer here lies in the woman’s age. As she gets old, her eggs quality deteriorates. At around 40 years of age, her eggs become worse and becomes bad. The bad ones will more than the good ones. I have ever seen some young ladies with a problem of egg quality. For this one, it could be genetics. Some other ladies may be having problems with their body in terms of health. This poses a challenge to their fertility. Lifestyle is another hindrance which most ignore. Such include smoking and drugs abuse. But at the age of forty-five, it would be very impossible for a lady to conceive. It is at this time I advise them to go for surrogacy. For it to be successful to the lady’s wish, it would be vital for lady to use the husband’s sperms. otherwise I am so glad for such an insightful post.
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